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Jashub:
Get your lawyer and tell him to meet you in court on the grounds of libel and defamation of character. Its that simple .

If he can afford a lawyer to sue and drag a case of libel and defamation of character, then he shouldn't be living in such humble conditions, to begin with!

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a reply from me.
I no reply I no send them.

Right thing to do. Op nova see problem so he dey form familiarity and friendship wey no go profit am.

Adonispco:
Also if I force myself to pursue it; people living around will hear about it; me being cognizance of the power of rumours knows that many cant reason logically, so i have to continue to the look up to God.

They have interfered with my peace of mind which is sacrosanct to me but I believe that God knows the best and I now leave everything to Him.

First, you don't "leave" things in the hand of GOD, by being passive.
You leave things in the hand of GOD by taking a firm stand to pray to GOD to vindicate you, day and night and ask HIM to vindicate you.
And after praying each time, give HIM thanks for answering you.

Please always raise alarm, why will you allow that child corrupt your Landlord's children?
Immediately you caught them, you raise alarm right there and then!

Now they are on the offensive.
Go counter offensive by praying led of The Holy Ghost.

Since you won't be packing out of the compound, only GOD can help you if only you will vehemently refuse to keep your mouth shut and open it and pray.

The devil and his cohorts are mean but GOD is The Almighty.
Watch your dreams from henceforth and cancel every manipulation of the wicked against your life through dreams.

Op you better find way park out from that place...those people way dey go meet spiritualists instead of to carry their pikin go hospital brutal oo...make dem no com put something for your door_mot.

But Op why na only you dem suspect abi your appearance dey brutal

Adonispco:
thanks

Ask the landlord to convene a general meeting of the tenants then challenge the man to bring proof of his accusations against you!

hahahaha face me I slap u nai u go dey wit women as neighbor...hmm married ones or not dey are a mess. I sure say na Ibadan side abi

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a reply from me.
I no reply I no send them.

This is just my character tbh...! Over-familiarity doesn't just breed contempt, it can lead to such frivolous and ridiculous accusations!

You can't dare accuse me of a damn thing when you nor dey see me anywhere near your house or family!

I really believe in everyone minding his or her fvcking business! Dey your lane, and stay the fvck out of mine!

histemple:
Slander, NOT libel

A Yoruba musician once said don’t trust this four people:
1.Enemies
2.betrayer
3.slander
4.Envious of your little win

superemmy:
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Someone made a heavy accusation that he attempted to murder their children by poisoning and you're neither seeing the levity nor gravity of the accusation. There must be something seriously wrong with your perception

Does the man have money to cause trouble via lawyer or police. The answer is no. If he does have the money, he won't be living in a one room apartment. He would have parked out since January five months ago.

Sue the man and wife. Act fast bfr dem

Merch:
wtf! maybe you dey play with them too much na wetin cause this disrespect and accusations you dey recieve, i don’t relate with neighbors apart from greetings my neighbors never see my smiling teeth for like 6 months now

Smiling teeth??! Most of my neighbors don't see me for months! Period!!

I got no time for nonsense familiarity!!!

SilentVboy:
Bro I give u 3 gbosa. You do exactly as I do here in Aba where I stay. Both to d children and all in d compound.
In fact, sometimes, two of them decide to initiate a chat by saying "Oga how work today? And I simply say, "It was fine, thank u" and off I get into my apartment.

Too much familiarity will bring nonsense. Best is to mind my business.

Esp those who want to use your gas to cook beans whenever you’re not around just because of familiarity

Abeg pack Comot for ur own sanity, mental health and peace of mind.

Adonispco:
I knew that this question will spring up and am ready to answer this with all honesty.

In the place I live we have 'the landlord who is married with kids, a bachelor who is due for marriage, a single mother who is focusing on her business, my parents whom i still live with and that troublesome neighbour'.

In the aspect of my neighbours daughther; to be honest I will explain few of her misdemenour cause she is actually the little imp i underated;

I am a blacksmither working under someone and due to the nature of the job we normally have resting day(s) at least a day every week.
So whenever am at home reading or surfing the internet i also pay attention to things happening in my surroundings; until I noticed changes in the behaviours of my Landlord's kids who always play with that my neighbour's eldest daughther.
She lured my two landlord kids a boy and a girl ( 7 & 9) years old respectively into (fornication) ie an abominable act .
Yes that imp did that cos she always lures them into a room with disguise of playing with them and locks the door to avoid been caught.

She have made several attempts of seductions towards me, let me not go further on that imp lifestyle cos using (misdemenour) is an understatement.

I saw many seductions from both mother and daughter.
When they saw that i cant be compromised, and I will be a barrier to their devilish mission she and her mother came up with that heavy allegation so that I can be silenced.

I can swear at any given time that I never gave those my neighbours kids 'mirinda and Biscuit'.

Park out of that place and stop explaining to unknown persons like us.

