If you cannot feed your self well as a man stay away from marriage.

This is what happens when unserious and wayward people decide to get married!

how can a wife cheat just because she wants to feed her children. will she be able to tell the children this when they grown up without she herself been ashamed? most women think their pussy is the only way to make money in their life.

Women have very low-self esteem!

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

You support her dating another woman's husband..because you see that it is hurting a man, her husband.

Do you know how the sugar daddy's wife will feel when she finds out her own husband is taking care of another woman's sexual needs and financial need?

Would you mind your husband being a super daddy to a married lady whose husband isn't taking care of?

You women no dey get sense in things of emotion. Look at how you quickly supported her actions not considering the pains of the other woman. But you believe as long as the irresponsible hubby of the woman in the Op is feeling the pain. Everything is good.

Hypocrite.

Is she handicapped?
Even those they christen "handicapped" are paying their bills independently!

Her husband doesn't provide for her and the children isn't justification enough for her shameless acts!

It is high time many women began to see themselves as having lives of their own different from the men!
You have brain and can think and as such, "thou art inexcusable o woman"!

seguno2:

Is it the same person as the one in your below stories

Na she
Na him sister

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

He should be careful with his threats. The sugar daddy may set him up and get him locked away in prison while he has unrestricted access to the woman. He may even kill him. Doesn't he have mistresses? Did he actually neglect his family? People are always quick to gaslight women in nigeria. Did the bible not say something about a man not being able to fend for his family? What was the term the bible used exactly? What else does that mean? Make una dey cut women some slack abeg

madridguy:
The man should first take the children for DNA first.

Ho ho ho

Crazy things are happening

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

So d only option is to open legs

advanceDNA:


Are u women allergic to making ur own money? Any small thing.. will say you have no choice but to cheat, go into prostitution etc.

.the way out almost always involve spreading legs for men(tagging it no choice)

A synonym for being lazy.

But u can easily Divorce and become full time olosho na

What an irresponsible man. Why is the woman not working too? These days both the husband and wife should be able to provide for the family.

frozen70:


You have quickly condemned her for going extra miles to feed a foolish man's children while he is still alive

Why not crucify him for starving his family yet rock his world to the detriment of his family

What makes you different from him

.

Telling you ooooo....May be they would prefer her to watch her kids die of malnutrition...

The kind ashawo wey dey 9ja girls eyes erh! Even the devil dey fear.

If she want to help out the family, is it only through ashawo work?

Innobee99:
But u can easily Divorce and become full time olosho na

What about your gender that's as stupid as dirty handkerchief who brought kids he knows vividly there's no source of support to train the kids..
Face ur gender and leave her alone...

immortalmortal:
Very funny... Instead of going to get a job and providing for herself and her kids and leaving the man who isn't providing for her, she's going to have sugar daddy make the man wife no sha catch am. If you check well, the man maybe hustling hard to provide for his wife and kids but the woman is expecting more. If I'm the man, I'll trace the sugar daddy's wife and be bleeping her.

If anything we should hear from the man cause women can justify anything. As far as I'm concerned we don't know anything about the situation

A cheating woman is a cheating woman. Don't colourate with anything else. If a man misbehaves, there are many ways to handle issues like that but I'm sure she didn't sought for any but went straight for suagr daddy as an option.

This just happened within my neighbourhood, this guy provides everything. I mean everything but his wife was caught sleeping with her personal driver.

The man should leave her and move on abeg

pocohantas:
Instead of killing the kind sugar daddy, he should divorce his wife and continue with his life. You can be a terrible husband, but do not be a terrible father. Most women wouldn't forgive you for the latter. No matter how irresponsible you want to be as a man, have a soft spot for your kids.




Painfully they spend outside on small small girls, but stress life out of the wife at home.

I'm yet to see a woman here who have condemned the woman for trying to ruin another woman's marriage.

None of you would accept it if your hubby is the sugar daddy. Cos you can't tell me the man doesn't have his own family as well.

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her in every means necessary, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

💯

Chinny024:


What about your gender that's as stupid as dirty handkerchief who brought kids he knows vividly there's no source of support to train the kids..
Face ur gender and leave her alone...

Stupid as hankerchief that built modern civilization as we know it. What is the ratio of inventions from men to women.

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her in every means necessary, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

Guy the matter tire me...

The husband has failed in his responsibility, the only option left for the woman is to start sleeping with another woman's husband so as to survive.

And nobody seems to be concerned about the wife and children of the sugar daddy; whom as far as I am concerned are the real victims here.

...make we just dey play...

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

You are sick in the head. Is there anything to justify adultery?

That's why women should have something doing to be able to carter for their children instead of seeing marriage as poverty alleviation.

I don't support the man though, every man should be able to take care of his family but sometimes there are setbacks. Does it mean every woman should open legs?

Ishilove:

Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

my sister I wonder o! A man can cheat but woman can't

what rubbish is this one saying? Are we talking of the man cheating or the man not providing for his family? Of all alternatives to be a real woman and provide in place of the irresponsible husband,cheating or having a sugar daddy is the justified move right? Disgusting

Ishilove:

Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

Your parents did a bad job raising you.
So you cant advise her to double her hustle?
I pity the men that will marry you or your daughters.

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

There’s an option called “ get a job”

People wey dey ment. See as they're justifying the woman's move. She no see job do to take care of her children only? Even if the man die, that's how they'll still justify getting a sugar daddy. Sick peeps

deltateam:



You are sick in the head. Is there anything to justify adultery?

That's why women should have something doing to be able to carter for their children instead of seeing marriage as poverty alleviation.

I don't support the man though, every man should be able to take care of his family but sometimes there are setbacks. Does it mean every woman should open legs?

Alot of them no get sense

kokaneprodigy:

There’s an option called “ get a job”

The husband should be held responsible for her sins...period..

Even God said you should cater for ur family and provide whatsoever they want.

Why marrying and bearing kids when you know quite alright you can't support ur family financially, emotionally and otherwise.

He has abused her psychologically already by not standing up to his responsibilities..