₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Aren't you Dutch?

Dutch Caribbean sir, Aruba - google it.

BlessedEnoche:
Dutch Caribbean sir, Aruba - google it.

What race are you? Because Caribbeans come in all races.

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

Lol am from the Dutch Caribbean sir, Aruba.
Am black,my ancestors are from Africa.

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

"Blessed Enoch"
😂

1Sharon:
What race are you? Because Caribbeans come in all races.

Am from the island of Aruba, The Dutch Caribbean.
You are asking about my skin color?

BlessedEnoche:
Am from the island of Aruba, The Dutch Caribbean.
You are asking about my skin color?

Yes!

ednut1:
The Ghana you talked about. Many are running back to USA. If you have money you can try it that is can afford places where rich people in Nigeria stay and the schools. If you are poor or just average in your current country you will suffer o

African Americans are so used to the American lifestyle, so I am not surprised they fled. Anyone who grew up in sub-Saharan Africa for the first 25 years of his/her life will have fewer issues compared to African Americans. Like this now, wetin go hard me to stay in Ghana?

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

I am forced to agree. Reminds me of dem monikers - Cap28 and 50Calibre. Those niggas will stay in one room somewhere in London, pontificating about returning to Africa. To date, none has returned. Pharkleen does the same nonsense on YouTube. The OP's account is also new. Meanwhile, she has known Nairaland for donkey years. I am always wary of folks who want to return yet discourage others from leaving after making money, becoming naturalised citizens, etc.

FAKE NEWS!

1Sharon:
Yes!

Am a proudly Black queen and even wish to be Nigerian by birth, my next life i want to be a Nigerian 😀

Gerrard59:
I am forced to agree. Reminds me of dem monikers - Cap28 and 50Calibre. Those niggas will stay in one room somewhere in London, pontificating about returning to Africa. To date, none has returned. Pharkleen does the same nonsense on YouTube. The OP's account is also new. Meanwhile, she has known Nairaland for donkey years. I am always wary of folks who want to return yet discourage others from leaving after making money, becoming naturalised citizens, etc.

FAKE NEWS!

frankleen now does babalawo /ifa stuff hahaha. What a clown

ednut1:
frankleen now does babalawo /ifa stuff hahaha

I really hope he is cashing out, though. If not, na waste of time and the mumu subscribers. One wonders why has he not returned ever since? You see people who continuously say one thing and never do it. Ndi do as I say, not as I do. They never get to practice what they preach.

BlessedEnoche:
Am a proudly Black queen and even wish to be Nigerian by birth, my next life i want to be a Nigerian 😀

So why didn't you say you were Dutch caribbean to begin with? Begging it!

And where are you right now

Gerrard59:
I really hope he is cashing out, though. If not, na waste of time and the mumu subscribers. One wonders why has he not returned ever since? You see people who continuously say one thing and never do it. Ndi do as I say, not as I do. They never get to practice what they preach.

Phrankleen lives in Nigeria!

1Sharon:
So why didn't you say you were Dutch caribbean to begin with? Begging it.

And where are you right now

Sister can we stay on the topic, its about me coming to Nigeria and want to know why no nigerians want to go back home or their experiences, just for me to learn from them, thats all.

I dont know any Nigerian that want to relocate,when i ask them they are asking me if am crazy etc. As if Nigeria has war.

I know some Dutch expacts that lives there but they are expacts working for Shell or Heineken and they only talk good about Nigeria but my inlaws are talking bad.

People are travelling from ages to any part of the world, i want to show my kids the African lifestyle.

BlessedEnoche:
Sister can we stay on the topic, its about me coming to Nigeria and want to know why no nigerians want to go back home or their experiences, just for me to learn from them, thats all.

I dont know any Nigerian that want to relocate,when i ask them they are asking me if am crazy etc. As if Nigeria has war.

I know some Dutch expacts that lives there but they are expacts working for Shell or Heineken and they only talk good about Nigeria but my inlaws are talking bad.

