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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 6:23pm On May 17, 2023
dealslip:
β–  As bitter as ever grin grin grin. The fact you have not experienced the beauty of God doesn't mean others haven't. I have enjoyed the beauty of God and it's so sweet. Taste the Lord and see the Lord is good!!! Better don't let bitterness kill you. What's your own solution for her? nothing!!!! but bile and vile anger. Come make I show you the way
Essentially, you are saying that God who made clear He does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous is nothing but a liar! undecided

It seems the major desire of those of you who call yourselves Christians seems to be to make a colossal joke of God and His Word. You basically cast Him down as a liar every single time you mention His name. For the life of me, I don't understand why hate God so. undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 6:33pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Essentially, you are saying that God who made clear He does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous is nothing but a liar! undecided

It seems the major desire of those of you who call yourselves Christians seems to be to make a colossal joke of God and His Word. You basically cast Him down as a liar every single time you mention His name. For the life of me, I don't understand why hate God so. undecided
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ grin grin grin ;DYou don't know God anything about our beautiful Most High. You and the host of darkness speaking through you will still cry. Come make I show you way grin angry angry
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 6:37pm On May 17, 2023
dealslip:

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ β–  grin grin grin ;DYou don't know God anything about our beautiful Most High. You and the host of darkness speaking through you will still cry. Come make I show you way grin angry angry
So you know God and to you God lied when He said He does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous, abi? undecided

I mean since you claim that against His own declarations, God has in fact answered your prayers, you believe God originally lied about not answering the prayers of the unrighteous? And so did Jesus Christ too by the way. undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 7:55pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So you know God and to you God lied when He said He does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous, abi? undecided

I mean since you claim that against His own declarations, God has in fact answered your prayers, you believe God originally lied about not answering the prayers of the unrighteous? And so did Jesus Christ too by the way. undecided
Na you know the thing wey dey vex you with God. Na only you understand your obsession with righteous and unrighteous prayer. May God help you.

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by asobo1: 7:57pm On May 17, 2023
ChizzyBuna:
Tell him to play Ac Milan vs Inter over 2.5
And thank me later..
No thanks
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by njelrapheal: 8:01pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ said only those who do what He asks become holy, and eventually righteous, and even His friends, while those who refuse to do as He commands are His enemies. So, go figure! Keep subscribing to meaningless soundbites while you continue playing religion thinking you can reduce God down to your level by way of such foolishness. undecided

You can only become holy through Jesus Holiness. You only strive.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 8:04pm On May 17, 2023
njelrapheal:

You can only become holy through Jesus Holiness. You only strive.
You only strive meaning you can never in fact become Holy? Are you somehow insinuating that Jesus Christ then lied when He suggested that only those who are Holy can go on to become righteous then? undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 8:09pm On May 17, 2023
dealslip:
β–  Na you know the thing wey dey vex you with God. Na only you understand your obsession with righteous and unrighteous prayer. May God help you.
1. Oh wow! So it means nothing to you yet you boldly claimed that God was doing beautiful things in your life even though He instead said He never answers the prayers of the unrighteous. So, are you trying to back track now or something? lipsrsealed
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by olabrinks(f): 8:19pm On May 17, 2023
Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

This man is slowly making you lose your sanity. Look at yourself in the mirror, you are a shadow of your former self. You have created how many threads in the past few months, all because of this man. Marriage is not a do or die, at least if you can’t divorce you need to seperate for a while.. please!!! What is all this nonsense now.. stand up woman!!!!

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by labake1(f): 8:26pm On May 17, 2023
Aklee4994:
but love those ones that cheat and fraud to bankroll your extravagant lifestyle...Dey play something must kill a MAN πŸ‘¨ why on earth man will not do one ☝️ of those your mention


I know men are sinners but I want to believe that there is a man somewhere that doesn't engage in any of those
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by bluefilm: 8:28pm On May 17, 2023
Dearlove2me:
I'm not interested. So many people with this fantasy are in the grave already, they kept their hope on winning until they die of Depression and poverty.

