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| When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 10:55am On Aug 06, 2023 |
True friends are a gift 🎁 I recall when I last everything as a result of BUHARI economic conditions, I lost money, the lady took me in, house me, fed me and did not allow me pay any utilities bill, it was from there I got am apartment and started life. Frenemies experience I had a friend whom I told her everything about me and my secrets, she sold me out for 5k to a toxic man. This was someone that we spent my man's money together, how much he gives and how we spend his money. Share your experience 3 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Hamachi(f): 11:06am On Aug 06, 2023 |
I have been sending money to this my friend to build my house and she kept on showing pictures of the house. I eventually lost my job and returned to the house she said she was building, it turned out to be she didn't build anything, I felt into depression and it took me years to recover. Another experience, this guy has been asking me out and I have been forming hard to get, just so he knows I am a jewel, my friend was ware of this, he sent money through my friend so we can share, I told her to return the money to him, this girl didn't return it and went behind my back and started dating this guy, and I told her to leave the guy that am ready to date him, she said she cannot. 8 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Zigzagman: 2:10pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies 6 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by NEUDUDE: 2:55pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Lol the day my ex friend  jokingly called my first car a molue in front of his girl. I knew that was envy speaking and i sure didnt wait for him to stab me in the back before i flee. The heart of man is extremely wicked... Have friends at your own peril, my friendship is merely transactional we interchange value is all. If you do for me, i go do for you shikena 9 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by purples25(f): 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Here to read comments. But I'll drop one though. In secondary school everyone called my best friend to become one of them while they didn't reach out to me. She found a flimsy excuse to end our friendship and be with the rest of the class. I never reacted, I was happy for her because even if I'm not wanted by the class, I shouldn't hold her back. But that was still a bad move from her in our friendship. I think a real friend would've stuck by me and berated everyone for embracing her while rejecting me, especially when they all know I'm a loner with her as my only friend. Not that she shouldn't want good things or she should want them to reject her, but she could've pointed out the unfairness. "Call my friend too, why are you calling me alone, what do you expect should happen to my friend when she is all alone, she will be feeling rejected!" You know, it would have been good if she fought for me like her blood sister. But she didn't. I attempted suicide eventually out of loneliness, some years later. That's when my mates started acting like I was just keeping to myself deliberately, I was just acting abnormal for nothing, the authorities too pretended that was the case - which child doesn't want to have friends? I badly wanted them. True friends? I haven't seen any very very deep ride or die friend till date. 4 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by HUSTLER001: 6:51pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
One baztard i helped a certain time stabbed me at the back by saying derogatory things about me to a girl he was trying to woo.To think that me & this fool usually drink in a bar together made me wonder. Saw him recently and he looked rejected. Him papa! |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 8:16am On Aug 10, 2023 |
Zigzagman:Share your experience of when you realize you had a true friend and lo share another experience when you realize you had an enemy as a friend. Thank you |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 8:16am On Aug 10, 2023 |
HUSTLER001:Do you have an experience of when you realize you had a true friend? If she please share |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 8:17am On Aug 10, 2023 |
NEUDUDE:So, you haven't experienced true friendship? |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 8:29am On Aug 10, 2023 |
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| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 1:25pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Seems like you're always deleting your comments... .. You even taught me how to delete.. talented321: |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by izonborn098(m): 3:50pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Don't make friends with anyhow people'' just make friend with people who have dreams' who wants you to succeed'' make friend with people who can help u and not tame u 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by freeborn02: 8:12pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Hamachi:I'm happy your friend dated the guy. You don't deserve him. Forming hard to get doesn't make guys see you as a good person. Not all guys are moved by that bulllshit. A guy that will be serious with you will be serious, even if you have sex with him on a first date. 5 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 9:02pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
I don't delete my posts' just that i always book space because i am busy with work and have other mentions' and many at times am just tired of typing. Samantha124:i know why i told u to delete that particular post'' But you haven't buy me any drink for teaching you how to delete. 3 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 9:04pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Just name the drink and I'll get it for you... talented321: |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 9:11pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
How can u transport it to nigeria? Samantha124: |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
It'll soon be midnight and my broomstick will be ready, I'll be there within an hour... talented321: 2 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 9:26pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Broomstick'' samantha' Samantha124:i want have a taste of rooibos'' |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
But that one just tastes like tea. I want to buy you something that you'll drink while smoking your weed..😂😂😂 talented321: |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Sonnobax15(m): 9:35pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
 My bestie is a banny.......I can't recall the numerous times she has come to my rescue...You can imagine how it feels like to have someone whom you can call upon at any time and she'd respond within a blink of an eye.... That's the kind of banny she is...... As for my enemies,I once had a guy whom I introduced to my ex cuz he was someone who was just like a brother to me......I was surprised when I later found out he was wooing my banny....I asked him if it was true and he didn't deny it........... Las las, friendship no too dey favour me....These days,if I ain't on the road hustling, just know say I dey on my mind dey think my life cuz I gat no time for guyship wahala. 1 Like |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 9:46pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
I wanted to taste rooibos but since u said with smoking Samantha124:what about' natte valleij cinsault'' |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
🧙🧙🧙 There you go, I want you to be high and drunk at the same time so that you can open ten threads in here within a matter of hours... talented321:
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| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by talented321: 10:16pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
I have self control' and when i'm a little bit high my woman is always by my side' so u know' [quote author=Samantha124 post=125026329][/quote]am expecting my wine' while smoking my precious ghanian loud. |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Nobody: 10:21pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Wow!🤣🤣🤣... I give up on you..🤣🤣🤣 Good night. talented321: |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 7:56am On Aug 11, 2023 |
 freeborn02:Oga! Carry you judgement Comot for here |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by NEUDUDE: 9:31am On Aug 11, 2023 |
lavylilly:Oh dear I Have but found out in the end it wasnt worth it and not for me. Its still the same thing though. like the popular saying goes "No money, No friend" the sooner you realize this the better for you. Friendship is transactional, feelings aside so i use it to my advantage... I would like to live in a world where we have real friendship but lately in this part of the world that my friend is a pipe dream lol. 2 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by freeborn02: 2:04pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
lavylilly:Lolz. May you not be wise enough to stop your stupid"hard to get" until you lose every opportunity to date responsible men. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 3:13pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
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| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by pansophist(m): 6:51pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
If you've reached a point where a person is shocked that you didn't care after he/she betrayed you, then you've grown. 2 Likes |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
pansophist:#fact |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by Lifeomann(m): 7:10pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
freeborn02:Leave the Mumu, woman of standard |
| Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
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