People are travelling from ages to any part of the world, i want to show my kids the African lifestyle.

You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

1Sharon:
You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

How? am Dutch! Is my skin color even important for this topic? We Arubans are Dutch by birth. (The Dutch colonise us, which is not a good thing, thats another story) but i still love my island.

If you want to know my island please come and visit Aruba its a small but beautiful place.
I can only talk about my island Aruba.
Caribbean is so divers and i dont know much about Jamaica and Haiti, but what i know is that Haiti is one of the poorest country in the world, some are in Aruba but they are so proud of their country,i remember during the earthquake in Haïti, the haitians in Aruba were doing alot of things to raise money to send to Haiti to rebuild the country.

But you cant compare Nigeria with jamaica and Haiti, Nigeria is a big country with alot of potentials its not a competition.

You are getting me wrong, am not stopping anybody to come to the western world, my questions was why Nigerians dont want to come back home? Even when they are settled?

I just want to learn, my kids are nigerians too and i want them to be proud of their country.

1Sharon:
Phrankleen lives in Nigeria!

Fantastic! Finally, he gets to practice what he has been preaching for donkey months. Even though he holds unto his British passport, it is a wonderful first step in the right direction.

1Sharon:
You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

Every sane Haitian should strive to flee the country na. Is that question really necessary?

BlessedEnoche:
We want to emigrate to Nigeria with our children, from Europe.
Under 18 yrs, we are Nigerian (husband) and dutch, the way the world is going, we would like them to have a bit of the African life experience. We love to travel.


Our family is used to travel and live in multiple countries, western world, But not Africa. We want to farm in Nigeria.

Am doing some research and what i found out is that there are a large amount of afro Americans that are moving to Ghana to settle down there, the Ghanian government even have a special treatment for them.

Even Ghanians are willing to go back home from the western world, when you go on YouTube etc, there are alot of stories about people relocating to Ghana with families from all over the world.

When i speak to the Nigerians in the diaspora, they are condemning Nigeria, talking down on Nigeria.
Even the Shell workers (expats) dont want to go back to Nigeria (even with pensions). Most Nigerians want to even leave Nigeria. The Nigerian students are not returning home after their studies to share their knowledge and to help build Nigeria.

This is so shocking to me because i have never heard any other African speaking countries speak so bad about their own country like the Nigerians do, even somalians are going back to Somalia.

My question is;
is there anybody in this group that went back home with children from the western world and what was your experience, how did your kids cope? How did yourself cope?

In case you or your kids need a teacher of Nigeria Language. I do that online. That's my field

ednut1:
u sha wan talk lol. She should go and stay in a gated estate in igando abi 🙄

Humans reside there ,and they are living the good life.

1Sharon:
Phrankleen lives in Nigeria!

I don't think he lives in Nigeria permanetly, i think he travels frequently for projects and his new found spritual journey.

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

No time for unnecessary shalaye

Come Nigeria yourself and experience the plenty wealth and prosperity in the nation.

There no dey tell person twice

how old are your children?

Gerrard59:
Fantastic! Finally, he gets to practice what he has been preaching for donkey months. Even though he holds unto his British passport, it is a wonderful first step in the right direction.



Every sane Haitian should strive to flee the country na. Is that question really necessary?

Lol. Why wouldn't he hold onto his British passport?

Exactly. Haiti is a poor country like Nigeria, so what's the OP's point?

BlessedEnoche:
Nope sir, to travel is good.
Infact travel because its good for your experience.
Am not discouraging anybody.
We are working online for the past 14 yrs so we did not made our money "abroad" and we are still working, we are still very young.
But its about the mindset, taking risk and apart from that i like to take adventure.
There are millions of people now working online from different countries

Indians, Bangladesh etc are working online, there are alot of jobs you can do online without blaming the government, you only need a good internet connection.

I know my inlaws, nigerians are very intelligent, creative, hustlers, educated and hard working people, but its just the mindset to think that everything western is good if we continue to think like this, the westerner will never respect us and will continue to feel superior over us.