Never say never!
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by njelrapheal: 8:30pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
You only strive meaning you can never in fact become Holy? Are you somehow insinuating that Jesus Christ then lied when He suggested that only those who are Holy can go on to become righteous then? undecided

He said that.and u have to understand he can only do that when you are one with Jesus. You can only be holy in Jesus. Not by your own means.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 8:34pm On May 17, 2023
njelrapheal:
β–  He said that.and u have to understand he can only do that when you are one with Jesus. You can only be holy in Jesus. Not by your own means.
1. Jesus Christ never said He is the one to make you holy. Rather, He said you should become holy even as the Father is Holy. He said you are to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness), and also God's righteousness... He did not hint at all at doing any of it on your behalf. He laid down the groundwork necessary for you to achieve it provided it is what you in fact desire, and then He instructed you to go forth and do it. So, why are you desperately trying to place all the work that is your responsibility in this on Jesus Christ? undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by njelrapheal: 8:38pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ never said He is the one to make you holy. Rather, He said you should become holy even as the Father is Holy. He said you are to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness), and also God's righteousness... He did not hint at all at doing any of it on your behalf. He laid down the groundwork necessary for you to achieve it provided it is what you in fact desire, and then He instructed you to go forth and do it. So, why are you desperately trying to place all the work that is your responsibility in this on Jesus Christ? undecided

U cant become holy if u are not one with Jesus.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 8:41pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Oh wow! So it means nothing to you yet you boldly claimed that God was doing beautiful things in your life even though He instead said He never answers the prayers of the unrighteous. So, are you trying to back track now or something? lipsrsealed
You are not getting the gist still!!! What you think about God is your business. E no concern me.

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 8:44pm On May 17, 2023
njelrapheal:
β–  U cant become holy if u are not one with Jesus.
Where in scripture did Jesus Christ tell you that you must first be one with Him before you can be holy? By the way, what do you understand the word holy to mean? undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 8:45pm On May 17, 2023
dealslip:
β–  You are not getting the gist still!!! What you think about God is your business. E no concern me.
Sadly, God is not your personal property that you would think my calling your lie out is invalid. Unless you are speaking here of an idol you have in your pocket, I guess. undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 9:46pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Sadly, God is not your personal property that you would think my calling your lie out is invalid. Unless you are speaking here of an idol you have in your pocket, I guess. undecided
I can't even understand what you are all about. One minute God is not your property the next minute you are pouring vituperations against the loving, sweet and glorious Most High. The owner of Wisdom, Glory and All Power. The loving Father. Oh! How I love my sweet God. God haters can kiss Satan.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 10:01pm On May 17, 2023
dealslip:
β– I can't even understand what you are all about. One minute God is not your property the next minute you are pouring vituperations against the loving, sweet and glorious Most High. The owner of Wisdom, Glory and All Power. The loving Father. Oh! How I love my sweet God. God haters can kiss Satan.
See, all these are meaningless soundbites β€” mindless drivels β€” that you lot like to regurgitate when you have been caught in your usual lies. undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by olabrinks(f): 10:36pm On May 17, 2023
My husband this my husband that.. killing yourself all in the name of the shambles you call a marriage. As if this man wouldn’t sell your kidney if he had the chance to, just to satisfy his useless gambling problem. Separate from this man ohh! Because even if you try to deal with him.. this kind of man can become abusive. Unless you want to cry all the days of your life.. be selfish like your husband. Focus on yourself. Think about your life.

If you like read all these comments and go back to crying all day and night begging your husband. Nobody is going to advise you again if you open another thread because we are tired.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 5:06am On May 18, 2023
Kobojunkie:
See, all these are meaningless soundbites β€” mindless drivels β€” that you lot like to regurgitate when you have been caught in your usual lies. undecided

