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Samantha124:
Well, since they married my sisters, they're my brothers.

I'm not everywhere around them, we live far apart but we're a family and a family is supposed to stick together and not fall apart just because we live far apart... The one that his hard on his son is my first brother in law, but despite his strictness, he's a good man, a wonderful husband to my sister, and a great brother to me.

Him and I have a good brother and sister relationship.

I sincerely wish you well and hope a good resolution is reached.

That is definitely not alcohol influence, it is better family scatter than let one mofos rape you

Samantha124:
The main problem with my second brother in law started back in 2021, we were having a party at home and I decided to go to bed before everyone because I was tired. PART 1

While I was in my sleep I could hear some footsteps but at first it was like a dream, but then they started sounding like they were getting closer and they started to sound real... I immediately woke up and found my brother in law standing on my side of the bed, PART 2

later in the afternoon I decided to go take a nap and I left everyone outside, as I was napping, I felt someone touch me and at first I thought maybe it was my fiance... PART 3.

I see a consistent pattern here

9182736455O1999:
Ok go and sleep again let us see if he will come and touch you again.

With the door wide open as usual, even when the known wolf is lurking around the parlor

After the first incident, i wonder why there was no precautionary measures for the 2nd & 3rd incidents

Samantha124:
He knew that my parents weren't going to come home until the following day and the nature of his job permits him to have a gun.

I think he planned the whole thing... I mean why choose a couch over a comfortable bed when you don't have a motive for it?

sister, get married and leave that place. And only come home when necessary. U are not a kid. U now have something someone want.
To avoid wahala, get married and leave.
Meanwhile that is the spirit of lust controlling him. Just be praying for him.

ChybuzzDD:
With the door wide open as usual, even when the known wolf is lurking around the parlor

After the first incident, i wonder why there was no precautionary measures for the 2nd & 3rd incidents

As in eh

Draslo:
Your yansh is big abi?

Yes
E big well well. U fit sit on top 😹

MrAgbako:
Yes
E big well well. U fit sit on top 😹

.😆
Samantha124, is this true?

The other sister that was in the house is also my older sister.

eyinjuege:
OK.
I thought you had another sister in the house.
It still shouldn't affect your father's decision not to have him around his home.
He disrespected your whole family, and not only his wife

I reported everything to my mom and all I wanted was for her to warn him against doing what he was doing because it was making me uncomfortable.

I knew that if I reported to Dad earlier, it was going to be a very serious issue because my Dad is very overprotective of me... And on top of that he's a very busy man and I didn't want to stress him because I thought the whole thing could be easily resolved.

And now my mom has come up with an excuse of how she didn't warn her son in law because she was afraid of hurting my sister's feelings and how she didn't want her to feel like the family is trying to kick her husband out.

She says she thought it was just alcohol and nothing serious, it's clear she chose her son in law over me.. I've now left the family.

ChybuzzDD:
With the door wide open as usual, even when the known wolf is lurking around the parlor

After the first incident, i wonder why there was no precautionary measures for the 2nd & 3rd incidents

I think you're stupid,I'm sorry for that, Bible say affliction shall not rise the second time,he did it the first time and close your month,he came the second time and you refuse to tell your dad, I think you've feelings for him

How do you insult someone and then mention the Bible in the same sentence?

Anyway, that's a rhetorical question.

Thanks for the insults.

Baronthecelebri:
I think you're stupid,I'm sorry for that, Bible say affliction shall not rise the second time,he did it the first time and close your month,he came the second time and you refuse to tell your dad, I think you've feelings for him

Samantha124:
I have two brothers-in law and the first one started dating my sister while still in high school, him and I have that good brother and sister relationship. Sometimes we can even spent about 30 minutes talking over the phone and discussing about life in general and him telling me about the kids, that's how close we are.

As for the second brother In law, he started dating my sister while she was still in college, him and I have had a bit of differences in past because he has a drinking problem and I sometimes just don't like the way he behaves when he's drunk. But I accepted him as my brother in law because my sister loves him despite his drinking problem.

