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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by uchennamani(m): 4:22am On Sep 19, 2023
GOFRONT:
If you cheat and get pregnant, DNA would surely find you out...
Hahahahaha.

He didn’t use the word ‘DNA’ in this context, bro.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by PDJT: 4:24am On Sep 19, 2023
-Why cheat though, when you can join your local swingers club?

-If any of my wives cheat with a man. Hmm. I will personally drive her to the guy man's house. The beautiful ones are not yet born, they say. But if she cheats on me with another woman. Hmm. We can make that work wink. You know what they say; "a woman is like a spaghetti, she is straight until she gets wet".
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Filmdirect: 4:47am On Sep 19, 2023
Sofistcatdmoron:
A woman that loves her man can not do that,
Women loves with emotions,
But a man can have sex with many oloshos, but that doesn't stop him from loving his wife
That is a lie. A habitual cheating man will and usually grows to despise his wife. Why? Because her presence makes him feel bad. To counter he starts blaming her for everything he can, and subjugates her more. Her food will have problems, how she responded will be problematic, how she dresses…anything to justify why she is not enough. The poor woman will run herself crazy trying to please him and blame herself…everyone will tell her what to correct, not knowing it’s not even about her.

A cheating man’s house doesn’t have peace or joy. A lot of people are lying to themselves here. The more you cheat the colder your heart gets.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by BloomingDale(f): 6:55am On Sep 19, 2023
PDJT:
-Nigerian women that pay their own bills or the eternal dependants? Mtchew!

-Meanwhile, it's men that holds the seeds and deposits them in any fertile soil he pleases. Deny him offerings and see violence return from relative extinction. tongue
Nigerian men that hold what seed? You are not serious. You don’t know the child inherits most of the mother’s DNA including all of her mitochondrial DNA ( the powerhouse of the cell)?

What else can you offer to a Nigerian woman apart from money?
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by holaphem(m): 8:25am On Sep 19, 2023
Kobojunkie:
That's a bloody lie! Paul never meant what you claimed. He said teach because they were meant to be taught a new way from the Old way. Nothing about Nature at all. undecided
lol 😂 man learn and understand, you will understand soon that woman doesn’t have enough capacity to love man unconditionally, rather men are love under the conditions that he provides something, have you asked yourself why Jesus didn’t come as a woman ?
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by KaptainAfrika: 8:42am On Sep 19, 2023
I always thought its because the man the woman cheats with might have a bigger cvck, thereby causing un-recoverable pvssy expansion... cool
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Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Godeater: 9:18am On Sep 19, 2023
It's appalling how one justifies infidelity. Albeit it's synonymous to a thief blaming the devil for the act of stealing.
MrAgbako:
Exactly what I always tell women around me.
A man and a woman aren't same.
Men are polygamous in nature. Nature provides men the ability to bed multiple females and spread millions of their seeds to thousands of women.
Nature never game women such liberty.



Women also knew men hardly forgive a cheating wife. Even if the man decides to stay in the marriage for one reason or the other he will never love the woman again as much he he had previously love her.

So facts is there are things already imprinted in human DNA.

These modern woke generation forming feminism and some extreme red pill men movement has really caused a lot of damage to relationships, family and the society at large.

The people of old never had this kinda problems
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Godeater: 9:20am On Sep 19, 2023
Thank you
TONYE001:
There’s absolutely no sense in this post.

These are the philosophies men generate to validate their cheating tendencies.

There’s nothing complex about this equation, it’s essentially of the simple linear type.

Men and women are similarly hurt by a cheating spouse, it breaks trust and demonstrates disrespect. No one is more hurt.

If you don’t like being cheated on, don’t cheat. If you won’t support beating or hurting a cheating man in other ways, don’t support the same done to a cheating woman.

Cheating is cheating, it does not carry different identities across genders.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TONYE001(m): 9:30am On Sep 19, 2023
Funflipper:
Nature can't be tamed. There is a clear difference between a male and a female but humans are trying in vain to make them seem equal with man made laws.
Obviously, there are differences between the two genders but the right to cheat, or being less hurt by a cheating spouse, isn't one of such differences.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TONYE001(m): 10:02am On Sep 19, 2023
mdan:
Calm down and learn bro.
How about you calm down, unlearn the nonsense that is currently trending as regards men-women relationships, and learn the right knowledge so that you'll make a better spouse to your girlfriend/wife?
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TONYE001(m): 10:04am On Sep 19, 2023
SWATMan:
.There is no sense in your comment. And i guess you are not married.
One doesn't need to be married to understand that being cheated on, and the associated feelings, know no gender boundaries.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Salowise: 10:04am On Sep 19, 2023
I can handle a woman that tell me she's having affairs with another guy, but if she claims she's a saint and i found out she's having affair with another person, it's over without thinking twice.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TONYE001(m):
holaphem:
I like you to read that with understanding bro the Bible said teach which means it ain’t in their nature are you getting it huh

Nevertheless I don’t support cheating in any form make God help us all
Your explanation is flawed, sir.

God expects women to love their husbands, and it is natural for them to. This is why He encourages that they should be taught. The Ephesians 5:25 you all like isn't different. There, Paul was TEACHING men to love their wives too (Just like in Titus 2:4). So, you see, men too were taught to love their wives - by Paul this time. No difference.

This new trend on SM where an ill-informed group of individuals (who consider themselves to be alpha males - whatever this means) propagate childish philosophies will lead many to regrets, or early death. I've read all sorts of gibberish on this platform. All targeting women and girls, treating them like they do not have an equal right to life.

Everything no be cruise. If you no want marry, no marry, allow others that want to to have peace. If you think you have the right to cheat on your wife, prepare for the consequences if she finds out. If you think women are less humans, first address your mothers, aunts, and all the women in your generation as less humans (to their faces) before you come online to find followers.

