blaquemyc:
The bible they brought to us said "spare the rod and spoil the child".

Bible wey oyibo don dash una

The western world are training a monster that will ends the world.
By the time they killed themselves finish they will move to the rest of the world

obama99:


Ok to the extent of showing other messages sent to her

You are making it sound like the woman is trying to set up the husband when the husband was the one who committed the crime here. Her crime was taking her child to the hospital after seeing the bruises and marks the husband inflicted on the kid. These things are frowned upon in developed countries. The other child already confirmed it to the authorities so there’s nothing the woman can do in this case unless she wants to loose custody of the children

cutepaul:




No vex abeg wetin be "metal-stick"

Na so I read am too na. No be me talk am. Shey u see say I put am in quote

IamMobisola:

You are making it sound like the woman is trying to set up the husband when the husband was the one who committed the crime here. Her crime was taking her child to the hospital after seeing the bruises and marks the husband inflicted on the kid. These things are frowned upon in developed countries. The other child already confirmed it to the authorities so there’s nothing the woman can do in this case unless she wants to loose custody of the children

I think it is more like these entities would have preferred that the woman take the blame for the abuse.

Acidosis:
1. The country is doing better because, obviously, they have better and more independent institutions to put everyone in check. Can Americans endure 70% multidimensional poverty without going ballistic on their leaders and lawmakers??

2. Both are necessary and can co-exist. A perfect society is one that raises children to be good and respectful people and still go ahead to put laws and institutions in place to checkmate people's excesses. Nigeria prioritizes the former. Some countries prioritize the latter.

1. And it does not occur to you that it is the children who grow up to continue building and maintaining these independent institutions to ensure all continues to go better?

2. So as you see it, Nigerians are good and respectful people?

Kobojunkie:
A 3-year-old wey him brain do even dey remember wetin him eat only minutes ago na him you wan begin wire him brain first with flogging?

When one of my siblings was as young as 3, she was very stubborn too. She always wanted to touch the stove. My mum did all she could to keep her from it but she would not heed. So, one day, when she was going for it again, my.mum decided to watch her. The girl put her hand in the blue flames and and as the pain got her, my mum grabbed her and scolded her at that point. Since then, the 3-year-old never tried that nonsense experiment again, and we were able to all live without anxieties after that.

Sometimes the best way is to let kids learn for themselves, from the consequences of their actions, not use fear to impose your will over theirs.

Which is worse? I should let my boy get on the balcony rail first, or maybe fall before he learns the implication of his action? That is experimenting with your child. Costly

Kobojunkie:
1. And it does not occur to you that it is the children who grow up to continue building and maintaining these independent institutions to ensure all continues to go better?

2. So as you see it, Nigerians are good and respectful people?

Nigerian children. Yes, relatively.

Montaque:
■Which is worse? I should let my boy get on the balcony rail first, or maybe fall before he learns the implication of his action? That is experimenting with your child. Costly

So, what you got from that is tha you should allow your son fall off the balcony rail? WOW... OK.

Acidosis:
■ Nigerian children. Yes, relatively.

And this value which you claim you see is reflected in society as a whole, and even the nation itself, or simply where your ego is concerned? I mean like say these children growing up into respectful citizens and workers in society or it is just about you and your private world?

Kobojunkie:
So, what you got from that is tha you should allow your son fall off the balcony rail? WOW... OK.

I just made your advice practical and you are this uneasy. Hehehe, you now know you don't need to wait till a child makes a mistake. Like I said earlier, kids needs to have fear of something (parental displeasure, flogging, scolding, shouting, or other forms of discipline), else their exuberance will kill them.

Montaque:
■ I just made your advice practical and you are this uneasy. Hehehe, you now know you don't need to wait till a child makes a mistake. Like I said earlier, kids needs to have fear of something (parental displeasure, flogging, scolding, shouting, or other forms of discipline), else their exuberance will kill them.

So, letting a 3-year-old fall off a balcony is more practical than maybe say allowing him to experience falling from a height in a more controlled environment? OK!

aswani:


I once debated with kobojunkie on this forum, I had to give up the (very regrettable experience) in the end.

That person will twist your words every which way just to make their point, regardless of the fact that the point you were making bears no resemblance to what it is they are saying.

I was genuinely curious about them and decided to go through their posting history, it didn't take me long to realise that was their modus operandi.

I can see nothing has changed in that regard.

Lol....Kobo loves arguing baselessly, we all know that now

Rayban25:


Your parents flogging was a waste of time..imagine them thinking they were instilling sense in their son only to find out he is an apc supporter. Shame

Lolz! Are angry for supporting APC

66yrs with a 9yrs son. No wonder he is frustrated. I am sure he has another family somewhere he must have abandoned to start giving birth again at almost 60. See where his prick push him to. Very good. At 66 he’s a liability to the new wife. He probably can’t work and has health problems.

