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Re: by Offpointng: 1:18pm On Jul 03, 2023
hashtagged:
Well I have had this issue for a couple of years back and I thought to myself no matter how I prayed or tried I would always lose.

One of the greatest tools of the devil is making you feel you can never be free, but the irony of it is that we were given freedom right from the moment Jesus died for us on the cross and we just have to accept it

Other tragedies followed suit, I became depresses, sucidial and very very sick and I started to hate God, until I entered one evening service in church and the topic was Don't give the devil any open door into your life.

I began to ponder when God revealed to me I had been giving the flesh open spaces into my life by the kind of music and movies I watch, things I do and ways I lived my life.

I stopped the movies, music, sinful lifestyle and replaced them with the reading the Bible and listening to teachings from men and women of God with God's help. You see God wants what's best for us, throw away all pre conceived ideas that God is cruel he is not, he loves us and we are his children too. And the sexual urge died, the depression left and I was healed of what the doctors couldn't treat.


If this message could bring just one person to God, I would be glad.
I pray God would delivers everyone reading this as you seek his face and his words in Jesus name amen.
How long have your abstinence been now?
Re: by hashtagged(op): 4:26pm On Jul 03, 2023
Offpointng:
How long have your abstinence been now?
Forever
Re: by Shankdeb(m): 4:56pm On Jul 03, 2023
Thank God for your life
Re: by Temiii69(m): 10:04pm On Jul 03, 2023
So what had been the "impact" in your life since you stopped? Made a $million, discorvered cure for Aids? Tell me what groynd breaking archievement have u had.




Note: Earth doesnt give a f#k if u mastubate or not. Virgins die everyday like flies sef so how are u special lol?
Re: by Temiii69(m): 1:49am On Jul 04, 2023
GreatVocalist:
If you have never been plagued with the negative effects of a toxic addiction, I suggest you stay off the spotlight and keep shut.

You think all problems are money-related? There are some problems that destroy a person's mind, and alters their mental processes to something scary.

Pornography and masturbation are examples of such problems. I think it is necessary for you to go and make a search on how these vices have crumbled lives, homes, marriages, etc, then you'll know that addiction is not a joke or something you take with a pinch of salt.
Not you coming to give lame testimonies. Tyson fury admits to mastubating alot especially before big fights. He is currently undefeated. Mastubation has helped alot of people control thier sexual urges(some would have been violebt rapist and end up in jail).

Point is; do whatever works for you... in moderation too
Re: by Temiii69(m): 11:10am On Jul 04, 2023
GreatVocalist:
Whether you accept it or not, masturbation is a destructive act, moderately or not. Even people who have no religious inclinations admit to this claim. So it's not just about being religious.

You think some people would gladly open up about the adverse effects of an addiction? In the same vein, people have varying abilities to handle these effects.

Masturbation acts as a means of sexual relief, but the irony of the matter is that, that "help" becomes a problem overtime by increasing the urge for sex. The overwhelming feeling that comes with it makes it lovable and easy to do, until it becomes a habit.
There are worst habits that can kill you. Man is an habitual animal you just have to choose one(vice). I know people who do drugs or alcohol or gamble or always in the gym, smoke even obssessively religious. Mastubation is just one of them plus it grately the relieves stress. If you dont have a spouse, masturbating helps you control your primary natural instinct which is to eat and mate. Some individuals with very high libido end up raping even children just to get relief which isnt worth it.

Mastubation is as hold as man itself.
Re: by Temiii69(m): 4:19pm On Jul 04, 2023
GreatVocalist:
Dig deep into the lives of those rapists carefully, you'll find that the greater percentage of them masturbate and fanasize a lot.

Though masturbation helps to temporarily relieve those desires, it somehow finds a way to amplify and make them stronger.
Hmmm
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