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Me and one guy in my school was chatting we were friends nd I really liked him then he started talking about sex and the rest. We started off as friends, we had sex without protection after then I started developing feelings and wanted a relationship wit him I never knew he wasn’t ready because he had other girls he was seeing and sleeping with I still insisted and he gave in I never knew I was just forcing him and at that moment I was staying somewhere far from people in the compound kept calling me telling me about how he is bringing other girls but I Choose not to believe them. He hardly calls and most times he will stay all day without chatting with me on WhatsApp I knew something was wrong but I choose to love him instead I always go to visit him in school most times I go with my money and come back with my money and when am going I buy things for him I was just putting my all while he never cares or even appreciate my effort. I just love him with all my heart and was and still ready to do anything for him but it wasn’t going anywhere. So one day I went to visit him and there was this particular girl that was calling him and he refused to pick I had my suspicions but choose to ignore and on faithful day she sent him a text saying I am coming to your the town were he stays and are you at home? I was so curious and I wanted to see his reply so I open his phone and saw that this girl is his sex mate they have been having sex for long she always come to visit and stay for days at his place I saw so many massages on how he took her to places he hasn’t not taking me to, hotels beach. She even cooked for him and how he travelled to asaba and ate similar food she normally cooks and told her that hers was sweeter and thicker. She even send him messages like I miss kisssing your soft lips, and him calling her baby sending her money to buy cream make her hair order food for her as surprise both of them going to church together him going to visit her in her hostel he literally tell her everything about himself and his daily activities he even crop him and her picture he did horoscope on compatibility, they talked about their sex life he called her his wife many times all these he has not done anything with me mayb am not beautiful enough. Writing this with tears in my heart and pains in my heart , he even bought her dress of her choice. God am shaking 😭😭😭😭😭😭………..

So what is your plan now, are you still in love with him despite everything?

Tension1234:
Me and one guy in my school was chatting we were friends nd I really liked him then he started talking about sex and the rest. We started off as friends, we had sex without protection after then I started developing feelings and wanted a relationship wit him I never knew he wasn’t ready because he had other girls he was seeing and sleeping with I still insisted and he gave in I never knew I was just forcing him and at that moment I was staying somewhere far from people in the compound kept calling me telling me about how he is bringing other girls but I Choose not to believe them. He hardly calls and most times he will stay all day without chatting with me on WhatsApp I knew something was wrong but I choose to love him instead I always go to visit him in school most times I go with my money and come back with my money and when am going I buy things for him I was just putting my all while he never cares or even appreciate my effort. I just love him with all my heart and was and still ready to do anything for him but it wasn’t going anywhere. So one day I went to visit him and there was this particular girl that was calling him and he refused to pick I had my suspicions but choose to ignore and on faithful day she sent him a text saying I am coming to your the town were he stays and are you at home? I was so curious and I wanted to see his reply so I open his phone and saw that this girl is his sex mate they have been having sex for long she always come to visit and stay for days at his place I saw so many massages on how he took her to places he hasn’t not taking me to, hotels beach. She even cooked for him and how he travelled to asaba and ate similar food she normally cooks and told her that hers was sweeter and thicker. She even send him messages like I miss kisssing your soft lips, and him calling her baby sending her money to buy cream make her hair order food for her as surprise both of them going to church together him going to visit her in her hostel he literally tell her everything about himself and his daily activities he even crop him and her picture he did horoscope on compatibility, they talked about their sex life he called her his wife many times all these he has not done anything with me mayb am not beautiful enough. Writing this with tears in my heart and pains in my heart , he even bought her dress of her choice. God am shaking 😭😭😭😭😭😭………..

My dear, move on and stop giving yourself unnecessary stress and heartache.

I'm speechless... ask him to save yourself further heartbreak..

This ain't toxic. You just ate breakfast.
Get up and move on.

Tension1234:
Me and one guy in my school was chatting we were friends nd I really liked him then he started talking about sex and the rest. We started off as friends, we had sex without protection after then I started developing feelings and wanted a relationship wit him I never knew he wasn’t ready because he had other girls he was seeing and sleeping with I still insisted and he gave in I never knew I was just forcing him and at that moment I was staying somewhere far from people in the compound kept calling me telling me about how he is bringing other girls but I Choose not to believe them. He hardly calls and most times he will stay all day without chatting with me on WhatsApp I knew something was wrong but I choose to love him instead I always go to visit him in school most times I go with my money and come back with my money and when am going I buy things for him I was just putting my all while he never cares or even appreciate my effort. I just love him with all my heart and was and still ready to do anything for him but it wasn’t going anywhere. So one day I went to visit him and there was this particular girl that was calling him and he refused to pick I had my suspicions but choose to ignore and on faithful day she sent him a text saying I am coming to your the town were he stays and are you at home? I was so curious and I wanted to see his reply so I open his phone and saw that this girl is his sex mate they have been having sex for long she always come to visit and stay for days at his place I saw so many massages on how he took her to places he hasn’t not taking me to, hotels beach. She even cooked for him and how he travelled to asaba and ate similar food she normally cooks and told her that hers was sweeter and thicker. She even send him messages like I miss kisssing your soft lips, and him calling her baby sending her money to buy cream make her hair order food for her as surprise both of them going to church together him going to visit her in her hostel he literally tell her everything about himself and his daily activities he even crop him and her picture he did horoscope on compatibility, they talked about their sex life he called her his wife many times all these he has not done anything with me mayb am not beautiful enough. Writing this with tears in my heart and pains in my heart , he even bought her dress of her choice. God am shaking 😭😭😭😭😭😭………..

You chances of a successful marriage will be greatly reduced bcs this heartbreak you have experienced will damage you forever.
You better stick with him since you gave him your virginity. No other man will take you seriously.