₦airaland Forum

felong:
You're a weakling

eniolorunfe:
Why are you stressing yourself?

Allow your wife take care of her people. They are coming around because they love their daughter and to support her during this time. Even if it’s only garri and sugar with ice water that’s available for them to eat together I’m sure they wouldn’t mind.

Don’t use your hand to spoil a good thing. It’s not about what you can or cannot provide for them. They are not coming over because of food or what you can provide abeg! Stop overthinking things.thank you I get your point

Fatbam005:
My wife's parents are always coming to check on us. Always every week now that my wife is pregnant. Sometimes they come without Informing me only to hear knocks on the door like today. When that happens, I had to start running here and there to make sure they eat something. Sometime the food I planned that will sustain us we be sacrificed. The last time they came, they dropped one of the kids to help in washing among others. I had to call my wife to other when I met that one in our matrimonial room. Her mother would enter the kitchen and starts doing stuffs. My wife has four sisters now I am told two will come during ileya break. I am not financially buoyant to accommodate them for days. Well no crime I think I should let them know.