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Re: Lost My Job by gstelly(op): 5:32pm On Sep 17, 2022
pocohantas:
Apologies. I guess I jumped into conclusion.

How much is left of your fees?
no problem ma I understand, I need #28,000 to complete it although there a still time for me since we are starting exams November getting work here is the main problem
Re: Lost My Job by pocohantas(f): 6:03pm On Sep 17, 2022
gstelly:
no problem ma I understand, I need #28,000 to complete it although there a still time for me since we are starting exams November getting work here is the main problem
A picture of these items would suffice
- School ID
- Past sch fees receipt
- 200L result

Then your bank acct details.

Thank you
Re: Lost My Job by gstelly(op): 6:31pm On Sep 17, 2022
pocohantas:
A picture of these items would suffice
- School ID
- Past sch fees receipt
- 200L result

Then your bank acct details.

Thank you
alright ma I'll message you now thank you ma
Re: Lost My Job by Nazgul: 1:44am On Jun 09, 2023
pocohantas:
A picture of these items would suffice
- School ID
- Past sch fees receipt
- 200L result

Then your bank acct details.

Thank you
As expected she has disappeared. I wonder how many years it would take someone to post his/her school ID and past school fees receipt... this is one of the reasons why I don't take online beggars seriously cos 99.9% of them are into one addiction or the other.

They come online with various monikers composing all sorts of emotional stories. If you fall for their deceit and give them money, they'll either they'll use it to gamble or carry olosho. Once they've exhausted the money, they'll come back with another moniker to beg for another one....it's an endless cycle.
Re: Lost My Job by gstelly(op): 12:59pm On Jun 09, 2023
Nazgul:
As expected she has disappeared. I wonder how many years it would take someone to post his/her school ID and past school fees receipt... this is one of the reasons why I don't take online beggars seriously cos 99.9% of them are into one addiction or the other.

They come online with various monikers composing all sorts of emotional stories. If you fall for their deceit and give them money, they'll either they'll use it to gamble or carry olosho. Once they've exhausted the money, they'll come back with another moniker to beg for another one....it's an endless cycle.
Lol I can provide it for you if you need em
Re: Lost My Job by pocohantas(f): 1:29pm On Jun 09, 2023
Nazgul:
As expected she has disappeared. I wonder how many years it would take someone to post his/her school ID and past school fees receipt... this is one of the reasons why I don't take online beggars seriously cos 99.9% of them are into one addiction or the other.

They come online with various monikers composing all sorts of emotional stories. If you fall for their deceit and give them money, they'll either they'll use it to gamble or carry olosho. Once they've exhausted the money, they'll come back with another moniker to beg for another one....it's an endless cycle.
She actually responded privately. I wasn't expecting her to post those things here. It has been a while and I can't remember clearly all our conversations, but I remember there were some inconsistencies.

1) Previous posts and pictures are masculine, but she is now a female. She said she was catching cruise in the past.

2) She said she has the bulk of the money. So, I suggested we use a trusted NL escrow to pay the fees. She sends what she has to the escrow, I balance up and the escrow pays. She didn't agree to this, claiming she can't access the money yet. But you said you have a deadline of a few days. How come you can't access the money? I told her to let me know when she is ready to pay her school fees.

3) She finally said I should just give her some money to eat. I don't think I responded to this.
Re: Lost My Job by Nazgul: 9:45pm On Jun 09, 2023
pocohantas:
She actually responded privately. I wasn't expecting her to post those things here. It has been a while and I can't remember clearly all our conversations, but I remember there were some inconsistencies.

1) Previous posts and pictures are masculine, but she is now a female. She said she was catching cruise in the past.

2) She said she has the bulk of the money. So, I suggested we use a trusted NL escrow to pay the fees. She sends what she has to the escrow, I balance up and the escrow pays. She didn't agree to this, claiming she can't access the money yet. But you said you have a deadline of a few days. How come you can't access the money? I told her to let me know when she is ready to pay her school fees.

3) She finally said I should just give her some money to eat. I don't think I responded to this.
@ bolded.
That's their goal. They write up an emotional story to make you feel sober, then put up an account number for people to pay into.

Once you drill them in order to authenticate the originality of their story, you'll start seeing glaring inconsistencies like you pointed out.

During the covid lockdown, it was celebrities they were stalking. It got so bad that even don jazzy had to cry out that he receives over a thousand dms daily mostly from people begging him. This same people dragged him for crying out, some even called him stingy. Some celebrities like Davido and others succumbed to pressure by going give away.

My annoyance that period and even now is that none of these people are stalking their elected politicians. These leaders horded palliatives meant for the masses, yet no single social media chronic beggar called them out the way they were calling celebrities.

None went to their various social media pages to post account number or shade them for not giving them money.