The main problem with my second brother in law started back in 2021, we were having a party at home and I decided to go to bed before everyone because I was tired. It happened that this brother in law of mine was drunk and he started embarrassing my sister and she decided to take him to the other room in the house and asked him to stay there. I was in my room sleeping, but not yet asleep when my room door opened and at first I thought it was just my mom, or one of my aunts or cousins. I expected the person to switch on the light since I switched it off, but this person started walking towards my bed. I lifted my head to check who it was and I found out that it was my second brother in law, I immediately dismissed him from my room.

I told everyone about it the following day except my father and my then boyfriend, who's now my fiance and they all laughed it off and said he was just drunk and lost, that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. Fine, I let it go... Last year in August a close relative of ours was getting married and everyone traveled home to prepare for the wedding.

A day before the wedding my parents and two sisters decided that they were going to spent the night at the relative's place as they were help preparing for the wedding the following day, but I and my other sister were told to go home with our nephews and nieces... Later in the evening my sister brought my brother in law to the house and he had started embarrassing her again because he was drunk.. I was already in my room when they arrived, though I was not asleep, I decided to go and check on them because I can't stand my brother in law whenever he's drunk.... Apparently my sister immediately prepared a room for him to sleep in but he turned it down and said he was okay with sleeping on the couch in the living room... The room used to be previously my sister's before she got married and it's a bit far from the living room.

But mine is close to the living room, after he refused to go to the room that was prepared for him, my sister ended up giving him a blanket to sleep on the couch and she drove back to the relative's place. Everything seemed fine and we all went to sleep. While I was in my sleep I could hear some footsteps but at first it was like a dream, but then they started sounding like they were getting closer and they started to sound real... I immediately woke up and found my brother in law standing on my side of the bed, I jumped up from the bed and asked him what was he doing in my room, but he started apologizing and told me of how he thought it was the bathroom.

I was so scared I kicked him out of my room and locked the door, I checked the time and it was around 2am.. I Immediately called my sister and explained to her what her husband did and asked her to come and fetch him because he was scaring me... But she told me to just lock the door and don't mind him... I couldn't get some sleep since then and he came back to the door at around 4am and attempted to open it again, but it was locked.

In the morning I waited for him to leave the house first before I could get out of my room, I told the sister I was with in the house about it and she suggested that I tell Mom because Dad was going to overreact... I then told Mom and she said she'll see what she can do, I was hoping that she'll warn him about it, but to my surprise, she didn't do anything about it... I was hurt, but I let it go, again.

I could've told my fiance about it, but I didn't because I knew that there was going to be a fight if I did, and I didn't want a fight.

Now this past Thursday we traveled home for Easter and I was so happy to see my family again... As usual, we had a family chillax on Friday and everyone came through to hangout, this time my fiance was also there.. later in the afternoon I decided to go take a nap and I left everyone outside, as I was napping, I felt someone touch me and at first I thought maybe it was my fiance... I was shocked when I found out that it was my brother in law and[b] he was trying to have his way with me[/b] but fortunately, I managed to screaming and everyone came running.

A fight broke out between him and my fiance and I was so scared because my brother in law is the kind of a person who likes carrying a gun with him, but they were separated... My father got to find out that I complained to my mom before about my brother in law, but she didn't do anything about it and now he's mad at my mom for letting things get this far.

Now the family is divided... I love my sister, nephews and niece, I don't want to cut ties with them because of her husband and their father, but I don't know how I'm going to do it because I don't want anything that has to do with my brother in law.. Some say I should press charges for attempted rape, while others say that I should let the family elders intervene... I'm still confused right now, I don't know what to do.

I just can't help but feel guilty that if I had told my Dad about the whole thing from 2021, all of this would've been prevented.

I find that statement rather ambiguous. Did he press your breast or pull away your skirt or finger your or what??

Did he show you his dick.?

Maybe you look exactly like your sis. Maybe you're the younger version he saw when he fell in love with her. You remind him of your sister in her youth and he definitely wants the younger version again.

Honestly speaking I don't have the energy to explain how it happened.

24SEVEN:
I find that statement rather ambiguous. Did he press your breast or pull away your skirt or finger your or what??