They are enraged, they don't want to hear about You but the works of Your hands speaks all around them. They think it's by science, they don't know You are the Author of science. Science is just catching up with You. Intellectualism, the false intelligence they pride themselves in can't even discern You.
How great is our God! The Loving Father! The One who holds all things together by the Word of His power, Full of Love and Mercy. Loving even those who hate His kindness. All those who don't acknowledge your love, you leave them to
their reprobate mind. To continue to destroy themselves. They sit in the universe You have created and imagine vain things against You. They slander what they don't have the capacity to understand not knowing the Prince of the power of the air has greatly deceived them not to see the goodness of Jehovah yet when they return to you, Graciously, you accept them back. The Sweet Sweet Father. We pray they know You and Your love. Intellectualism cannot know You.
All those who don't know you deprive themselves of your Glorious Love. All hail the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, To Him glory belongs to forevermore.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 5:09am On May 18, 2023
dealslip:
β–  They are enraged, they don't want to hear about You but the works of Your hands speaks all around them. They think it's by science, they don't know You are the Author of science. Science is just catching up with You. Intellectualism, the false intelligence they pride themselves in can't even discern You.
How great is our God! The Loving Father! The One who holds all things together by the Word of His power, Full of Love and Mercy. Loving even those who hate His kindness. All those who don't acknowledge your love, you leave them to
their reprobate mind. To continue to destroy themselves. They sit in the universe You have created and Imagine vain things against You. They slander what they don't have the capacity understand not knowing the Prince of the power of the air has greatly deceived them not to see the goodness of Jehovah yet when they return to you, Graciously, you accept them back. The Sweet Sweet Father. We pray they know. You and Your love. Intellectualism cannot know You. All those who don't know you deprive themselves of your Glorious Love. All hail the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, To Him glory belongs to forevermore.
All this to the same God whose words you regard as lies and as such you disregard them in order to promote your own brand of lies in its place, abi? undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 5:14am On May 18, 2023
Kobojunkie:
All this to the same God whose words you regard as lies and as such you disregard them in order to promote your own brand of lies in its place, abi? undecided
They know You exist but are very afraid to acknowledge you oh Lord. Their seniors eventually bowed their knees to you and praised your Holy Name. Las las them go still bow to You. Dem plenty like that.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by DrDunamis(m): 10:28am On May 18, 2023
Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

I greatly sympathise with you and pray that the Lord strengthen and encourage you.
This type of demon doesn't go out but by Prayer and fasting. Spend time In intense prayer and fasting for your husband and your home and refrain from having shouting sessions with him, above all always respond with love towards him.
Love conquers all.

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 10:39am On May 18, 2023
DrDunamis:
β–  I greatly sympathise with you and pray that the Lord strengthen and encourage you.
This type of demon doesn't go out but by Prayer and fasting. Spend time In intense prayer and fasting for your husband and your home and refrain from having shouting sessions with him, above all always respond with love towards him.
β–  Love conquers all.
How many such demons have you been able to get rid of by way of this your fasting and praying? Let's start with you telling us how you were able to fast and pray demons away.. undecided

2. Love conquers all? You mean by loving an individual you are able to conquer all ills? These una soundbites
doctrines of these days. undecided
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by walexok: 4:03pm On May 18, 2023
tivta:


We all have our addictions, some to chase women, some music, some movies, some eating etc.
It's always best to do all moderately, afterall no one is a saint.

How about not having any addiction at all?

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by DrDunamis(m): 6:37pm On May 18, 2023
Kobojunkie:
How many such demons have you been able to get rid of by way of this your fasting and praying? Let's start with you telling us how you were able to fast and pray demons away.. undecided

2. Love conquers all? You mean by loving an individual you are able to conquer all ills? These una soundbites
doctrines of these days. undecided
Obviously the comment wasn't meant for you.
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 6:38pm On May 18, 2023
DrDunamis:
β–  Obviously the comment wasn't meant for you.
Is that to say your intent was to decieve then? undecided

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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Aklee4994(m): 7:40pm On May 18, 2023
labake1:



I know men are sinners but I want to believe that there is a man somewhere that doesn't engage in any of those
The way human think that God is somewhere sitting...πŸͺ‘ on a white horse night everyone will hurt you...women are the chaos element of humanity
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by labake1(f): 7:48pm On May 18, 2023
Aklee4994:
The way human think that God is somewhere sitting...πŸͺ‘ on a white horse night everyone will hurt you...women are the chaos element of humanity


Blablablabla
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Aklee4994(m): 7:53pm On May 18, 2023
labake1:



Blablablabla
Keep waiting for the perfect gentleman
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by vanvickie(m): 8:18pm On May 18, 2023
Skyfornia:
If you have done enough and he doesn't want to change..join him. They said if you can't beat them, then join them.

Locate his popular betting spot and meet him there, as he is staking games, stake your own too. Two of you will join hand and go home empty after loosing..he won't expect you to prepare food at home since both of you went to work gamble at the betting shop..

You will sleep with empty stomachs, but make sure your baby dey chop.

Na the man go use him hand begin advice you say make una stop.

No be only him sabi madd



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