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Nigerian guys please don't be sad if your relationship hits the rock this period, take it in good fate because we all know the situation of the country.
Women are naturally created to be provided and cared for, so if you can't meet the demands of your woman this period and she decides to leave, then let her go and take it in good fate while you keep struggling and hoping for the best.
If perhaps you eventually made it and becomes capable then you can go back for her if she's still available and if otherwise then you settle for another woman and live your life peacefully.
Don't be too hard on yourself, life is good and better days ahead. Bless you.

No reasonable guy should be in a one-way parasitic relationship now!

She will surely find no place to go cos this period no one is ready to harbour a liability..

Felimax:
She will surely find no place to go cos this period no one is ready to harbour a liability..

Women are not liabilities, it is natural for a woman to want to be provided for same way men craves to be respected and cared for. Some people are actually becoming richer this period sha

Kobicove:
No reasonable guy should be in one-way parasitic relationship now!

Even marriages are in trouble now, so whatever the case may be men should take it in good fate

They are coming for you

Nobodyany1:
They are coming for you

For what exactly? I'm a Realist and say things as they are, even marriages are in trouble sef. It's not easy for men and I'm just being reasonable and telling them that a woman dumping them this period shouldn't be a blow to them, they should understand the nature of women and as such take it in good fate

Shut up if u dont have anything to say with ur self entitlement mentality

IconicR:
Women are not liabilities, it is natural for a woman to want to be provided for same way men craves to be respected and cared for. Some people are actually becoming richer this period sha

IamAtAnger:
Shut up if u dont have anything to say with ur self entitlement mentality

Women are naturally created to be entitled same way men think it's in their nature to cheat

Any woman who wan commot for house don see highest bidder

IconicR:
Women are naturally created to be entitled same way men think it's in their nature to cheat

Are women prohibited from being entitled to their own resources?

Zonefree:
Are women prohibited from being entitled to their own resources?

Who tilled the soil in the beginning? Adam or Eve? You can't cheat nature

IconicR:
Who tilled the soil in the beginning? Adam or eve? You can't cheat nature

Then Eve was not challenging Adam with gender equality and feminism.

The same women that'll be head over heel when they hear their husband is cheating?...

IconicR:
Women are naturally created to be entitled same way men think it's in their nature to cheat

Zonefree:
Then Eve was not challenging Adam with gender equality and feminism.

Men should even appreciate feminist because they are ready to share responsibilities equally, I can never be a feminist because I like to be totally provided for and do my own duty by giving care. Feminist want to share financial responsibilities with una and is that not what modern men craves for?

IconicR:
Women are not liabilities, it is natural for a woman to want to be provided for same way men craves to be respected and cared for. Some people are actually becoming richer this period sha

Of course and men honestly crave for women who can easily fill in the gap when it's necessary.

I don't support laziness but the way the country is right now trust me a lot of guys are trying and it will be a great appreciation if she stick around till the end of the tunnel that is why when a woman of such caliber comes our way we hold her very dearly.

After God the second most important thing in a man's life is a good woman. Though a lot will argue till they get to old age and start leaving miserable lives and become nuisance to everyone.

I don't joke with a good woman.

IconicR:
Men should even appreciate feminist because they are ready to share responsibilities equally, I can never be a feminist because I like to be totally provided for and do my own duty by giving care. Feminist want to share financial responsibilities with una and is that not what modern men craves for?

Nigerian feminists don't share responsibilities. Their major concern is to shout "the future is femail" and to advocate for men not to relegate women to the kitchen.

Nairaland feminists are the worse set of feminist in the world!

Yawn!!

advanceDNA:
Yawn!!

Keep yawning

Like my own don dump me now.

Yawn!

Adeoye11:
Like my own don dump me now.

Do not blame her or yourself, she's only acting her nature. Pray for her and move on

I mean if they dump me it would be less bills for me, sounds like a W to me.

qtguru:
I mean if they dump me it would be less bills for me, sounds like a W to me.

Easier said than done. It'll only take some weeks or months and you begin to feel it, that's how men behave after break up. They'll begin to call after thinking they've moved on. We sabi una

Dimaya:

Chop your breakfast in peace. Things are expensive

What are you insinuating, that a married woman will leave once things go south. That means she's greedy and a thief.
Reason most of y'all remain single up to this moment is because of not being sincere and being an opportunist, if marriage is viewed as a union where each partner has to work hard to make things work you won't have this mindset.
The truth most of y'all don't realize is that hard times don't last

Maxxim:
What are you insinuating, that a married woman will leave once things go south. That means she's greedy and a thief.
Reason most of y'all remain single up to this moment is because of not being sincere and being an opportunist, if marriage is viewed as a union where each partner has to work hard to make things work you won't have this mindset.
The truth most of y'all don't realize is that hard times don't last

Your last paragraph sha. What if it last?

IconicR:
Your last paragraph sha. What if it last?

You'll overcome it someday, and realizing you both stood together during those times is what proves you both lived a fulfilling life

IconicR:
Easier said than done. It'll only take some weeks or months and you begin to feel it, that's how men behave after break up. They'll begin to call after thinking they've moved on. We sabi una

Crying in naira sob sob

IconicR:
Easier said than done. It'll only take some weeks or months and you begin to feel it, that's how men behave after break up. They'll begin to call after thinking they've moved on. We sabi una

See let me just be honest I'm capping o because this my babe has done alot for me, even though we fight alot.

qtguru:
See let me just be honest I'm capping o because this my babe has done alot for me, even though we fight alot.

Hope you'll always appreciate her, I block every other distraction before you in Jesus name. I knew you'll like fight very well 😆