Evidence that your parents correction turned you into a sly deceitful person.

You asked me if my parents never flogged me. I said yes they did but I didn’t find that helpful. Never did I tell you that I didn’t appreciate other forms of correction. We were never even talking about correction. We were talking about flogging. Flogging isn’t even correction. It’s punishment

But being the daft idiot that you are, you turned around to say it’s sad that the correction didn’t help me. Who do you think you are kidding?
Instead of you to stay on the topic you decided to twist my words because obviously your initial argument was xtupid. Maybe all the hitting with iron metal they did on your head has made it impossible for you to learn. Daft slowpoke

Fuckyoumod:
A part of the home training and upbringing I got from my parents is never to insult people, they taught me to be respectful and decent.

Calling me an idiot is evident of the fact that your dad's corrections never worked. This is why we advice parents never to spare the rod.

I hope your husband, that's if you ever get married, does the right training on you. He should never spare the rod like your dad did when he is training you. Because, the way you go about insulting men on Nairaland for no reason is so alarming and scary.

Sister, I love you 💖💖😘.

We are trained to bless even those that curse us and respect people no matter how different our views about life is.

We are trained to correct people with respect!

Have a blessed day ahead sis.
I love you... Kisses 💋💋😘💋😘💋
He smiles.......☺️☺️😁😁

baby124:
66yrs with a 9yrs son. No wonder he is frustrated. I am sure he has another family somewhere he must have abandoned to start giving birth again at almost 60. See where his prick push him to. Very good. At 66 he’s a liability to the new wife. He probably can’t work and has health problems.

Your mind ehn?

Kobojunkie:
Your mind ehn?

Did I lie? Check him well. Why do you think he’s accusing the new wife of conspiring against him with the kids? He probably suspects she wants to and has been planning to get rid of him. Only reason a woman abroad will want to get rid of a man like that is if he is a liability. 66 is past retirement age in most western countries. He can probably knack but not provide and entitled. They are all over UK. He’s been in UK since 1990. I sincerely doubt this is his first family.

I personally don’t believe people have any business having kids over 50. Except an expectant couple who have been trying together for years. Contentment with a blended family during remarriage should be the goal. Imagine being jailed at 66 for disciplining a 9yr old. Lmao. When his mates are visiting their 9yr old grand children and spoiling them.

baby124:

Did I lie? Check him well. Why do you think he’s accusing the new wife of conspiring against him with the kids? He probably suspects she wants to and has been planning to get rid of him. Only reason a woman abroad will want to get rid of a man like that is if he is a liability. 66 is past retirement age in most western countries. He can probably knack but not provide and entitled. They are all over UK. He’s been in UK since 1990. I sincerely doubt this is his first family.

I personally don’t believe people have any business having kids over 50. Except an expectant couple who have been trying together for years. Contentment with a blended family during remarriage should be the goal. Imagine being jailed at 66 for disciplining a 9yr old. Lmao. When his mates are visiting their 9yr old grand children and spoiling them.

That he has been in the country since 1990 leaves me wondering how the fk he would make such a stupid mistake.

That son would eventually kill bis mother if care is not taken

Kobojunkie:
So, letting a 3-year-old fall off a balcony is more practical than maybe say allowing him to experience falling from a height in a more controlled environment? OK!

I see. When you have your own kids, conduct this experiment on them in a controlled environment.

cococandy:
Evidence that your parents correction turned you into a sly deceitful person.

You asked me if my parents never flogged me. I said yes they did but I didn’t find that helpful. Never did I tell you that I didn’t appreciate other forms of correction. We were never even talking about correction. We were talking about flogging. Flogging isn’t even correction. It’s punishment

But being the daft idiot that you are, you turned around to say it’s sad that the correction didn’t help me. Who do you think you are kidding?
Instead of you to stay on the topic you decided to twist my words because obviously your initial argument was xtupid. Maybe all the hitting with iron metal they did on your head has made it impossible for you to learn. Daft slowpoke

what more can I say? This street arab, uncultured girl, unmannered and lost child is another proof that failed parenting will only breed rude and wayward girls like this.

To everyone in this platform, don't fail to correct your kids properly, teach them patiently, with love and care, so they don't end up abusing everybody they come across like this guttersnipe.

Sister I love you... Have a pleasant evening.

