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When a man is broke and is dating a fellow broke woman, society and even the man praises the woman for being understanding and managing with the man.

If the man makes some money and marries the wo.man but he's not rich and can't yet provide all the woman's wants, the woman is commended for 'enduring' with the man since he's not meeting all her expectations.

- The fact that she herself is broke is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.

- The fact that the man has to work for two people if not more when children come in is not even mentioned in the conversation.

- Nobody brings up the fact that even if she earns her own money, the onus of providing for the family doesn't lie on her. Because in truth, no one will ask your wife why you and the children are hungry. You will answer why your wife and your children are hungry.

- The fact that the man is providing her necessities like accommodation, food and an unlimited amount of cum is not really considered - he's supposed to, expected do better.

Why?

Well, these are standards, rules that have been set. The woman doesn't fail to remind you that she's managing and enduring with you, despite the fact that she too is a full grown adult human who should be doing all these things for herself and even for the man.

In fact, the very idea of a woman providing for her man is laughed at by wo.men and made mockery of. Quite honestly, I don't really expect a man to expect his wife to provide for him.

Because the reality is that it is EXPECTED that it's the man's duty or at least most of it else he's branded a use.less or irresponsible man.

But,

Let the man, especially the one who's now able to provide for himself (and even the whole community) set his own standards for a woman that she should be a virgin in order for him to make all these sacrifices for her.

All hell breaks loose because a man has decided to set standards for himself.

You hear things like:

"If you're not a virgin man, why do you want a virgin wo.man for marriage?"

My sister, if you're not a rich woman, why do you want a rich man?
If you can't provide for a man for the rest of his life, why do you want a man who would provide for you for the rest of your life?(even when you have your own money)

"What about the ones you deflowered who will marry them"

My sister, were they forced or they gave what they thought they had to get what they wanted?

"The girls marrying as virgins they don't have sense? Or they didn't see any man to deflower them before marriage?

What about the rich men marrying broke, non-virgin wo.men?

What about the virgin men marrying non-virgin wo.men?

Are you checking on them to ensure fairness and equity since you're Mother Confessor?

We're simply applying the same female logic to the matter. All we're saying is that:

Just as a wo.man married to a broke/not-so-rich man is managing the man (even though she herself is broke o) and the man is expected to be grateful to her and show that gratitude by doubling his hustle to please her, a well-to-do man who has all these things but marries a non-virgin woman is also managing her so she should be grateful that he's managing her.

She should show that gratitude by zealously sucking his preeq and making that man's life easier for him please.

And everyone will be happy ever after

#maistaareyouavirgin?

Thecan:
This is getting interesting

The simple fact that you didn't open your legs to every single man who asked you to open means that you chose the ones you yourself wanted to get pierced by

If you had the power to close your legs for some, you definitely had the power to close your legs for all.

But you chose who to pierce you for your own reasons.

The very reasons that made you open for the ones you opened for are the reasons for which you will be judged.

Money?
Love?
Hypergamy?
To keep him?

You win some, you lose some.
Enjoy the wins and take responsibility for the loses.

Whatever, you will be judged accordingly

Miss us with the "I was deceived or I was forced"

#maistaareyouavirgin

Purvan:
All these men way follow redpill na them be the real simps and them go marry sluts