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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by haphizz57(m): 6:51pm On Sep 18, 2023

Chemicalboss1:
Yea.
Ladies if your man cheats on you and hides it from you, even if you find out, please ignore.
He still loves and respects you that's why he keeps it a secret.

It's just the desire to try new things that pushes most men.

%100 fact

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by mdan(m): 6:54pm On Sep 18, 2023

TONYE001:
I don't know if you think you, or your readers, consider this post scientific.

Well, I'm yet to see any scientific evidence that supports this your men-are-polygamous-in-nature mantra.

I hope you are not referring to the sperm count of men? Confirm, please, if you are referring to this point.

Calm down and learn bro.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by richie240: 6:55pm On Sep 18, 2023

Shey den tell u say Eve nor love adam so tey she cause hin downfall or that delilah nor love samson so tey she caused hin destruction??

Expecting 'love/loyalty' from woman is akin to expecting a virile woman not to menstruate.

Dey play.
Ur aiz go clear las-las, I will not say more than this.
cool

OyeofIkoTuN:
My babe love me sha....... that one na confirmed.. Well they always do because as an OYE, you have to be smooth..

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Little21: 7:01pm On Sep 18, 2023

TONYE001:
There’s absolutely no sense in this post.

These are the philosophies men generate to validate their cheating tendencies.

There’s nothing complex about this equation, it’s essentially of the simple linear type.

Men and women are similarly hurt by a cheating spouse, it breaks trust and demonstrates disrespect. No one is more hurt.

If you don’t like being cheated on, don’t cheat. If you won’t support beating or hurting a cheating man in other ways, don’t support the same done to a cheating woman.

Cheating is cheating, it does not carry different identities across genders.

You are right. They are just looking for ways to justify their actions. How can you betray someone trust?? And you are saying you still love her? If you love her, you wouldn't have cheated on her, in the first place. That kind of mentality is insane.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by SilentVboy: 7:07pm On Sep 18, 2023

Mccallistas:
Women only love their offspring(s) and pet(s)!

Even bible no tell women to love, but to submit to their husbands.

Its only a man that can love. Love from women are conditional.

Stop looking for fake loves from women oh you sissy men. Stop being too emotionally weak. As long as your wife still respect you as a responsible husband then, na story you dey find...

Stop bringing Bible into this when u are not sure of it. Who told u that Bible did not tell women to love?

Learn to make research in the Bible before u conclude. Women are equally told to love their husbands. Go and read Titus 2 Vs 3, 4

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by ademasta(m): 7:27pm On Sep 18, 2023

Truth

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by chidan1214: 7:28pm On Sep 18, 2023

MrAgbako:
Exactly what I always tell women around me.
A man and a woman aren't same.
Men are polygamous in nature. Nature provides men the ability to bed multiple females and spread millions of their seeds to thousands of women.
Nature never game women such liberty.

How about women spreading their eggs to millions of men?

Women also knew men hardly forgive a cheating wife. Even if the man decides to stay in the marriage for one reason or the other he will never love the woman again as much he he had previously love her.

So facts is there are things already imprinted in human DNA.

These modern woke generation forming feminism and some extreme red pill men movement has really caused a lot of damage to relationships, family and the society at large.

The people of old never had this kinda problems

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by chidan1214: 7:34pm On Sep 18, 2023

How about women spreading their eggs to millions of men!!!

MrAgbako:
Exactly what I always tell women around me.
A man and a woman aren't same.
Men are polygamous in nature. Nature provides men the ability to bed multiple females and spread millions of their seeds to thousands of women.
Nature never game women such liberty.

Women also knew men hardly forgive a cheating wife. Even if the man decides to stay in the marriage for one reason or the other he will never love the woman again as much he he had previously love her.

So facts is there are things already imprinted in human DNA.

These modern woke generation forming feminism and some extreme red pill men movement has really caused a lot of damage to relationships, family and the society at large.

The people of old never had this kinda problems

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by etrange: 7:45pm On Sep 18, 2023*

izonborn098:
Women sex for money when they are single' how can she still cheat when she's married and her man is giving her the money she want.
There is a big difference btw man and woman

Nah, that married/single distinction only serves to support your argument, it's not factual. Or do you think a career prostitute will change after getting married? No, bro. You don't make that distinction for men, but the moment you realize ladies in prostitution do it all the time, you created a line to allow you proceed with your already knotted mindset. The truth is, single or married, a woman is a woman. A lady can use her body to get whatever she wants without being emotionally attached. They do it all the time. Married ladies do it for promotion, pleasure, more money, etc.

People are different, sir. Attaching emotions to sex or not is an individual thing. A man can do it, a woman can do it. The only thing that differs is the society's perception of each. It's a man's world and we push any philosophy that appeals to us. It has always been like that from the days of the Bible.

