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AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Bitter truth

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Yes it is different... and very different. All this stupid attitude is just exhibited by blacks and Latinos. If you live in Europe and come back to date black girl you will be very pissed.. with their entitlement attitude. ( I am speaking from experience and experiences. However money is not my problem just have solid goals as a woman).

OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Succint put 💋

Johnholt909:
OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?

Women in NIGERIA and black Americans are just one of a kind. Other countries are not. Not even Kenyas, Uganda, not to talk of Europe. They love you for you

22o62021:
Broke girls with entitlement mentality everywhere

No be entitlement dey carry the broke men to dey chase the girls up and down too when they too have nothing to offer?

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Because when a man loves, he gives instinctively. Men are natural providers. So a man that cannot give to his woman does not love her. Albeit, you can give without loving a person but you cannot love a person without giving. Hence giving is a strong indicator but unfortunately abused.

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding is of the same magnitude with biblical Solomon.

Gift promotes love.

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

It depends on the way u look at it.

Ive dated people from other nationalities, even if shes very rich, she still needs money from you

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Confirm

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

For God so "LOVE" the world that he "GAVE"........ need not say more.

For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son....


Only God knows what some women give when in agape love.

Lordbinsmar:
■ Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding is of the same magnitude with biblical Solomon.

Are you also willing to admit that this equally means that your marriages are also business transactions between a man and a woman?

spiritedtete:
Women in NIGERIA and black Americans are just one of a kind. Other countries are not. Not even Kenyas, Uganda, not to talk of Europe. They love you for you

Okay.

WOW 😲😳

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Romance na for men..... Na who give value to women na dy go face..... It's how nature designed it.... Yet it shouldn't be an excuse to be greedy and eat a man dry

They've commercialized dating..

SOSPITAS:
For God so "LOVE" the world that he "GAVE"........ need not say more.

Rubbish! God gave a contract aka a business contract i.e. Law. Are you willing to equally concede to the fact that what that means is that even your marriage agreement is nothing but a business contract as well?

Mccullum:
They've commercialized dating..

Dating has always been a business transaction so also is marriage.

Even relationship with some friends, family members, family friends is transactional

U no get, dem no go come closer to you.

AllBlack:
you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Everything is not business, that's just your mentality .

OP... your last statement or plea was not necessary.

Coz that's the foundation of most Nigerian women relationships.

achimendy:
■ Everything is not business, that's just your mentality .

You are wrong! It is all business. The terms and conditions may be different but they are all just business transactions

I only pity men out there. Yes, most Nigerian women are manipulators.

Johnholt909:
OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?

Nigerian own are different

AllBlack:
And let me tell you again. Even rich babes & guys look into prospects, social & financial status, social benefits and other factors when relationship or even sex is involved. The demand might be indirect or bit-by-bit but it will happen.
You think wealth equivocal to behaviour? think again. It is just like saying kids from rich homes don't steal or lie. It is a behavioural trait.

Like I said before, not all females (and even males) are so materialistic or focused on benefits in relationships. It all depends. And if you find yourself with a demanding person and it doesn't work for you, then there is option to leave rather than complain.

Case closed.

Ok, we're talking two different things. I'm talking straight out giving a girl money for having sex with her. In poorer populations girls expect to be paid for having sex (which basically makes all of them prostitutes, no matter how they camouflage it). That's not the case in richer populations

Johnholt909:
I only pity men out there. Yes, most Nigerian women are manipulators.

Stop fooling yourself!

DaddyCoool:
■ Ok, we're talking two different things. I'm talking straight out giving a girl money for having sex with her. In poorer populations girls expect to be paid for having sex (which basically makes all of them prostitutes, no matter how they camouflage it). That's not the case in richer populations

What has paying for sex to do with all relationships being transactional in nature?