₦airaland Forum

safarigirl:
I just saw a clip that totally rubbed me off the wrong way, and I want to release something that has been bothering me all season.

I DO NOT like the way that these women on the show have constantly objectified Neo and damn near sexually harassed him. It has all been so cringe and irritating to witness.

Saw a clip where CeeC was asking Venita if she knows how many times she has phucked Neo in her dreams, and people were in the CS making jokes, when it was not even funny at all. I don't like to flip the script, but this has gone on long enough to flip scripts, would it be funny if one of the guys said the same thing about one of the girls? Like, imagine Cross saying, "Do you know how many times I've phucked Alex in my dreams?" would it not be offensive? Would women on social media not have been calling for his head?

Then, let us imagine Kiddwaya was evicted and used his first ten media appearances to speak on Mercy as if she were a piece of meat like Uriel did of Neo when she left the house.

And let me not even go into the Pere situation and how these people never fail to bring up the size of his dick the moment they see him. Perhaps that one has most upset me, any small thing, "Pere's dick is big." "The dick is massive", why? Would we be catching cruise if the guys constantly went on about how Angel has a fat pussy?

If it is not okay to make certain statements of women to the public hearing, why is it okay to make same of men?

Is the antidote for bad behaviour, more bad behaviour? We are here saying women have been objectified by men for hundreds of years, and we're trying to get men to see women as human beings and not objects, but in the meantime, women want to exercise the same objectification on men without repercussions. Why?

I understand the, "Neo is sexy" talks, that is fair, but certain statements should not even be made when referring to another human being with agency, just because it may be offensive, if not to them, to those who identify with them.

Some people will say it is flattering to make these statements of men, and not offensive, but I don't even agree with that statement. This is how we downplay the molestation of boys too, when in fact, the damage to their psyche is pretty much similar to the damage it does to girls. Sexual harassment is still harassment, irrespective of the gender doing it.

We will never really get men to see women as people, if we cannot extend the same branch to them. The crass objectification of Biggie's boys has been so unsettling to watch.

drimzsmoke:
Lolz, during my 1st degree, I made a joke at/with some girl in my class but she didn't get the joke. That was how this particular girl reported to her boyfriend who was the number 1 of aye( a cult group) that year. It was during lectures they came to class to match me out of the lecture room, they beat and rough handled me. For week, I couldn't step foot in school..... So pardon me, anytime I read about the death of any cultist, I SPIT ON THEIR GRAVE!!!

QueenSindel:
Why won't he objectified isn't that what he wants!! Neo walks around the house naked and never engages in any intelligent conversation....U are addressed the way u present urself!! When people think of the likes of cross and Neo the only thing that comes to their mind is sex as they have nothing else to offer!!

QueenSindel:
Why won't he objectified isn't that what he wants!! Neo walks around the house naked and never engages in any intelligent conversation....U are addressed the way u present urself!! When people think of the likes of cross and Neo the only thing that comes to their mind is sex as they have nothing else to offer!!

Tatiana4u:
I just listened to Khaid’s tribute song to Mohbad titled “forever” and I’ve been crying nonstop!
This is deeper than i thought cos the last time I ever mourned was when I lost my daddy…I just feel like I lost a younger brother that I never met and the pain that I feel is deep!
May God punish all his killers,tormentors and oppressors because I don’t trust this government to give him Justice!

Khaid’s tribute song to Mohbad 'Forever' 🕊️💗

All the Royalties of this song are 100% for Mohbad's son (Liam Aloba)

Class act 👏🏾pic.twitter.com/ymhEBeqYxY

— T.U.E (@TheUpperEnt) September 19, 2023

Imole,May you reincarnate and fulfill your glorious destiny!

MercyStan:
Spiritual eyes this and that. Oga shut up. No one cares.

One doesn't need a spiritual eyes to see that the masses are supporting Ilebaye.

You just go to social media read comments and come here to cap rubbish.

You are just a troll looking so desperately for attention and you are starting to get on my nerves with the nonsense you spill daily.