Men and women are different, but none has the monopoly of cheating just for pleasure or material gains.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by richie240: 7:51pm On Sep 18, 2023

Myer:
Women who are wise know there's a difference.
Though adultery snd fornication is not the way out. Polygamy is not a sin. Its just not for bishops and deacons.

But it's wisdom to marry one wife and be faithful to her.

A woman can really go all out for a man who has every thing it takes to have every woman but chooses to remain faithful and loyal to her.

Like Eve betrayed king Adam (who had the universe under his arm) and was brainwashed by an ordinary serpent?

Like Delilah betrayed King Samson who had the kings of his time pee on themselves at the sound of his name?

If u like have all the multiverse at the back of ur palm, the average woman can be easily brainwashed and can easily fall.

Don't put ur trust in a woman.
*No pun intended*
It's their nature to be easily brainwashed.
cool

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Blakjewelry(m): 7:56pm On Sep 18, 2023

TONYE001:
Where do you guys get your philosophies from?

Well, see Titus 2:4.

It's funny that it's men that are speaking for the women, anyways I believe it is what the society supports.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Blakjewelry(m): 8:03pm On Sep 18, 2023

Prettygirl200:
another person wey he mama born well, thank you Sometimes I just wonder how African men think, weder you love your woman or not as long as you have cheated the disrespect and trust will no longer be there where African men got this their ideologies to justify their cheating baffles me a lot. So a woman is not a human to be hurt by a cheating husband? Ridiculous!!!

Lol I always said whatever the society supports becomes a good thing that is why you see all these theories. There places and cultures of old were the woman is given free hand and it's not seen as bad thing for a women to have multiple partners. We all have same feelings be it a man or woman, what makes a good guy or girl is self cautiousness and restrain, in other word, faithfulness in a relationship is a matter of choice.

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Bluffly: 8:08pm On Sep 18, 2023

Chemicalboss1:
Yea.
Ladies if your man cheats on you and hides it from you, even if you find out, please ignore.
He still loves and respects you that's why he keeps it a secret.

It's just the desire to try new things that pushes most men.

Some wives cheat just for additional income not necessarily for love. The fact remains that irrespective of the motive, cheating is a no no.

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by talk2hb1(m): 8:24pm On Sep 18, 2023

TONYE001:
It answers your question if you look at it properly.

Okay

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Fearyourcreator: 8:32pm On Sep 18, 2023

MrAgbako:
Exactly what I always tell women around me.
A man and a woman aren't same.
Men are polygamous in nature. Nature provides men the ability to bed multiple females and spread millions of their seeds to thousands of women.
Nature never game women such liberty.

Women also knew men hardly forgive a cheating wife. Even if the man decides to stay in the marriage for one reason or the other he will never love the woman again as much he he had previously love her.

So facts is there are things already imprinted in human DNA.

These modern woke generation forming feminism and some extreme red pill men movement has really caused a lot of damage to relationships, family and the society at large.

The people of old never had this kinda problems

Hmmmm

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by pocohantas(f): 8:49pm On Sep 18, 2023

Continue to play. I bet Yul Edochie's wife thought same until Yul packed into Judy's house. Men cheat and love their wives indeed.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Emma1Oj(m): 8:59pm On Sep 18, 2023

izonborn098:
Women are emotional being and they are moved by their feelings..
A man sex for fun while a woman sex for feelings, so once she taste any dick and he scatter her head, she will surely go back to him one day..
DON'T FORGIVE YOUR WIFE WHEN SHE CHEAT, IT'S FOR YOUR OWN GOOD..

Learnt!! Honestly I learn this now. Now I understand somethings..!!

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Rmace(m): 9:36pm On Sep 18, 2023*

Chemicalboss1:
Yea.
Ladies if your man cheats on you and hides it from you, even if you find out, please ignore.
He still loves and respects you that's why he keeps it a secret.

It's just the desire to try new things that pushes most men.

Op. , please delete this thread cos he doesn't add up . Doesn't make any sense.
Both men and women are biological being so the tendency to explore new things can be exhibit by both gender..don't use your promiscuity lifestyle's to justify that cheating by men is normal and it's a taboo for women to do same.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Jsabigi1: 10:20pm On Sep 18, 2023

Forgive your Wife or Girlfriend when she cheats but don't stay in the Marriage or relationship, it's deadly.

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:46pm On Sep 18, 2023

I've said it many times before. If ur woman cheat on u it's over, there's no second chance, it's over..

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 10:48pm On Sep 18, 2023

GOFRONT:
If you cheat and get pregnant, DNA would surely find you out...

