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| Re: People Are Suffering. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Mummyimbecile:yeah bro |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
WETIN I KNOW BE DAY THIS GOVERNMENT MUST FAVOUR ME ALL ROUND |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by sukkot: 8:22pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Desusi:you know what's funny ? I have lived in Aachen before. For 2 months. A street called zeppelin strasse . Wow. Small world. Well I am back in Nigeria too and ermm it's not perfect but if you know how to package your life it's actuality not too bad. Am loving it so far but only because I don't have a job here. I reckon it would be hell if I had a job. I try to hustle online remotely |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by DeeBaDan: 9:01pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
sukkot:Nice to have some people with back and forth travel experiences on the thread. Brotherly, how do you see the idea on a sister thread about Nigerians complaining about not having a good life over there and the prospect of having a better life here This thread precisely https://www.nairaland.com/7738556/nigerians-uk-really-suffering Btw, I won't stay in Germany even if I'm paid 2 M per month just to live in the country. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 9:24pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
sukkot:Yeah,Aachener Mensch! One of the most toughest city for foreigners when you're planning to stay.l was first in Duren,then,Alsdorf and Aachen.Certainly, the best thing to do, is to have a business of your own when you arrive here never plan to be employed by anyone, you would be frustrated.Wishing you all the best. You can connect me if you're able to take the bull by the head. Life is a journey. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by sukkot: 9:31pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:brotherly, as humans what we consider as suffering is not static. It changes over time with different circumstances. Right now living in naija suffering to you is no light and bad roads and no jobs and bad infrastructure. You want to japa to enjoy those things. After you japa, after a few years your idea of suffering changes to water bills, light bills, council tax, heavy taxation, bad weather, tiny apartment, crazy car insurance price, racism, not feeling like you belong, inability to save anything because of heavy billing etc etc. Then you stArt missing the simplicity of home with no bills. You generate your own water and light and houSe is paid for and no council tax, and buka food everywhere and everybody looks like you and you feel like you belong etc etc. All the things you used to complain about seem like no big deal anymore aka bad roads and light issue. You are missing home but now you are stuck in London forever because you can never eArn enough to relocate back home again because of heavy billing unless you are just one of the lucky few who is like an IT guru earning good money. And so depression sets in . That's the life of the average Londoner . Stuck. Can't move back and can't move forward . Copy and paste this my reply into that thread brotherly Some parts of Germany are good. Munich etc |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by sukkot: 9:37pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Desusi:yeah life was tough for all the Africans I saw back then. They housed them in make shift tents with Turks while waiting for their aduro papers . Tough life. But yeah life is a journey through the underworld. You need grace . Wishing you all the best too brother. I would definitely link up with you sometime |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Afromentalist: 9:39pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:May I ask why? |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by DeeBaDan: 9:44pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
sukkot:Good. I needed to hear this cause I sacrificed moving over to build businesses first for sustainance and then retirement |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by DeeBaDan: 9:45pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Afromentalist:Words of street talks about strong dislike towards blacks by Germans. Heavy dose of depression there. Lack of Christian culture to list a few |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by JooEeL(m): 9:54pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Agadinaagwuofe:Haha, u are correct. A senator saying his wife makes the decisions without holding a political office o. Bulkachawa is the name of the fulani politician. I can remember one time he went to UK ( I think to solicit for Ekweremadu for his child trafficking offence) and Koiki met him and disgraced him. Imagine the stupid country sef! A sitting senator smuggling a minor to take his kidney for his own daughter. What sort of zoo is this for God sake?! |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by isArray: 9:57pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:Can you expand on Christian culture? Germany is not a religious nation, but there are small group of believers that follow up with each other |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by isArray: 10:00pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Desusi:My take: if you don't understand German and you are living outside the main cities: Berlin, Munich, Hamburg you would struggle to get by with other people |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Afromentalist: 10:16pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:I have lived in different cities in Germany. I have never experienced any kind of racism. I mingle with top society Germans on a daily basis, nothing as such. I know Aachen, I always felt at peace there. I lived in small cities such as Babenhausen, Hofheim, Sarstedt, Peine, etc. Germany is one of the best country in this earth. Don't believe whatever people write online to justify their own misadventures. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Afromentalist: 10:17pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