Those are the people they're supposed to be begging, not someone hussling to keep his head afloat in this horrible economy.

Covid finished, and it became worse. Some would just go through your Facebook pics, and the next thing is to send you an emotional message begging for money....like who does that?

Attached is one of the dozens of messages I receive regularly on Twitter and Facebook.

Re: Lost My Job by gstelly(op): 11:32pm On Jun 09, 2023
Nazgul:
@ bolded.
That's their goal. They write up an emotional story to make you feel sober, then put up an account number for people to pay into.

Once you drill them in order to authenticate the originality of their story, you'll start seeing glaring inconsistencies like you pointed out.

During the covid lockdown, it was celebrities they were stalking. It got so bad that even don jazzy had to cry out that he receives over a thousand dms daily mostly from people begging him. This same people dragged him for crying out, some even called him stingy. Some celebrities like Davido and others succumbed to pressure by going give away.

My annoyance that period and even now is that none of these people are stalking their elected politicians. These leaders horded palliatives meant for the masses, yet no single social media chronic beggar called them out the way they were calling celebrities.

None went to their various social media pages to post account number or shade them for not giving them money.

Those are the people they're supposed to be begging, not someone hussling to keep his head afloat in this horrible economy.

Covid finished, and it became worse. Some would just go through your Facebook pics, and the next thing is to send you an emotional message begging for money....like who does that?

Attached is one of the dozens of messages I receive regularly on Twitter and Facebook.
Good evening Mr Nazgul schooling in AAU where it is about money and the cost of living is very high in ekpoma and there's no good job, things are very difficult for me and I created alot of thread soliciting for help and advice especially last year, at times I contemplate dropping out and even suicide. I've been able sponsor myself through school and by God's grace come December I'll be graduating... At a time EhisChelsea1 had direct contact with me, pls Mr Nazgul I'm not one of them
Re: Lost My Job by EhisChelsea1(m):
gstelly:
Good evening Mr Nazgul schooling in AAU where it is about money and the cost of living is very high in ekpoma and there's no good job, things are very difficult for me and I created alot of thread soliciting for help and advice especially last year, at times I contemplate dropping out and even suicide. I've been able sponsor myself through school and by God's grace come December I'll be graduating... At a time EhisChelsea1 had direct contact with me, pls Mr Nazgul I'm not one of them
Oh, I remember you! The Mass communication student. I remember reaching out to you to assist… and I also remember asking to see and know you one on one during your holiday since from our chat, your family house (where you live during the holiday) is in the same area as I do…… to at least, put a real life face to the person I was reaching out to… but, you disappeared….

…so, I couldn’t really authenticate if you were real or not, reason I stopped reaching out. Not my fault, from the very little that I have, I have had the privilege of reaching out to, and assisting a few nairalanders, both guys and ladies….and I often maintain communication with them. But the few that happen to enter their city, and I reach out to them and say, “guy, or babe, I Dey your town. Let’s see and know physically….” Dem go disappear. Either stop responding or block you….

Yes, AAU is very tough, and very expensive and life is hard out there….most of the students there are into one fraudulent activity of the other to meet up….
Re: Lost My Job by EhisChelsea1(m):
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Re: Lost My Job by EhisChelsea1(m): 8:34am On Jun 10, 2023
pocohantas:
She actually responded privately. I wasn't expecting her to post those things here. It has been a while and I can't remember clearly all our conversations, but I remember there were some inconsistencies.

1) Previous posts and pictures are masculine, but she is now a female. She said she was catching cruise in the past.

2) She said she has the bulk of the money. So, I suggested we use a trusted NL escrow to pay the fees. She sends what she has to the escrow, I balance up and the escrow pays. She didn't agree to this, claiming she can't access the money yet. But you said you have a deadline of a few days. How come you can't access the money? I told her to let me know when she is ready to pay her school fees.

3) She finally said I should just give her some money to eat. I don't think I responded to this.
Hi Pocochantas, there are some persons here (both guys and females) that I often read their comments and love to be friends with some day. You top that list. Can I send a DM? Can we be friends beyond this page?
Re: Lost My Job by pocohantas(f): 10:57am On Jun 10, 2023
Nazgul:
@ bolded.

