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To hell with her

Makophils:
I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months because she asked me when was the last time I gave her money to make her hair and nails.I yelled at her when she popped the question out of the blues and things escalated quickly from there which eventually lead to our breakup. I've never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked even though I must admit that she wasn't materialistic.

I lost my job last year december when my company downsized but I was fairly compensated . Since then,my ex only visited me once despite staying in the same city with me. Knowing fully well that I had no job but still going ahead to ask that insensitive question really made me angry. Earlier this year,I gave her money when she was returning to school. I also gave her money during her birthday. After we had the argument,I still went back to apologize to her but insisted that she is no longer interested.

So,I just wanted to confirm from you guys,Did I overreact when she asked that question ? Did this girl even loved me in the first place ?

listen to yourself speak, is there sense in your actions?

budaatum:
Yes, you overreacted.

You yourself said you have "never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked", so why did you not just tell her when was the last time you gave her money to make her hair and nails?

She is the one who broke up with you by telling you on your return that she was no more interested, so move on please.

Shebi your eye don clear now

ghettochild:
Shebi your eye don clear now

My eye has always been clear. I did sit on my glasses and break them but I got replacement so there.

Makophils:
I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months because she asked me when was the last time I gave her money to make her hair and nails.I yelled at her when she popped the question out of the blues and things escalated quickly from there which eventually lead to our breakup. I've never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked even though I must admit that she wasn't materialistic.

I lost my job last year december when my company downsized but I was fairly compensated . Since then,my ex only visited me once despite staying in the same city with me. Knowing fully well that I had no job but still going ahead to ask that insensitive question really made me angry. Earlier this year,I gave her money when she was returning to school. I also gave her money during her birthday. After we had the argument,I still went back to apologize to her but insisted that she is no longer interested.

So,I just wanted to confirm from you guys,Did I overreact when she asked that question ? Did this girl even loved me in the first place ?

Sorry for what happened to you but you did nothing wrong in reacting to her that way.

She knows you’re a providing man so if you haven’t been doing it for a while then she should understand that you just have been unable due to certain things.

Women only take and take and take and never give and the moment you can’t provide anymore they move to someone who can do that.

That is what we call hypergamy.