Did he show you his dick.?

Maybe you look exactly like your sis. Maybe you're the younger version he saw when he fell in love with her. You remind him of your sister in her youth and he definitely wants the younger version again.

Samantha124:
Honestly speaking I don't have the energy to explain how it happened.

Pls try , so other girls can learn.

In SA anything is possible

rape is normal only harsh on foreigners.

Get a taser

TheRealOwner:
How come you are always sleeping early and leaving everyone else at the party??

He's not going to change. Just cut them off

Exactly @bold
& she is always around the brother in-law all the time.

What is your point exactly?

And how am I always around him?

Rubbiish:
Exactly @bold
& she is always around the brother in-law all the time.

Samantha124:
I have two brothers-in law and the first one started dating my sister while still in high school, him and I have that good brother and sister relationship. Sometimes we can even spent about 30 minutes talking over the phone and discussing about life in general and him telling me about the kids, that's how close we are.

As for the second brother In law, he started dating my sister while she was still in college, him and I have had a bit of differences in past because he has a drinking problem and I sometimes just don't like the way he behaves when he's drunk. But I accepted him as my brother in law because my sister loves him despite his drinking problem.

The main problem with my second brother in law started back in 2021, we were having a party at home and I decided to go to bed before everyone because I was tired. It happened that this brother in law of mine was drunk and he started embarrassing my sister and she decided to take him to the other room in the house and asked him to stay there. I was in my room sleeping, but not yet asleep when my room door opened and at first I thought it was just my mom, or one of my aunts or cousins. I expected the person to switch on the light since I switched it off, but this person started walking towards my bed. I lifted my head to check who it was and I found out that it was my second brother in law, I immediately dismissed him from my room.

I told everyone about it the following day except my father and my then boyfriend, who's now my fiance and they all laughed it off and said he was just drunk and lost, that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. Fine, I let it go... Last year in August a close relative of ours was getting married and everyone traveled home to prepare for the wedding.

A day before the wedding my parents and two sisters decided that they were going to spent the night at the relative's place as they were help preparing for the wedding the following day, but I and my other sister were told to go home with our nephews and nieces... Later in the evening my sister brought my brother in law to the house and he had started embarrassing her again because he was drunk.. I was already in my room when they arrived, though I was not asleep, I decided to go and check on them because I can't stand my brother in law whenever he's drunk.... Apparently my sister immediately prepared a room for him to sleep in but he turned it down and said he was okay with sleeping on the couch in the living room... The room used to be previously my sister's before she got married and it's a bit far from the living room.

But mine is close to the living room, after he refused to go to the room that was prepared for him, my sister ended up giving him a blanket to sleep on the couch and she drove back to the relative's place. Everything seemed fine and we all went to sleep. While I was in my sleep I could hear some footsteps but at first it was like a dream, but then they started sounding like they were getting closer and they started to sound real... I immediately woke up and found my brother in law standing on my side of the bed, I jumped up from the bed and asked him what was he doing in my room, but he started apologizing and told me of how he thought it was the bathroom.

I was so scared I kicked him out of my room and locked the door, I checked the time and it was around 2am.. I Immediately called my sister and explained to her what her husband did and asked her to come and fetch him because he was scaring me... But she told me to just lock the door and don't mind him... I couldn't get some sleep since then and he came back to the door at around 4am and attempted to open it again, but it was locked.

In the morning I waited for him to leave the house first before I could get out of my room, I told the sister I was with in the house about it and she suggested that I tell Mom because Dad was going to overreact... I then told Mom and she said she'll see what she can do, I was hoping that she'll warn him about it, but to my surprise, she didn't do anything about it... I was hurt, but I let it go, again.

I could've told my fiance about it, but I didn't because I knew that there was going to be a fight if I did, and I didn't want a fight.

Now this past Thursday we traveled home for Easter and I was so happy to see my family again... As usual, we had a family chillax on Friday and everyone came through to hangout, this time my fiance was also there.. later in the afternoon I decided to go take a nap and I left everyone outside, as I was napping, I felt someone touch me and at first I thought maybe it was my fiance... I was shocked when I found out that it was my brother in law and he was trying to have his way with me but fortunately, I managed to screaming and everyone came running.

