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Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 2:41pm On Jul 15, 2023
1) No one cares about you unless you are beautiful , rich or popular.


2) The amount of money you have determines the amount of " respect” you'll get from the people.

3) Nobody wants to be friend with poor people.

4) Tell a sweet lie , everyone will love you , tell them the bitter truth , they will see you as an arrogant, rude person.


5) Age doesn't guarantee intelligence. It comes through experiencing different kind of situations at different times.


6) You need to learn how to stop telling people things they don't deserve to know. Speak a bit less, and listen more.

7) People will hug you in front and will stab you at your back . Be careful!

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 2:41pm On Jul 15, 2023
8 ) Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.


9) Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is taking you out for a lunch/dinner.


10) Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem.


11 ) If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.


12 ) Praise publicly, criticize privately if you want fewer enemies and troubles in life

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jul 15, 2023
Who hurt you like this?
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 2:44pm On Jul 15, 2023
13 ) If you want peace, prepare for war.


14 ) Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.


15 ) If someone is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude, avoid it.


16 ) Failure is common to every successful person in life, sometimes the number of failures you encounter in life will determine how great and successful you will become, so don't let your failures discourage you.

17 ) When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary, avoid it.


18 ) Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Also, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren, always show empathy.

19 ) Karma is real but it doesn't always manifest in the present life, most times, our karma manifests in our next life after reincarnation, so try as much as you can to avoid being bad to people, no matter what, there is a reward, and that is where karma comes in, to balance life (our present life with our next life). So don't ever believe that all is well with the evil people you know that did evil and lived to old age and enjoyed riches, karma must balance their life.


20 ) Nothing lasts forever. Everything is temporary, everything.


21 ) We spend all our life chasing money, but we will die empty handed.


22 ) Only few of your so called friends want to see you succeed. Majority of them are there just to see you fall.


23 ) People do get bullied for their race , ethnicity , religion and it is the hardest truth of life.


24 ) You can't remain young forever , you will grow old and die, that's the rule of life .


25 ) Jealousy comes in jokes. Just pay attention and pick some lessons.


26 ) Those friends you are wasting all your important time with right now will start to envy you the very day you get a well paid job or business that keeps you busy and away from them, so minimize the idle time you spend with people you call friends.



27 ) Expect less from people; be it your parents, siblings, lover, spouse, friends and relatives, this is the only way to live a happy life free of disappointments. You only get disappointed or heartbroken when you put so much expectations from people.



28 ) If you want to die poor and miserable, spend most of your time at your religious worship places, but if you want to be financially successful in life, learn to sell anything with joy.

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by helinues: 2:45pm On Jul 15, 2023
Those who have little idea about you are the ones who assumed you most

Life is not fair to anyone. Deal with it

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Zonefree(m): 2:48pm On Jul 15, 2023
1) No one cares about you unless you are beautiful , rich or popular.

Oga, no one cares about beauty these days. Most beautiful Nigerian girls don't have sense.

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by izonborn098(m): 2:57pm On Jul 15, 2023
When a nigeria girl/women said you mean everything to her or you are good man, know that u don mumu well well

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Xwizard: 3:01pm On Jul 15, 2023
never vote wrong

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 15, 2023
Always remember naija girls don’t love you especially the ones from poor family

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 3:26pm On Jul 15, 2023
29 ) Whenever everybody likes you in a place, know that you are being used or you are being foolish.




30 ) If everything is going so perfectly well with you in life, please prepare for a doomsday.


31 ) The only perfect person is nobody, so expect mistakes from people around you; be it your domestic staffs, employees, maids, juniors, senior colleagues, siblings, friends, spouse, parents, business partners, etc.


32 ) Before you go dreaming of dating or marrying the rich guy, the hottest chick, the famous guy, etc, please remember that you may never be his or her spec, so appreciate those that admire and cherish you



33 ) Love those that love you, don't reward love with hatred or betrayal



Nlfpmod

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 3:36pm On Jul 15, 2023
Merch:
Always remember naija girls don’t love you especially the ones from poor family
No girl in the world loves any guy for no reason. People will always want you for a reason. Girls are after Davido because of his money and fame. Men are after Nengi and co because of her physical beauty. People like Tinubu because of his wealth, political power and influence, not because he is handsome. But the whole world celebrated Agbani Darego because she was physically attractive to the Judges of that beauty pageant then lol.


You want to date Anita because she is beautiful with nice shape, but you don't want to date ugly Rose that cherishes you just because she is ugly and doesn't have a nice shape.


The same way, Mary wants to date Richard because Richard is rich and famous, but Mary doesn't want to date Charles that is broke and ugly even though Charles have shown her he is ready to die for her.



So this thing called love is all about what we can offer to the opposite sex. Men are mostly after physical beauty in ladies, while ladies are mostly after our money and material possessions, so nobody is to be blamed, lets just focus on building up our value so we can become the most desirable and most sought after.

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 3:41pm On Jul 15, 2023
Zonefree:

Oga, no one cares about beauty these days. Most beautiful Nigerian girls don't have sense.
Majority of Nigerian guys are broke or struggling financially so physical beauty may not be their catch for a spouse, but successful men in Nigeria are only interested in women for their physical beauty and attraction.




