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Klass99:
A married man who was once hot on my case categorically told me not to expect 100% faithfulness from my husband. He said if I got married thinking or expecting my spouse to never cheat, I am only deluding myself and will be in for a rude shock and awakening.

I have seen nairaland male users repeat what that guy said to me many years ago. There's one user in particular who carries the anthem on his head like die, even going as far as using scripture to justify his immoral claims that adultery on the part of a man is not a sin.

A married man who took vows before God and men should know better than anyone that it is wrong to step out on those vows. But has it stopped them from stepping out?

Jovialjune1:
Sadly I'm not single, every lady cannot be like your mother that got you outside marriage.

And next time, trying to mind the business that pays you, it pays, so that you can grow soundly, intellectually, and have a meaningful life for yourself.

DenreleDave:
I don't think I can blame married men wholely...

A single lady should know that it is wrong for her to date a married man. Does it mean she doesn't even care if her own husband does the same to her?

If a lady says no to a man, he won't force her. But this ladies are very greedy

Rayban25:
Thank you for your honest contribution. others are just busy trying to twist the question and divert.

most single ladies are looking for who to leech on to survive.

NB we are not absolving the married men of responsibility but its what it is

DenreleDave:
I don't think I can blame married men wholely...

A single lady should know that it is wrong for her to date a married man. Does it mean she doesn't even care if her own husband does the same to her?

If a lady says no to a man, he won't force her. But this ladies are very greedy

DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?

DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?

Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies

1Sharon:
Lol.

Tripitaka:
I hate when you guys do this. It's really exhausting.
No one is justifying the married men who date single ladies. The OP is specifically asking from a womans perspective, not from a mans perspective which is why the question reads "Why do ladies date married men" and not "Why do married men date single ladies".

On foreign sites such as quora, you'd find that respondents must first understand the question which always evident In their replies.

DenreleDave:
Can single ladies say NO to married men in respect for the fellow women dt men have as their wives?

Can women do women a favour?

MrBrownJay1:
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so married men who go after single women are not greedy abi? they are both part of the problem, but on the marital duties such as cooking/cleaning etc for that man), while this man is willing to throw his whole MARRIAGE/FAMILY under the bus, just because of some toto.

Jovialjune1:
Sadly I'm not single, every lady cannot be like your mother that got you outside marriage.

And next time, trying to mind the business that pays you, it pays, so that you can grow soundly, intellectually, and have a meaningful life for yourself.

placeofallure:
Yes. And I've had to say no to a man. Not exactly because of his wife (No be me dey do am) but I just don't like rubbish.

They had their issues before I met him, in fact they were separated. The man was planning on moving on with me. I think the wife in her mind was thinking the issue will still be resolved so she's yet to move on.

Now the man is starting to make deep commitments like showing me his properties, meeting lawyers, meeting his mum and some other family members. I think somebody told the wife that her man is taking some bold steps, she needed to take action. Then from nowhere, somebody called me, it was the wife. She said they're still married bla bla bla, she wasn't really rude on the phone but she doesn't want me in the picture obviously. I called my man and told him, he was mad! He then said he'd deal with it. He said she will apologise if not all allowances stop!

The woman did call few days later. She was apologising profusely on the phone, she passed the phone to some other people who were with her. They were all blaming her that she shouldn't have called me and they're sorry. Na so fear catch me! I don't know the kind of hell he raised with her that's making everyone to become sober like this. I did U-Turn cause it can happen to me too. Then, I want her to have him back if truly she was sorry like she told me on the phone.

The man always wondered what happened that made me change my mind. Of course I told him but he felt there is something else I'm not saying. He didn't see those ones as enough reason to do a 360°

UnfairLife7:
LOl

You don't blame married men but single ladies. I hope you're normal sha?

43Ronin:
you only blame the married man if he hid his status while dating the single girl, but if the single lady knows and both go on with it, then both are to blame. That's what justice & equity is all about, anything short of that is hypocrisy

Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies

Beremx:
the obsession weak me. Denrele wan put me for trouble.

ahnie:
The way dem take dey de obsessed with people wives for this forum eeh nawa.


God go eepus

MrBrownJay1:
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so married men who go after single women are not greedy abi? they are both part of the problem, but sadly, these single women didnt have vows with anyone thus i cant blame a single woman for accepting to date a married man MORE THAN i would fully blame a married man cheating on his wife with these lost women. majority of these single women are there because of the handouts, the gifts, the knowledge that this man will only come to see her once or twice a week etc (without taking on the marital duties such as cooking/cleaning etc for that man), while this man is willing to throw his whole MARRIAGE/FAMILY under the bus, just because of some toto.

highchief1:
throw which family under bus?NAwa o.if I fork ur Toto finish I bath go meet my love for house play with my kids.

Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies

sheriffindy:
His mother was minding her business ..and you still mentioned her, talking about minding ones business.

You musnt attack his innocent mother to drive home your point..someone gave birth to you as well.

Attack him personally...not through his mother...or won't you be a mother some day?

HAVE SOME RESPECT!!

EIIISHH!!!

pocohantas:
As e dey hot.

ahnie:

AmotekunSW:
As a young guy, dress nice and notice the number of stares you will get from ladies.
Now, dress nice and add a wedding ring (even if fake) and see how ladies will be swarming around you.

Ladies are like fish, They are attracted to things that other ladies desire. Once they say that they can't have you, they become attracted to you.
To them, a wedding ring is a sign of financial stability, emotional maturity and desire from other women.

The greatest magnet of single ladies is that wedding ring.