A fight broke out between him and my fiance and I was so scared because my brother in law is the kind of a person who likes carrying a gun with him, but they were separated... My father got to find out that I complained to my mom before about my brother in law, but she didn't do anything about it and now he's mad at my mom for letting things get this far.

Now the family is divided... I love my sister, nephews and niece, I don't want to cut ties with them because of her husband and their father, but I don't know how I'm going to do it because I don't want anything that has to do with my brother in law.. Some say I should press charges for attempted rape, while others say that I should let the family elders intervene... I'm still confused right now, I don't know what to do.

I just can't help but feel guilty that if I had told my Dad about the whole thing from 2021, all of this would've been prevented.

Good morning, you know your sister is not safe neither is your immediate family safe with that guy, imagine a drunkard with a gun.

You are a South African and must have heard stories of how these men kill their wives and sometimes their in-laws.

I thought they conduct mental and physical evaluation on people before they are given licenses to carry guns.

Please any update about the electricity problem in SA, when are we gonna have stable power supply? It has been stage 6 and 5 since Easter.

I just checked ur profile, Samantha you are a beautiful woman

Always In a room sleeping or napping....na only sleep u go come for this world?

Samantha124:
He knew that my parents weren't going to come home until the following day and the nature of his job permits him to have a gun.

I think he planned the whole thing... I mean why choose a couch over a comfortable bed when you don't have a motive for it?

What is the difference or the differences, etc; between Samantha123 & Samantha124...?...

What do you think?

Emmanuel30a:
What is the difference or the differences, etc; between Samantha123 & Samantha124...?...

Samantha124:
What do you think?

Tell me..., as I don't know what/how to think... I don't want to blinks..., let alone shrinks&stinks... Did u gets...?... Or, u need a pink ink link or some pink inks links...;without a blink or "twinks", etc; of an eye...? Within a blink&twinks of an eye, or a/some blinks, stinks, stings/stinged eyes...? Maybe u already have or using a "stinks" pink lips/lipstick/wetlips, etc; with a blue ink or blue inks...etc...?... I do thinks of one difference, which is size or fatness... The similarity, etc; is in the country of residence..., which is South Africa...

Well, I'm an impostor..

Emmanuel30a:
Tell me..., as I don't know what/how to think... I don't want to blinks..., let alone shrinks&stinks... Did u gets...?... Or, u need a pink ink link or some pink inks links...;without a blink or "twinks", etc; of an eye...? Within a blink&twinks of an eye, or a/some blinks, stinks, stings/stinged eyes...? Maybe u already have or using a "stinks" pink lips/lipstick/wetlips, etc; with a blue ink or blue inks...etc...?... I do thinks of one difference, which is size or fatness... The similarity, etc; is in the country of residence..., which is South Africa...

Samantha124:
Well, I'm an impostor..

Okay, no problem... THERE IS GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...

This is super story

Samantha124:
I have two brothers-in law and the first one started dating my sister while still in high school, him and I have that good brother and sister relationship. Sometimes we can even spent about 30 minutes talking over the phone and discussing about life in general and him telling me about the kids, that's how close we are.

As for the second brother In law, he started dating my sister while she was still in college, him and I have had a bit of differences in past because he has a drinking problem and I sometimes just don't like the way he behaves when he's drunk. But I accepted him as my brother in law because my sister loves him despite his drinking problem.

The main problem with my second brother in law started back in 2021, we were having a party at home and I decided to go to bed before everyone because I was tired. It happened that this brother in law of mine was drunk and he started embarrassing my sister and she decided to take him to the other room in the house and asked him to stay there. I was in my room sleeping, but not yet asleep when my room door opened and at first I thought it was just my mom, or one of my aunts or cousins. I expected the person to switch on the light since I switched it off, but this person started walking towards my bed. I lifted my head to check who it was and I found out that it was my second brother in law, I immediately dismissed him from my room.