But I still don't agree with you that Naija guys no send beauty for ladies, na lie bro cos even as we chat, if you log off and see a very pretty looking chick with some hot shape, you will sure notice her first before one ugly girl that comes down from a Lexus 460, true or false? cheesy
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Zonefree(m): 3:47pm On Jul 15, 2023
franchasofficia:
Majority of Nigerian guys are broke or struggling financially so physical beauty may not be their catch for a spouse, but successful men in Nigeria are only interested in women for their physical beauty and attraction.




But I still don't agree with you that Naija guys no send beauty for ladies, na lie bro cos even as we chat, if you log off and see a very pretty looking chick with some hot shape, you will sure notice her first before one ugly girl that comes down from a Lexus 460, true or false? cheesy
False.

Beauty is subjective.

A well reserved virgin girl is already beautiful in my eyes regardless of her facial look while a good looking non virgin Nigerian girl with a body count above 5 is a rotten tomato.

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jul 15, 2023
facts💯
franchasofficia:
No girl in the world loves any guy for no reason. People will always want you for a reason. Girls are after Davido because of his money and fame. Men are after Nengi and co because of her physical beauty. People like Tinubu because of his wealth, political power and influence, not because he is handsome. But the whole world celebrated Agbani Darego because she was physically attractive to the Judges of that beauty pageant then lol.


You want to date Anita because she is beautiful with nice shape, but you don't want to date ugly Rose that cherishes you just because she is ugly and doesn't have a nice shape.


The same way, Mary wants to date Richard because Richard is rich and famous, but Mary doesn't want to date Charles that is broke and ugly even though Charles have shown her he is ready to die for her.



So this thing called love is all about what we can offer to the opposite sex. Men are mostly after physical beauty in ladies, while ladies are mostly after our money and material possessions, so nobody is to be blamed, lets just focus on building up our value so we can become the most desirable and most sought after.

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 3:57pm On Jul 15, 2023
Zonefree:

False.

Beauty is subjective.

A well reserved virgin girl is already beautiful in my eyes regardless of her facial look while a good looking non virgin Nigerian girl with a body count above 5 is a rotten tomatoes.
Please change your moniker to TheVirginHunter cheesy grin
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Sucre6: 5:24pm On Jul 15, 2023
Words on marble

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by commoditiesnig: 6:15pm On Jul 15, 2023
franchasofficia:
29 ) Whenever everybody likes you in a place, know that you are being used or you are being foolish.




30 ) If everything is going so perfectly well with you in life, please prepare for a doomsday.


31 ) The only perfect person is nobody, so expect mistakes from people around you; be it your domestic staffs, employees, maids, juniors, senior colleagues, siblings, friends, spouse, parents, business partners, etc.


32 ) Before you go dreaming of dating or marrying the rich guy, the hottest chick, the famous guy, etc, please remember that you may never be his or her spec, so appreciate those that admire and cherish you



33 ) Love those that love you, don't reward love with hatred or betrayal



Nlfpmod
Good job @Op.. I'll bookmark this post and take time to read all
We learn everyday!

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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by NLPoliceWoman: 7:56pm On Jul 15, 2023
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Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by carsuperman: 9:25am On Jul 30, 2023
franchasofficia:
1) No one cares about you unless you are beautiful , rich or popular.


2) The amount of money you have determines the amount of " respect” you'll get from the people.

3) Nobody wants to be friend with poor people.

4) Tell a sweet lie , everyone will love you , tell them the bitter truth , they will see you as an arrogant, rude person.


5) Age doesn't guarantee intelligence. It comes through experiencing different kind of situations at different times.


6) You need to learn how to stop telling people things they don't deserve to know. Speak a bit less, and listen more.

7) People will hug you in front and will stab you at your back . Be careful!

okay
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Idealisttt: 9:27am On Jul 30, 2023
franchasofficia:
1) No one cares about you unless you are beautiful , rich or popular.


2) The amount of money you have determines the amount of " respect” you'll get from the people.

3) Nobody wants to be friend with poor people.

4) Tell a sweet lie , everyone will love you , tell them the bitter truth , they will see you as an arrogant, rude person.


5) Age doesn't guarantee intelligence. It comes through experiencing different kind of situations at different times.


6) You need to learn how to stop telling people things they don't deserve to know. Speak a bit less, and listen more.

7) People will hug you in front and will stab you at your back . Be careful!

the last is synonymous with a girl i know. Her Job is to just tarnish people's image behind them and pretend all is well in front of you
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by Bradford111(m): 4:08pm On Aug 14, 2023
Idealisttt:
the last is synonymous with a girl i know. Her Job is to just tarnish people's image behind them and pretend all is well in front of you

Hmmm really deep shit
Re: Some Bitter Lessons About Life You Must Learn To Succeed by franchasofficia: 10:42pm On Aug 15, 2023
piswapexchange:
While I respect your post. Your signature is quite disturbing.

How do you plan to acheive this feat short of forced conversion?

Be properly guided and refuse to be a tool in the hands of the powers that be.

Kudos.
Because of cool person like you, I changed my signature smiley

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