Kisses 💋😘💋😘😘

MrBrownJay1:


you people are mistaking something fundamental here....just because you flogged a child doesnt mean he will end up the best citizen out there, it just means that WHILE LIVING UNDER YOUR ROOF, THEY WILL OBEY YOUR HOUSE RULES AND REGULATIONS!

majority of us didnt end up as looters, did we?!

If that's the only way you can get your kids to obey your house rules and regulations, then you're obviously doing a terrible job as a parent. You're just bullying them into submission. With the amount of flogging we do in this country, you'd expect to have very well behaved kids/adults in the society, but the story is completely different.

Fuckyoumod:
what more can I say? This street arab, uncultured girl, unmannered and lost child is another proof that failed parenting will only breed rude and wayward girls like this.

To everyone in this platform, don't fail to correct your kids properly, teach them patiently, with love and care, so they don't end up abusing everybody they come across like this guttersnipe.

Sister I love you... Have a pleasant evening.

Kisses 💋😘💋😘😘

I thought your parents raised you so well you don’t cuss people you only bless those who curse you?

And just like that, the stinking hypocrite that you are is laid bare to the whole world.

Of course your parents can only raised a hypocrite who thinks he’s a better person because he was beaten as child not knowing how damaged he is. Gutter mouth himself with absolutely zero sense of self awareness. You should be ashamed of yourself. And this only the first page of your disgusting vile posts

Montaque:
■ I see. When you have your own kids, conduct this experiment on them in a controlled environment.

Did just that with the one who kept wanting to go in the pool... now he does not go near a pool anymore. The next is to sign him up for swimming classes to help him overcome the acquired fear but that respect for water will never leave him.

TUANKU:
That's why there's a shortage of primary school teachers in the UK, children with almost zero respect for adults.

You're a wise person. That your comment just illustrates my mind somehow.

frugal:
If that's the only way you can get your kids to obey your house rules and regulations, then you're obviously doing a terrible job as a parent. You're just bullying them into submission. With the amount of flogging we do in this country, you'd expect to have very well behaved kids/adults in the society, but the story is completely different.

yes, when my kids dontlisten to what i am telling them to do and break the rules, they get punished....and depending on the rule they broke, corporal punishment is used. there is nothing wrong with corporal punishment in my world, as there is a huge difference between abuse and corporal punishment.

here is a clue: have you ever asked yourself why in the US kids can go to school and shoot up everyone (and/or kids killing their whole family)? is there no guns in Nigeria for kids to go to school and shoot up everybody?! or is it the Nigeria weather ?

That number u saw go to prison would have been much higher if there was no caning at all. From ages 1--5 especially, the strongest discipline is spanking not grounding and all sort... And it is better a lot of things are sorted at that age range.

Kobojunkie:
I know kids who were wire canned into their adulthood and have the scars to prove it, but yet ended up in prison in the end. So how does that factor in as far as your conclusion?

I was not wire canned. I instead saw the scars left on others as a result of wire-caning. My parent stopped flogging me after an incident at about age 14 by the way.

MrBrownJay1:

yep, in the US these are the exact same kids (with no boundaries) that will get upset and shoot up the whole school and/or murder their own parents.

That's because the system allow them, both adults and children to have access to guns. Make guns easily accessible to Nigerian adults and children, the consequences will be worse.

i became a great human being due to the BOUNDARIES that my parents put in my life... and the corporal punishments i received when i stepped out of line and/or disregarded my parents rules and regulations. a child allowed to have NO BOUNDARIES at home is just a time bomb!

You don't need corporal punishments for your kids too to set boundaries for them. The mistake we're making is because that's how we were raised too, brutality. Many kids have been killed and maimed in the name of corporal punishments.

being:
■ That number u saw go to prison would have been much higher if there was no caning at all.
■ From ages 1--5 especially, the strongest discipline is spanking not grounding and all sort... And it is better a lot of things are sorted at that age range.

1. My caning ended at age 14, and I turned out much more sane that a good number of those whose torture continued until even their twenties, and you are wanting me to believe that despite the fact that a handful of them still ended up on the wrong side of the law and life anyway, the caning is to praise for all of them not ending up there?

2. What proof do you have for this by the way?

Kobojunkie:
What agreement? You didn't read the story at all, didn't you? The deed had been done and one parent had to be held responsible and the man after being caught denying, eventually blamed his wife. Sound like an agreement would have helped there?

a discussion about an agreement before marriage would've helped her to know his stand towards such.

anthonyuncle:
■ a discussion about an agreement before marriage would've helped her to know his stand towards such.

You are not making any sense. The man's stance is flogging. That much we know, and it is his flogging that led to the child being taken to the hospital two days after to be cared for. His wife na hospital abi police? Go read what the OP posed abeg!