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| Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nice2023(op): 1:55pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Marrying a lazy man can lead to several potential consequences, including: 1. Imbalanced division of household duties: You may find yourself shouldering the majority of the responsibilities at home, which can become frustrating and exhausting over time. 2. Financial strain: If your partner is lazy and lacks motivation, it could result in underemployment, unemployment, or difficulty maintaining a stable income. This can put financial pressure on you and potentially hinder your shared goals. 3. Lack of personal growth and achievement: Living with a lazy man might make it harder for you to pursue personal and professional aspirations since you may need to constantly support and encourage your partner instead of focusing on your own goals. 4. Relationship dissatisfaction: The lack of effort and motivation from your partner may lead to dissatisfaction in your relationship. Feelings of resentment, frustration, and disappointment may arise due to the imbalance in effort and contribution. 5. Emotional labor: You may find yourself taking on the role of both partners in terms of emotional support, decision-making, and problem-solving. This added burden can be draining and impact your overall well-being. 6. Impact on children: If you have or plan to have children, having a lazy partner can affect their upbringing. It may result in inconsistency, lack of discipline, and set a poor example for them. 7. Difficulty in resolving conflicts: Communication and conflict resolution can become challenging when one partner lacks motivation and fails to engage in productive discussions. This can lead to unresolved issues and strain the relationship further. Remember, these consequences may not be universal and can vary based on individual circumstances. Open and honest communication is crucial to address these issues in your relationship. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
I don't believe there are lazy men in Nigeria, it's just the country that happened to them which my amiable president Asiwaju Bola Tinubu is trying to fix |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by OJODEL10(m): 1:58pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Laziness is in the blood |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nvestor02: 2:00pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Gender is just and excuse, both male and female are responsible for financial spending. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Wodu89: 2:04pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Yes. You've made a 100M, cool. You're living a good life. Allow people.breathe with your subtle jabs where you create threads dissing people with lesser fortunes as lazy. Before you attack me. I'm above average. Quit the diss threads |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nice2023(op): 2:09pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Wodu89:I can't attacked u. But stop feeling defeated. There is no 100million in this write up. Except u are pained and regretful. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nice2023(op): 2:11pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
IconicR:There are uncountable lazy men in this country than in the past. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by ibechris(m): 2:18pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Being lazy is relative but many Nigerian youths do not believe in hard work hence the reason why i can boldly say they are lazy. If they are not lazy,why would u want to do yahoo or steal from people,family and even strangers. Most guys are so lazy that,all they want is easy life without work. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Nice2023:Maybe yahoo boys |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by ibechris(m): 3:05pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
IconicR:Yahoo guys constitute 20% of our youths nation wide and more people are graduating to join them fully in this trade. In fact,have u seen the reason that was given before Seychelles banned Nigerians from entering their country because of internet fraudsters and drugs. |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
ibechris:It's actually more than 20% you'll hardly see any successful young man that's not directly or indirectly into yahoo |
| Re: Consequences Of Marrying A Lazy Man? by ibechris(m): 3:19pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
IconicR:There is no hard work in yahoo but laziness on how to steal what belongs to another man/woman. There is no hard work in yahoo,there fore,let them convert the idea to I.T. |
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