Parents, please, empower your daughters. Educate them. Ensure they are independent. Let them not make their men think they need them to survive. Overdependence on men predisposes your daughters to disrespect and exploitations. Do your part, and watch them soar.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by VEHINTOLAR: 1:44pm On Sep 19, 2023
What I will advise here is;welther you're a married man or single,don't EVER sleep with another man's wife ! It is a dangerous game with grave consequences. There is no way the game will not be up one day and trust me,it doesn't always end up well ! As for married women who may want to try another dick outside,only if you know what awaits you !
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by SWATMan: 1:46pm On Sep 19, 2023
TONYE001:
One doesn't need to be married to understand that being cheated on, and the associated feelings, know no gender boundaries.
There's need to be married for the gravity to sink in because there is no pretense in marriage. Relationship is not a convenant, and hence it's fraught with pretensions, there's no such luxury when you walk the aisle.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by TONYE001(m): 2:07pm On Sep 19, 2023
SWATMan:
There's need to be married for the gravity to sink in because there is no pretense in marriage. Relationship is not a convenant, and hence it's fraught with pretensions, there's no such luxury when you walk the aisle.
The truth about this matter is rather obvious to the general public; my marital status does not alter the stand of justice.

By the way, yes, I'm married, married for 9 years.
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2023
holaphem:
■ lol 😂 man learn and understand, you will understand soon that woman doesn’t have enough capacity to love man unconditionally,
■ rather men are love under the conditions that he provides something, have you asked yourself why ■ Jesus didn’t come as a woman ?
1. Humans do not have the capacity to love unconditionally so I am not certain what you are rambling about. undecided

2. Same goes for women. They too love conditionally. So? undecided

3. Because He was promised as a Son of David? undecided
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by syntekelite(m): 5:20pm On Sep 19, 2023
A man can easily pull out and do what he wants without catching feelings, a woman needs cajoling, toasting, convincing for her to cheat. Reason i tell my homies once a woman cheats its over, her love for her man or husband is gone cos they are the receiver,moreover they will have to lie just to go to the hotel or wherever, take off like 3/4pieces of clothing then spread their legs and allow a total stranger ram into them continuously cos in the first place they have to be wet to cheat but for a man he can get hard anytime..
Its deeper than most people imagine,reason why any woman who cheats on me i jejely carry my kaya and leave her with her new man no need for drama or fight..
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Melkizedeck: 6:02pm On Sep 19, 2023
BloomingDale:
Nigerian women should please remember to practice selective breeding. Let’s breed out these fools.
There is no more Pata Seca so who would you practice selective breeding with? grin
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 6:06pm On Sep 19, 2023
Melkizedeck:
■ There is no more Pata Seca so who would you practice selective breeding with? grin
IVF no dey again? undecided
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Melkizedeck: 6:34pm On Sep 19, 2023
Kobojunkie:
IVF no dey again? undecided
Kobojunkie I believe you ain't that dumb.
Selective breeding needs physical evaluation.

IVF when you have no idea who the man is...
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 6:36pm On Sep 19, 2023
Melkizedeck:
■ Kobojunkie I believe you ain't that dumb. Selective breeding needs physical evaluation.
IVF when you have no idea who the man is...
So, you do not know even till now that women in fact review the profiles of the donors before choosing which to use? undecided
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by PDJT: 11:12pm On Sep 19, 2023
BloomingDale:
Nigerian men that hold what seed? You are not serious. You don’t know the child inherits most of the mother’s DNA including all of her mitochondrial DNA ( the powerhouse of the cell)?

What else can you offer to a Nigerian woman apart from money?
- It's a man's world, young woman. Women with their boring homogametic sex. Mtchew!
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:27am On Sep 20, 2023
Elsueno:
All CHEATERS should go to HELL, doesn't matter if u they be male or female.

I despise all cheaters equally & I would EXPOSE ur cheating a** to ur SPOUSE even if u are my brother/sister!!! grin
Men dont tolerate wives cheating becoz of two things

1 in most culture the man marries the wife by paying something towards the wife's , so if someone is sleeping with my wife it means my money went for nothing, the bride price money is for exclusive rights to your wife, once she cheats it means you no longer have that exclusive right, you paid the bride price dor
another man to enjoy her

2 Wife cheating on you, strips you of the social status of being a real men
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:50am On Sep 20, 2023
Filmdirect:
That is a lie. A habitual cheating man will and usually grows to despise his wife. Why? Because her presence makes him feel bad. To counter he starts blaming her for everything he can, and subjugates her more. Her food will have problems, how she responded will be problematic, how she dresses…anything to justify why she is not enough. The poor woman will run herself crazy trying to please him and blame herself…everyone will tell her what to correct, not knowing it’s not even about her.

A cheating man’s house doesn’t have peace or joy. A lot of people are lying to themselves here. The more you cheat the colder your heart gets.
Oga 90% of men cam sleep with their side chick,and still maintain their wife, it's normal, men are poligamouse, that's y a man can marry ten wifesand still want more,
The person you are referring to is not because he is a cheating man, he does not look ve his wife naturally,,
Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by Kobojunkie: 1:08pm On Sep 20, 2023
Sofistcatdmoron:
Oga 90% of men cam sleep with their side chick,and still maintain their wife, it's normal, men are poligamouse, that's y a man can marry ten wifesand still want more,
The person you are referring to is not because he is a cheating man, he does not look ve his wife naturally,,
ignorance even if claimed in denial of reality is not bliss! The one you responded to clearly articulated what in fact happens in the home of a cheating husband more times than not. undecided
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