isArray:This is true everywhere in the world. If someone does not speak English nor hausa and lives in Kano, will he get by with the locals? |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Banbanna(m): 10:18pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Seems that couple needs some serious family planning advice. How could they seriously bring another child into the world given their current situation? Sad thing be say, they'll end up using these children as leverage to almost constantly bother friends, acquaintances, and family for help. ikeno: |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by isArray: 10:26pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Afromentalist:Definitely not, integration would be difficult |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by DeeBaDan: 10:44pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Afromentalist:I still feel the vibe about not liking Germany as a country to live in even through your comments. Btw, when I make judgements on societal issues, I do it not based on the livelihood of the top tier but the bottom pole. I'll pass. Rather head for Spain, UK, Sweden, Holland etc |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by talented321: 10:46pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Oga i live govenment and go do farming, and i bet with my balls anyhow they want to do with nigeria e no concern me as far their is no war. The country has been messed up years ago, you are the one to find a way and help yourself because nothing is changing yet. Killermamba: |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Banbanna(m): 11:20pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Couldn't pay or he didn't want to? There are lots of people owing equivalent of that amount, or less in Naira who are capable of paying back but just wouldn't because they're chronic debtors and feel that you're well off than them. Hence you don't need the money. ceejay80s: |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by pansophist(m): 11:34pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Wetpuxy:Yes. He is polygamous in nature, and Austria doesn't support it. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by pansophist(m): 11:46pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Gerrard59:I went there for a wedding ceremony three years ago, not even now. I can't imagine how it would look now. The city makes you wonder if the government has any reach or jurisdiction over such places. There and then, you realize say Nigeria is actually just three states. Abuja, Lagos, and port Harcourt. The rest na unwanted attachment. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by pansophist(m): 11:49pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Gerrard59:The idea of living in a place and getting citizenship is a Western concept really, and since the prime global order is neoliberalism, other countries adopted it, especially if they are a UN countries. True, Asian countries don't give a shit if you have lived there almost forever. The Netherlands for example is very liberal. You can be a Dutch citizen if you are married to a Dutch person for three years, even if you haven't set foot in the Netherlands in your life. You apply through the embassy, prove you have been married for three years, and live abroad with your spouse, then boom, you get your citizenship. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by staga: 1:15am On Jun 26, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:Shut up mister. I used to roll with politicians before I realized they love no one but themselves and left that circle. You have no idea the things they do. NO IDEA! |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Asswipemod: 1:55am On Jun 26, 2023 |
seguno2:That's who you were gunning for. Couldn't be Atiku in a thousand years. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by seguno2: 2:43am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Asswipemod:Why not Atiku, who Obi said was better than him just four years ago ![]() |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 2:50am On Jun 26, 2023 |
isArray:Speaking German? I was a domeltscher for polizie.l can speak excellent German language, l would go with Nigerian to courts,police stations to defend them,particularly those with issues. Even when l arrived Nigeria, l would go to marriage registry and translated marriage divorce letters for money.Sometimes, l prepare Nigerians preparing for A1,2,3_ German language in gothe schools in V/ISLAND personally at home.Many of them indeed are making it and are checking out. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 3:01am On Jun 26, 2023 |
sukkot:You're welcomed. You truly had the experience. Germans don't mixed with others,they would isolate foreigners even their closed neighbours Belgians,Russians, dutches.All the best. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Asswipemod: 3:49am On Jun 26, 2023 |
seguno2:Stop lying. You're Obidient. |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by DeeBaDan: 4:41am On Jun 26, 2023 |
staga:Hypocrites act this way. You could have matched facts with facts Abeg swerve |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by 0neal(m): 5:31am On Jun 26, 2023 |
ikeno:Wahala 🤦 |
| Re: People Are Suffering. by Afromentalist: 5:59am On Jun 26, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:Your life your call. I was not trying to convince you of anything, my goal was to find if your assertion was backed by experience or mere hearsay , moreso if there is any serious substance to your claim. When I see the countries you are comparing with Germany, I guess it settles it for me. |
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