A westerner will not go to Africa/Caribbean for a "better life" (he will not come for benefits) , but he will come to invest or to do business.

I would love to see my inlaws go back home after sometime and stop looking down on Nigeria

Great, pls follow your heart, too many negative n pessimistic people here. A quick one, which area of IT would u advice one interested in remote work to go into?

BlessedEnoche:
We want to emigrate to Nigeria with our children, from Europe.
Under 18 yrs, we are Nigerian (husband) and dutch, the way the world is going, we would like them to have a bit of the African life experience. We love to travel.

Simple answer
Your children will hate you forever for depriving them of an upbringing in an advanced country. They will curse you until they dance on your grave.

1Sharon:
You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

I don`t see any deception in all what the OP has written, If your live in an ethnically diverse western
country your IDENTITY may become a rather complex issue, in contrast to nationality, which is
a very simple thing. Identity has more to do with what , where and who you identify with. It more
often tallies but must not always tally with your ethnicity. Identity is a thing of free will and a basic
Right of each individual. You can`t tell somebody who he or she is.

His dad died in a car crash in Nigeria. He survived. He was 12 years or so. But that doesn't mean that anyone that comes home from abroad with his children wouldn't make it back safely. Plenty people do.

BlessedEnoche:
why? Explain?

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

When people think of the Netherlands, they don't take into consideration with the fact that The Netherlands consist of three other countries in the Caribbeans (Aruba, Curacao, and Sint maartens).

So you could be born in the Caribbean, never set your foot in European Netherlands, but you're a Dutch and EU citizen.

By the way she writes, I could tell that she is a Dutch-Caribbean. So it's not fake o. She is Dutch proper, most likely. Netherlands territory is non-contiguous.

BlessedEnoche

Just like others have said, come spend a month or two with the family, and decide from there. Online things and realities are different.

1Sharon:
Lol. Why wouldn't he hold onto his British passport?

I am of the opinion that Nigerians in the diaposra who pontificate that Nigerians in Nigeria should not relocate should move back to Nigeria. And when they do, they should let go of their developed countries' citizenships and residency statuses. It is practicing what they preach.

No to hypocrisy.

Exactly. Haiti is a poor country like Nigeria, so what's the OP's point?

Nigeria is pretty governable, and the economy is Africa's biggest. Haiti is a wasteland, poor, totally ungovernable and completely lawless. It is a magnified sh!thole! It is better to reside in Borno than in Haiti. Tensa20 has given OP options. She should do the needful.

Gerrard59:
I am of the opinion that Nigerians in the diaposra who pontificate that Nigerians in Nigeria should not relocate should move back to Nigeria. And when they do, they should let go of their developed countries' citizenships and residency statuses. It is practicing what they preach.

No to hypocrisy.



Nigeria is pretty governable, and the economy is Africa's biggest. Haiti is a wasteland, poor, totally ungovernable and completely lawless. It is a magnified sh!thole! It is better to reside in Borno than in Haiti. Tensa20 has given OP options. She should do the needful.

Dooes that include Nigerians that were born in the UK, because you know we exist right?

You guys don't get it. If someone moves to a new country and struggles, it's not so easy to just move back. Look at Lagos state, alot of people aren't indigenous and they struggle. Do they conceive moving back? Who tells them to go back to their state of origin?
It is poor vulnerable Nigerians that truly need to relocate. The present stock are simply greedy and copyiing others. Phrankleen is trying to tell Nigerians as it is, back in the day Nigerians used to tell rosy stories about the West and lie about their achievements. Now people are telling them as it is and they're accusing them of holding them back and trying to stop their progress. Why are Nigerians so hard headed with a pack mentality?

It is sickening how ignorant Nigerians think moving to the West alone automatically guarantees their success or means they've made it in life. I'm not anti-japa, I support Doctors & nurses going to the West, these are people that are guaranteed to become somebody.


OK how about Jamaica?