Attached is one of the dozens of messages I receive regularly on Twitter and Facebook.
I get them on FB and I don't even read them. I don't open and if at all I do, I won't respond. As for Nairaland, I can't tell what changed, but I just realised I am not sympathetic to Nlders anymore. Maybe because they are not to me too. Except for the few I am sure of. Then it would be subject to availability. Let's enjoy the forum and leave the rest to God.
Re: Lost My Job by pocohantas(f): 10:59am On Jun 10, 2023
EhisChelsea1:
Hi Pocochantas, there are some persons here (both guys and females) that I often read their comments and love to be friends with some day. You top that list. Can I send a DM? Can we be friends beyond this page?
Hello Ehis!
Thanks for the kind words, but I am sorry I can't take this conversation beyond here. Do have a lovely weekend.
Re: Lost My Job by GloriousGbola: 11:03am On Jun 10, 2023
pocohantas:
I get them on FB and I don't even read them. I don't open and if at all I do, I won't respond. As for Nairaland, I can't tell what changed, but I just realised I am not sympathetic to Nlders anymore. Maybe because they are not to me too. Except for the few I am sure of. Then it would be subject to availability. Let's enjoy the forum and leave the rest to God.
You have now leaning conservative. I am sweating blood for my money - and someone may not be making any sacrifices just expects me to dole out money? Not happening grin angry

Meanwhile you are not answering my urgent 200k dms angry angry angry cry cry cry
Re: Lost My Job by pocohantas(f): 11:07am On Jun 10, 2023
GloriousGbola:
You have now leaning conservative. I am sweating blood for my money - and someone may not be making any sacrifices just expects me to dole out money? Not happening grin angry

Meanwhile you are not answering my urgent 200k dms angry angry angry cry cry cry
I wish that was the case sef, because I like to think I have more disposable income now. Way back they said I was using my sugar daddy's money to do giveaway. Oh well! I still collect my sugar daddy's money, but I eat it alone. That is what my fellow sugarbabies do. Buy clothes, shoes and food. Nairalanders are vile. I think I now remember what changed. Someday I will gist you.

I will answer. Make fuel price drop first.
Re: Lost My Job by Ishilove: 11:36am On Jun 10, 2023
The hustle is real
Re: Lost My Job by Makamatic: 2:12pm On Jun 10, 2023
EhisChelsea1:
Oh, I remember you! The Mass communication student. I remember reaching out to you to assist… and I also remember asking to see and know you one on one during your holiday since from our chat, your family house (where you live during the holiday) is in the same area as I do…… to at least, put a real life face to the person I was reaching out to… but, you disappeared….

…so, I couldn’t really authenticate if you were real or not, reason I stopped reaching out. Not my fault, from the very little that I have, I have had the privilege of reaching out to, and assisting a few nairalanders, both guys and ladies….and I often maintain communication with them. But the few that happen to enter their city, and I reach out to them and say, “guy, or babe, I Dey your town. Let’s see and know physically….” Dem go disappear. Either stop responding or block you….

Yes, AAU is very tough, and very expensive and life is hard out there….most of the students there are into one fraudulent activity of the other to meet up….
Wait she be indigene and she they beg .
Why she no they go farm . Me self for this ekpoma still they leave my hostel for town go do pineapple for emuhi and ujiamen.
Re: Lost My Job by EhisChelsea1(m): 4:08pm On Jun 10, 2023
Makamatic:
Wait she be indigene and she they beg .
Why she no they go farm . Me self for this ekpoma still they leave my hostel for town go do pineapple for emuhi and ujiamen.
She is not indigene. She is from Benin and if I remember correctly, she doesn’t really have sponsors. She hustle part time and during holiday to raise funds annd whatever is left, she solicit for assistance to make it up.

Ekpoma is expensive and not really convenient for those without sponsors. When I left in 2006, school fees was 15k and a single room apartment was 12k - 18k per annum. I recently learnt from my cousin schooling there that apartment goes from like 100k or so upward, and school fees is almost 200k plus blocking costing as much as 15k per course. Blocking in 2006 was 1k
Re: Lost My Job by EhisChelsea1(m): 4:10pm On Jun 10, 2023
pocohantas:
Hello Ehis!
Thanks for the kind words, but I am sorry I can't take this conversation beyond here. Do have a lovely weekend.
It’s ok ma. Hopefully with time, maybe we might connect. Thanks
Re: Lost My Job by Makamatic: 4:28pm On Jun 10, 2023
EhisChelsea1:
She is not indigene. She is from Benin and if I remember correctly, she doesn’t really have sponsors. She hustle part time and during holiday to raise funds annd whatever is left, she solicit for assistance to make it up.

Ekpoma is expensive and not really convenient for those without sponsors. When I left in 2006, school fees was 15k and a single room apartment was 12k - 18k per annum. I recently learnt from my cousin schooling there that apartment goes from like 100k or so upward, and school fees is almost 200k plus blocking costing as much as 15k per course. Blocking in 2006 was 1k
Skul fees , only nursing , law , medicine and engineering pay more than 120k and they're cheap houses bro , you can get a single room for 50k .
BTW . If something enter my hand , I'll call her let's link up and give her small thing . Let's just work and pray .
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