30 Dating Rules to Remember
by Giovanni Casanova

The following list has been compiled as the result of insights on these forums as well as my own personal experiences. Now, in life there are sometimes exceptions to rules, but in general these rules should be followed. Also, some of these aren't "rules" per se, but more like observations or insights. Enjoy.



RULE 1: Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it's the latter choice.

RULE 2: Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

RULE 3: Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

RULE 4: Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

RULE 5: Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women.

RULE 6: After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

RULE 7: Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

RULE 8: If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

RULE 9: First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

RULE 10: Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

RULE 11: Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS.

RULE 12: A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

RULE 13: There is no such thing as a "soulmate" or "the one". It doesn't exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

RULE 14: Don't put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I'm told.

RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

RULE 17: Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

RULE 18: The challenge is part of the fun. Don't short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

RULE 19: If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

RULE 20: Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

RULE 21: Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

RULE 22: Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

RULE 23: Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

RULE 24: Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

RULE 25: Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

RULE 26: Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn't worth stealing from your best friend.

RULE 27: Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won't be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't.

RULE 28: Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

RULE 29: Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

RULE 30: If you aren't sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time... and there's always a next time.


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Mynd44
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Excellent unlike the nonsense I normally read here

FP pls.

This is so apt op. Well done for this nice tips.

Rule 1 spend generously on your woman. 🤣🤣🤣

Rule 1 spend generously on your woman.

Rokiat:
Rule 1 spend generously on your woman.

Gbam 💯🤭

Nice tips

Lemme copy and paste it somewhere for future purposes

Fedrick100:
Nice tips

Lemme copy and paste it somewhere for future purposes

Relationships has no Rules Simply Be Yourself and Learn From Your Experiences to Correcting Your Anomalies ...

Most Women has Generic Behaviours & Personal Behaviour ....


The One Rule I Know is that "A Man Must Conquer His Woman By Matching Up Her Worlds as far as the Benefits Outweighs the Costs, if Not Retrace Your Steps and Find Your Levels"!

DonroxyII:
Relationships has no Rules Simply Be Yourself and Learn From Your Experiences to Correcting Your Anomalies ...

Most Women has Generic Behaviours & Personal Behaviour ....


The One Rule I Know is that "A Man Must Conquer His Woman By Matching Up Her Worlds as far as the Benefits Outweighs the Costs, if Not Retrace Your Steps and Find Your Levels"!

Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

Rokiat:
Rule 1 spend generously on your woman.

Especially hungry women like you.

I like it

Fedrick100:


Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

The problem with most Nigerian guys is that they are too afraid to maintain the frame in relationship and very scare of losing a girl.

Girls will tests you all the time in a relationship and it is your job to put her in her place and show her who is the boss, if you are very weak to enforce your boundary she will lose the attraction she have for you and you will turn to a weak and bloody simp in her eyes.

The moment she started making those demands you should have called her out and don't even hesitate to dump her but you compromised because of your fear and at the end you lose her anyway.

NIgerian women are the way they are because most Nigerian men are weak. When these women started doing things you don't like instead of standing up to them and even dump them when they won't submit most Nigerian men would rather suck it up and keep putting up with the bullshits at the end the women would see them as weak and dump them or cheat on them anyway because women don't have attraction for weak guys.


Kill any sign of desperation completely. She is not interested in visiting you without getting money? she may as well not come to your place again forever, that mean her interest in you is not high enough, she want money before she can make up with you ? tell her you are not even interested in touching her again. Always have one leg outside the relationship and don't hesitate to dump a girl when she won't submit and keep acting bitchy, a girl that like you won't give you so much stress and trouble, she may occasionally behave abnormal but it won't be for long if you always put her in her place and show her you are the boss. When most Nigerian men have these attitudes you will also see the changes in Nigerian women, high rate of feminism, boss women and promiscuous behaviors is a sign of so many weak men.

Fedrick100:


Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

It takes alot to Be a Man But It Only takes a Man to Manage a Woman Successfully

If You ain't a Man, You can't Manage a Woman Regardless of The Money You throw Around !

Welcome to Earth!