How many of you can afford the DNA sef? grin

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 10:53pm On Sep 18, 2023

holaphem:
■ I like you to read that with understanding bro the Bible said teach which means it ain’t in their nature are you getting it Nevertheless I don’t support cheating in any form make God help us all

That's a bloody lie! Paul never meant what you claimed. He said teach because they were meant to be taught a new way from the Old way. Nothing about Nature at all. undecided

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 10:54pm On Sep 18, 2023

ednut1:
■ Maybe women pre 1980. Todays women ehn they can cheat and still love u o

Those women were holding it in even back then. grin

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 10:58pm On Sep 18, 2023

MrDoGood:
Nobody keeps a padlock that can be opened by multiple keys. But everyone wants to own a master key that opens any lock

That is why some keep reminding you lot that you can as well go date your fellow men.That option is available and even now more acceptable than ever before. undecided

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Idaytesj29(m): 11:01pm On Sep 18, 2023

TongueTwista:
Na una sabi!

It's not as if womanising is even cheap or a profitable venture. Just dey give yourself unnecessary stress. As I never knack in 8 months, see as my skin fine, I come fair like Daddy Freeze.

Just one month of womanising and I'll start looking dusty like Bola Tinubu. Abeg I no do!

Just tell us you are impo

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TongueTwista(m): 11:08pm On Sep 18, 2023

Idaytesj29:
Just tell us you are impo

I am impotent, come and borrow me your penis. With your very dry attempt at sarcasm.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Myer(m): 11:49pm On Sep 18, 2023

richie240:
Like Eve betrayed king Adam (who had the universe under his arm) and was brainwashed by an ordinary serpent?

Like Delilah betrayed King Samson who had the kings of his time pee on themselves at the sound of his name?

If u like have all the multiverse at the back of ur palm, the average woman can be easily brainwashed and can easily fall.

Don't put ur trust in a woman.
*No pun intended*
It's their nature to be easily brainwashed.

The serpent took advantage of the naivity and vulnerability of Eve.
Samson disobeyed God by going against the covenant.

And Yes, you've said it all, the average Eve is evil- pun intended.lol Just as the average Adam is adamantly evil.

You need an Adam or Eve who fears God and loves Christ more than she loves you. This is like wise the condition that can really make help a man stay faithful to a woman just as Job.

There's a reason everyone seeks God-fearing husband/wife. It's the genuine fear of God- not religion, that can make one stay faithful and assist love their husband and wife like Joseph.

Outside the bible- there are several examples of God-fearing husbands/wives who have been faithful to their spouse. There are even simply moral people who simply chose to be faithful to their spouse because by providence they just "get it." Such may not get other aspects of the marriage right but they get the fidelity/trust right. For the complete buffet/package both husband and wife need to be God-fearing, with Christ as the head if the marriage.

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Funflipper: 1:39am On Sep 19, 2023

TONYE001:
There’s absolutely no sense in this post.

These are the philosophies men generate to validate their cheating tendencies.

There’s nothing complex about this equation, it’s essentially of the simple linear type.

Men and women are similarly hurt by a cheating spouse, it breaks trust and demonstrates disrespect. No one is more hurt.

If you don’t like being cheated on, don’t cheat. If you won’t support beating or hurting a cheating man in other ways, don’t support the same done to a cheating woman.

Cheating is cheating, it does not carry different identities across genders.

Nature can't be tamed. There is a clear difference between a male and a female but humans are trying in vain to make them seem equal with man made laws.

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kevineleven(m): 1:40am On Sep 19, 2023

MrAgbako:
Exactly what I always tell women around me.
A man and a woman aren't same.
Men are polygamous in nature. Nature provides men the ability to bed multiple females and spread millions of their seeds to thousands of women.
Nature never game women such liberty.

Women also knew men hardly forgive a cheating wife. Even if the man decides to stay in the marriage for one reason or the other he will never love the woman again as much he he had previously love her.

So facts is there are things already imprinted in human DNA.

These modern woke generation forming feminism and some extreme red pill men movement has really caused a lot of damage to relationships, family and the society at large.

The people of old never had this kinda problems

What makes you think that women are not polygamous in nature,they are, by nature you are talking about living like animals, don't think we are not animals, nature also provided women the ability to spread their legs for multiple male, eg. She goats, hen, hookup girls e.t.c

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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Funflipper: 1:46am On Sep 19, 2023

spiSeyi:
If you genuinely love someone you won't do anything that will hurt them , if you love your wife you won't cheat on her. The problem with most people is that they mix love with emotional feelings, you can be emotionally attached to your wife and not love her.
This is what I have discovered from the little experience I had when I dated a childhood friend, I didn't cheat on her during our four-year relationship, I can't even imagine myself on top of another babe to the extent that I remain celibate for 3 yrs after destiny part us
Cheating is an act of selfishness
Love is not selfish, it endures and never hurts

But what she doesn't know won't hurt her, would it?

Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by PDJT: 4:12am On Sep 19, 2023

BloomingDale:
Nigerian women should please remember to practice selective breeding. Let’s breed out these fools.

-Nigerian women that pay their own bills or the eternal dependants? Mtchew!

-Meanwhile, it's men that holds the seeds and deposits them in any fertile soil he pleases. Deny him offerings and see violence return from relative extinction. tongue

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