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Lance008:
Which battle
Maybe you don't know grave is real

You won Dey fight person mak he hope Na juju I pity you
Bro no be everybody them they fight
Silence is the best answer given to a fool

superemmy:
Juju or African Science doesn't work on everybody. Do you know why? It's simply the difference in belief. As far as I'm concerned that young man is suffering in silence. Most people who get depressed over accusations like this end up committing suicide and for what? He should make the police aware. Hope those children don't end up really dying from someone else's hands, that's when you'll know silence is not the answer to some types of accusations.


Hope you know its a case of attempted murder accusation

valiju:
Are you a wahala person if yes ,report the neighbor to the police and have them arrest them
And the juju man until they are able to prove their senseless allegation

But If you are not pray and work hard for blessings because the problem you are having is a gave me
I face you problem

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a reply from me.
I no reply I no send them.

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

hansomb:
For the fact the man visit juju man means your case is still on the juju man table. Another thing is if the children should have any sickness you will be the suspected victim. You won't feel free in the house. Write a statement in the nearest police station to future wahalar.

Adonispco:
You are right am trying to establish a business of my own so i dont have such money luxury.

Adonispco:
I knew that this question will spring up and am ready to answer this with all honesty.

In the place I live we have 'the landlord who is married with kids, a bachelor who is due for marriage, a single mother who is focusing on her business, my parents whom i still live with and that troublesome neighbour'.

In the aspect of my neighbours daughther; to be honest I will explain few of her misdemenour cause she is actually the little imp i underated;

I am a blacksmither working under someone and due to the nature of the job we normally have resting day(s) at least a day every week.
So whenever am at home reading or surfing the internet i also pay attention to things happening in my surroundings; until I noticed changes in the behaviours of my Landlord's kids who always play with that my neighbour's eldest daughther.
She lured my two landlord kids a boy and a girl ( 7 & 9) years old respectively into (fornication) ie an abominable act .
Yes that imp did that cos she always lures them into a room with disguise of playing with them and locks the door to avoid been caught.

She have made several attempts of seductions towards me, let me not go further on that imp lifestyle cos using (misdemenour) is an understatement.

I saw many seductions from both mother and daughter.
When they saw that i cant be compromised, and I will be a barrier to their devilish mission she and her mother came up with that heavy allegation so that I can be silenced.

I can swear at any given time that I never gave those my neighbours kids 'mirinda and Biscuit'.

Nlanalyst:
You live with your parents in a face me and slap you single room? Wow!!
You didn't answer the question still anyways. Why were you accused in particular amidst all tenants?

stevups:
From the beginning of the story you said his eldest daughter was this and that! Please you should learn how to mind your business first. Your initial statement on your neighbor kids makes you the center of the accusation. You would have demonstrated some unwarranted actions before then, if police were involved, you would be questioned seriously.

PapaNnamdi:
I will tell you the root of the problem, I have been In your shoes before,

it's because you don't interact with the neighbors,

it's common with women, mins was with 2women as at then in blocks of 5flats,

just because I go out and come in ,stay indoors caused the problem,

the woman may have interest in you, and your ignoring will spike any form of trouble,

I was called gay to my own heraing, a wizard, and so on..

I still didn't reply and the problem didn't stop till I moved out,


she will look for ppl to join her in hating you there,
just ignore them till you move, that's all nothing will happen

superemmy:
Juju or African Science doesn't work on everybody. Do you know why? It's simply the difference in belief. As far as I'm concerned that young man is suffering in silence. Most people who get depressed over accusations like this end up committing suicide and for what? He should make the police aware. Hope those children don't end up really dying from someone else's hands, that's when you'll know silence is not the answer to some types of accusations.

Hope you know its a case of attempted murder accusation

thestreets:
hahahahahahahahaha.

I am in a similar situation though. Funny thing is I am always indoors and that pisses them off. I no dey beg. modafokas were saying they will see how i will make rent but i cleared my rent a month to my rent's due date. nigerians too wicked. if that guy no stand well that woman go use am learn work. always looking for young guys to mess with and not everyone takes that shit

Owaincouncil:
You are right bro. I just fear this naija jobless woman. They can do anything to harm once they hate you.
Betrayer don't repent. They only look for opportunity to strike. May we never be their prey or victim in Jesus name.

FarmTech:
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Another similar experience as mine. I don't relate with a lot of people mainly bc of the dirty jokes they make. And for women you add their seductive behaviors to me. Many women are shameless. May I not marry their type.

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a replyfrom me.
I no reply I no send them.

Adonispco:
As a good science student although am just an SSCE holder; am always Observant of my environment.

Am always pissed-off living in the same place with a chronic stealer; cos If you have lived in a face me i slap you house where someone with uncouth mouth is looking for her thing; oga you will be badmouthed either directly or indirectly;
if such a thing keeps on repeating often will you keep on minding you business?
You can now see why i have to explain more about her characters.
I go about my business; and to be candid I dont like women's interaction.
Now put yourself in my shoes and see what actually led to my accusation.

Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.

PapaNnamdi:
It's a wrong move bro, I learnt the hard way, till I read 48laws of power,

That interaction alone will give u alot than it will take away.

Adonispco:
I was initially down cos they almost killed my soul with that allegation.
Am recuperating from the trauma and depression since May and almost okay cos there is a saying that time is the greatest healer.
Later on, i will throw more light on what made me overcome.

FarmTech:
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But what would I gain from dirty jokes and women that behave like prostitutes? I'm a Christian and I know the value of avoiding bad companies. If I don't get you pls clarify.

superemmy:
Don't throw any light on your coping method. I'm just irritated that you let this slide without making a statement. I hate the fact that you're weak to even begin with.

Making a statement at the police station doesn't mean you're arresting anybody. It's just a surety and defence against any future aggression. You messed up big time and you're here telling me how you overcame. This is not a religious matter

Im really angry at you

Adonispco:
I am about to do that cos from all advise received so far it is the best thing to do.

PapaNnamdi:
keep them at arms length,

but exchange pleasantries with them, once in a while a Convo with jokes and go your way,

you will be amazed there will be situations that these neighbors become useful,

we use enemies rather than keep them away

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a reply from me.
I no reply I no send them.