I told everyone about it the following day except my father and my then boyfriend, who's now my fiance and they all laughed it off and said he was just drunk and lost, that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. Fine, I let it go... Last year in August a close relative of ours was getting married and everyone traveled home to prepare for the wedding.

A day before the wedding my parents and two sisters decided that they were going to spent the night at the relative's place as they were help preparing for the wedding the following day, but I and my other sister were told to go home with our nephews and nieces... Later in the evening my sister brought my brother in law to the house and he had started embarrassing her again because he was drunk.. I was already in my room when they arrived, though I was not asleep, I decided to go and check on them because I can't stand my brother in law whenever he's drunk.... Apparently my sister immediately prepared a room for him to sleep in but he turned it down and said he was okay with sleeping on the couch in the living room... The room used to be previously my sister's before she got married and it's a bit far from the living room.

But mine is close to the living room, after he refused to go to the room that was prepared for him, my sister ended up giving him a blanket to sleep on the couch and she drove back to the relative's place. Everything seemed fine and we all went to sleep. While I was in my sleep I could hear some footsteps but at first it was like a dream, but then they started sounding like they were getting closer and they started to sound real... I immediately woke up and found my brother in law standing on my side of the bed, I jumped up from the bed and asked him what was he doing in my room, but he started apologizing and told me of how he thought it was the bathroom.

I was so scared I kicked him out of my room and locked the door, I checked the time and it was around 2am.. I Immediately called my sister and explained to her what her husband did and asked her to come and fetch him because he was scaring me... But she told me to just lock the door and don't mind him... I couldn't get some sleep since then and he came back to the door at around 4am and attempted to open it again, but it was locked.

In the morning I waited for him to leave the house first before I could get out of my room, I told the sister I was with in the house about it and she suggested that I tell Mom because Dad was going to overreact... I then told Mom and she said she'll see what she can do, I was hoping that she'll warn him about it, but to my surprise, she didn't do anything about it... I was hurt, but I let it go, again.

I could've told my fiance about it, but I didn't because I knew that there was going to be a fight if I did, and I didn't want a fight.

Now this past Thursday we traveled home for Easter and I was so happy to see my family again... As usual, we had a family chillax on Friday and everyone came through to hangout, this time my fiance was also there.. later in the afternoon I decided to go take a nap and I left everyone outside, as I was napping, I felt someone touch me and at first I thought maybe it was my fiance... I was shocked when I found out that it was my brother in law and he was trying to have his way with me but fortunately, I managed to screaming and everyone came running.

A fight broke out between him and my fiance and I was so scared because my brother in law is the kind of a person who likes carrying a gun with him, but they were separated... My father got to find out that I complained to my mom before about my brother in law, but she didn't do anything about it and now he's mad at my mom for letting things get this far.

Now the family is divided... I love my sister, nephews and niece, I don't want to cut ties with them because of her husband and their father, but I don't know how I'm going to do it because I don't want anything that has to do with my brother in law.. Some say I should press charges for attempted rape, while others say that I should let the family elders intervene... I'm still confused right now, I don't know what to do.

I just can't help but feel guilty that if I had told my Dad about the whole thing from 2021, all of this would've been prevented.

Do you have a problem with locking rooms when sleeping when you know you have a predator around you?

How was I supposed to know that he was going to come into my room in the middle of the night when I was sleeping

peedeeasobie:
Do you have a problem with locking rooms when sleeping when you know you have a predator around you?

Samantha124:
How was I supposed to know that he was going to come into my room in the middle of the night when I was sleeping

On three occasions? After the second time, you didn't know he would try it again?

What is your point exactly?

Clearly you didn't read and understand what I wrote.

How was I supposed to lock myself in my room during the day when I left everyone outside and I didn't suspect anything? And we don't usually lock our bedrooms because they're within the house, when we lock the house, we just lock only the front and back doors.

Are you telling me that I should have known that he was going to find an excuse to leave everyone outside and follow me inside of the house? Or are you trying to tell me that I should have turned into a seer and see what was about to happen to me?

And please, if you've got no better response to give, rather just keep quiet and move on.

peedeeasobie:
On three occasions? After the second time, you didn't know he would try it again?