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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Zooposki(f): 2:02pm On Aug 24, 2023
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by jayAjoku(m): 2:02pm On Aug 24, 2023
They think 💭 that way because once upon a time a foolish Simp went after a woman that didn’t like him And the mumu thought she was playing “hard to Get “,so he started Spending Unnecessarily On her while she still didn’t want him , her friends saw this and interpreted it as the standard and so they started making The Simps around them repeat the process until it Became seen as a Normal thing. A woman that likes you will not make you spend money or anything just to get her attention or commitment She will be the one caring for you she won’t care if you care about her . It’s that simple

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by LoveJesus87(m): 2:05pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.
Bitter truth

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by spiritedtete: 2:05pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.


Yes it is different... and very different. All this stupid attitude is just exhibited by blacks and Latinos. If you live in Europe and come back to date black girl you will be very pissed.. with their entitlement attitude. ( I am speaking from experience and experiences. However money is not my problem just have solid goals as a woman).

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Johnholt909: 2:06pm On Aug 24, 2023
OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Tayorshd87: 2:07pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Succint put 💋

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by spiritedtete: 2:08pm On Aug 24, 2023
Johnholt909:
OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?

Women in NIGERIA and black Americans are just one of a kind. Other countries are not. Not even Kenyas, Uganda, not to talk of Europe. They love you for you

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:08pm On Aug 24, 2023
22o62021:
Broke girls with entitlement mentality everywhere
No be entitlement dey carry the broke men to dey chase the girls up and down too when they too have nothing to offer? undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Nobody: 2:09pm On Aug 24, 2023
theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.
Because when a man loves, he gives instinctively. Men are natural providers. So a man that cannot give to his woman does not love her. Albeit, you can give without loving a person but you cannot love a person without giving. Hence giving is a strong indicator but unfortunately abused.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Lordbinsmar: 2:10pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding is of the same magnitude with biblical Solomon.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kenmatt(m): 2:11pm On Aug 24, 2023
Gift promotes love.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Blaze14k: 2:11pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

It depends on the way u look at it.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Styluss: 2:11pm On Aug 24, 2023
Ive dated people from other nationalities, even if shes very rich, she still needs money from you

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Quebec91(m): 2:12pm On Aug 24, 2023
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AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by SOSPITAS(m): 2:12pm On Aug 24, 2023
For God so "LOVE" the world that he "GAVE"........ need not say more.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by CodeTemplar: 2:12pm On Aug 24, 2023
For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son....


Only God knows what some women give when in agape love.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:13pm On Aug 24, 2023
Lordbinsmar:
■ Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding is of the same magnitude with biblical Solomon.
Are you also willing to admit that this equally means that your marriages are also business transactions between a man and a woman? undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Johnholt909: 2:14pm On Aug 24, 2023
spiritedtete:


Women in NIGERIA and black Americans are just one of a kind. Other countries are not. Not even Kenyas, Uganda, not to talk of Europe. They love you for you
Okay.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Paracetamol01: 2:14pm On Aug 24, 2023
WOW 😲😳
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Tradepunter2: 2:15pm On Aug 24, 2023
theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Romance na for men..... Na who give value to women na dy go face..... It's how nature designed it.... Yet it shouldn't be an excuse to be greedy and eat a man dry

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Mccullum: 2:15pm On Aug 24, 2023
They've commercialized dating..

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:15pm On Aug 24, 2023
SOSPITAS:
For God so "LOVE" the world that he "GAVE"........ need not say more.
Rubbish! God gave a contract aka a business contract i.e. Law. Are you willing to equally concede to the fact that what that means is that even your marriage agreement is nothing but a business contract as well? undecided
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:16pm On Aug 24, 2023
Mccullum:
They've commercialized dating..
Dating has always been a business transaction so also is marriage. undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Onemind9: 2:16pm On Aug 24, 2023
Even relationship with some friends, family members, family friends is transactional

U no get, dem no go come closer to you.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by achimendy(m): 2:16pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.





Everything is not business, that's just your mentality .
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by AZControversial(m): 2:17pm On Aug 24, 2023
undecided

OP... your last statement or plea was not necessary.

Coz that's the foundation of most Nigerian women relationships.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:17pm On Aug 24, 2023
achimendy:
■ Everything is not business, that's just your mentality .
You are wrong! It is all business. The terms and conditions may be different but they are all just business transactionsundecided

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Johnholt909: 2:17pm On Aug 24, 2023
I only pity men out there. Yes, most Nigerian women are manipulators.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Paracetamol01: 2:18pm On Aug 24, 2023
Johnholt909:
OP, you're wrong. Don't you know that women are all the same all over the world?
Nigerian own are different

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by DaddyCoool: 2:18pm On Aug 24, 2023
AllBlack:


And let me tell you again. Even rich babes & guys look into prospects, social & financial status, social benefits and other factors when relationship or even sex is involved. The demand might be indirect or bit-by-bit but it will happen.
You think wealth equivocal to behaviour? think again. It is just like saying kids from rich homes don't steal or lie. It is a behavioural trait.

Like I said before, not all females (and even males) are so materialistic or focused on benefits in relationships. It all depends. And if you find yourself with a demanding person and it doesn't work for you, then there is option to leave rather than complain.

Case closed.

Ok, we're talking two different things. I'm talking straight out giving a girl money for having sex with her. In poorer populations girls expect to be paid for having sex (which basically makes all of them prostitutes, no matter how they camouflage it). That's not the case in richer populations

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Aug 24, 2023
Johnholt909:
I only pity men out there. Yes, most Nigerian women are manipulators.
Stop fooling yourself! undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by Kobojunkie: 2:19pm On Aug 24, 2023
DaddyCoool:
■ Ok, we're talking two different things. I'm talking straight out giving a girl money for having sex with her. In poorer populations girls expect to be paid for having sex (which basically makes all of them prostitutes, no matter how they camouflage it). That's not the case in richer populations
What has paying for sex to do with all relationships being transactional in nature? undecided

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