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

There are troublesome neighbours everywhere best thing to do is to maintain an aggressive behaviour and at same time, ignore them like they don't exist.

No worry, nah cases like this lawyer Sabinus dey for, wetin you dey find go Sokoto dey your Sokoto, reach out to lawyer Sabinus, you don win that case already 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Adonispco:
I knew that this question will spring up and am ready to answer this with all honesty.

In the place I live we have 'the landlord who is married with kids, a bachelor who is due for marriage, a single mother who is focusing on her business, my parents whom i still live with and that troublesome neighbour'.

In the aspect of my neighbours daughther; to be honest I will explain few of her misdemenour cause she is actually the little imp i underated;

I am a blacksmither working under someone and due to the nature of the job we normally have resting day(s) at least a day every week.
So whenever am at home reading or surfing the internet i also pay attention to things happening in my surroundings; until I noticed changes in the behaviours of my Landlord's kids who always play with that my neighbour's eldest daughther.
She lured my two landlord kids a boy and a girl ( 7 & 9) years old respectively into (fornication) ie an abominable act .
Yes that imp did that cos she always lures them into a room with disguise of playing with them and locks the door to avoid been caught.

She have made several attempts of seductions towards me, let me not go further on that imp lifestyle cos using (misdemenour) is an understatement.

I saw many seductions from both mother and daughter.
When they saw that i cant be compromised, and I will be a barrier to their devilish mission she and her mother came up with that heavy allegation so that I can be silenced.

I can swear at any given time that I never gave those my neighbours kids 'mirinda and Biscuit'.

It is very Ckear where this Envy or Bitterness is Coming from...They Wanted ur Attention and nothing More. The Wife is IRRESPONSIBLE from the Presentations so far...Defending her First Juvenile Daughter is Common Practice with such Fellows...So d Daughter also Covers d Mum's ill Behaviour. With ur additional Explanation, you have No Cause for Worry,Pls. Your Parents are there for you. You all Should Live in Peace until You Vacate that Place. Dont Go to Police or Lawyer...Except ur Parents Want to incident the Matter in d Nearest Police Station for the Records against Future Reference,Pls. God Bless You with Wisdom to Deal with All ur Challenges, Pls

You don't belong to that place. Just move out...

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

Since your landlord is aware of the issue, you failed to tell us your landlord's position concerning the matter. Regardless of that, please involve the police about this matter because I foresee bigger issue with your neighbor in the future if you continue to live in that house.

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

You should have recorded the meeting in case they deny.

Manchi going to court is good i know about that one, but how much are you willing to help him hire police and lawyers. Fine he was accussed, this man is a struggling man. This was how a man deceived my friend to go hire lawyer and police because the landlord and his wife is in loggerhead. I tell him to leave the compound, any compound that is not safe for you the next thing is to leave the territory instead of spending unnecessary cash. After all when you get your own house you will live in peace, all this are lessons

superemmy:
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Someone made a heavy accusation that he attempted to murder their children by poisoning and you're neither seeing the levity nor gravity of the accusation. There must be something seriously wrong with your perception

Another angle is that, maybe you have something that the woman is desperately looking for, she might have been given you the signal without you noticng her. >: since her husband is a traveler. Bros many things dey happen for face to face house, your case is still minor shaa

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

Flight90:
If you want to have peace of mind ehn, just pack out...watch your back

Thank you.

Just laughing at those saying arrest arrest 😂 , it's not that simple, there won't be peace again.

Just pack out !

Bro, pls save your sanity. Relocate please.

Did dey tie your destiny in that compound ?

Continue to stay there ...

Instead of you to leave such environment, you are turning us to your compound matter judge.


Don't you bring up such topic here again am warning you....


Very soon, dey will accuse u of sleeping with someone's wife...


Na jail u go find yourself..... Ode

stampo:
Did dey tie your destiny in that compound ?

Continue to stay there ...

Instead of you to leave such environment, you are turning us to your compound matter judge.


Don't you bring up such topic here again am warning you....


Very soon, dey will accuse u of sleeping with someone's wife...


Na jail u go find yourself..... Ode

.
No money to park sir

if you love yourself, you'd find a way to get out of that house.

Relax, you'll be fine.

I have quoted you with an additional information.

seborrhic:
He should get a female acquaintance to start living with him in a 2 rooms apartment with his parents?
Do you people even bother to read or you just read headline and the first paragraph and reply?

There is no mention of his parents in the original post.
My belief is - he can't be staying with anyone, much more his parents and that neighbor's wife will have the gut to level such weighty allegations! It might indeed be his parents house, but they're not around.
@Adonispco, what're your parents saying in all these?!

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

.how old are you so I will know how to advise you

Revolution2022:
Renting a self-contained in Lagos is very expensive.How much is minimum wage?

Exactly why the lawyer thing might nt work for his level