You have spiritual eyes yet you support losing housemates year after year. From TBoss to Mike to Ozo to Maria.

It's only the obvious stuff that everybody knows that your so called spiritual eyes can see.

Mtcheeww

QueenSindel:
Why won't he objectified isn't that what he wants!! Neo walks around the house naked and never engages in any intelligent conversation....U are addressed the way u present urself!! When people think of the likes of cross and Neo the only thing that comes to their mind is sex as they have nothing else to offer!!

IconicR:
Amen

😭 The guy was very calm and not ready for those troubles.
The other one called Zinolesky is gone and obviously can't be saved

His parents are not even helping matters as they have refused to cry out because of peanuts
Some parents are not really worthy of being parents

safarigirl:
Neo walks around the house naked? Neo? Because he off shirt? You don't know any men that off shirt and walk around?

Are we now excusing sexual harassment because the victim presents themselves a certain way?

And engaging in intelligent conversation does not stop someone from being harassed. Nobody should be harassed like that, no matter what. That is what we are trying to establish here.

If we start making these excuses, we might as well justify r-ape and there is no justification for r-ape. The harasser will always be wrong. There are other people that have seen Neo walking around shirtless, yet, they don't objectify him. I never heard Alex objectify any man in that house irrespective of how they presented themselves.

Hian! Mbok, I no fit partake in, "The victim deserves to be attacked" conversations.

Threebear:
Gbam

AwkaFinest:
Wow, even from a MercyStan. Them don dey realize slowly and steadily.

When you are favoured, you are favoured. Ilebeya to the world!!!



ILEBAYE'S HOH win was like when Nigeria used to do well in football, like over 15 yrs ago. The shout for joy in my neighborhood was like when Nigeria scored a goal back in those days. Even Keke guys were happy.

Tatiana4u:
Kwa kwa kwa
Even our enemies don Dey confess say na Baye get this show!
Lmao!
They thought they could use her political and wealthy background to decampaign her but they failed because the people have already made their choice and Baye is the choice of the people!!!
If her victory as HOH was this loud,I can imagine how her final victory as BBNaija Allstars winner would be like!
E go loud!!!
E go choke!!!
E go be like say Naija win World Cup!

Alheeri:
Amen in Jesus name...
Ve promised myself I won't watch any video Abt him but I don't knw wat keeps controlling my fingers to press play..
Very gentle,calm ,down to earth guy,always minding his business and very very respectful...

Ve deleted all marlian record songs and instructed my neighbors to do so anyone wey play am na police station we go settle am

Threebear:
Congratulations in advance

Aguwanyi:
How…when…where did I ever insult Whitemoney..
I only apologized for ever supporting him cos it was necessary..
And I didn’t even insult Safari,I only mentioned that her clitoris is always on vibration-athon when Adekunle’s name is been mentioned and it’s true..


You are accusing me wrongly,Oya apologise..

Threebear:
Anyone still doubting Ilebaye will win is extremely delusional.

The masses crown winners not hardcore fanbase 😁😁😁😁😁


If you like open 2 million different voting centers, no way.


I love CeeC but she ain't winning nada .


Not just because I already know Ilebaye is winning, it's also because the winning grace is not on her.


As the daughter of a goddess, I have spiritual eyes and the person the crystal is pointed at is Ilebaye.


That man sleeping with CeeC in her dream everyday is not Neo but her spiritual husband.


And everytime he sleeps with her , he releases toxins into her body , that will steal her blessings .

He's merely taking Neo's form because CeeC finds Neo sexually attractive 😁


My own spiritual husband is from India, he tried to rape me every night.... sometimes he took the form of a crocodile or massive python, I met one useless pastor that told me to fast and pray and cast ,after that everything got worse, until my friend recommended me to a powerful priestess , she called him and asked him what he wanted, he said it and was settled .

I never saw him again .
Then I started getting favours from men left right and center.

Until CeeC settles her spiritual husband, no man will last in her life .

Same with a particular Nairaland girl , her spirit husband is strong like CeeC's own.

I don't see any man looking her way either and she's about to turn 30 😁😁😁🤣😂😂

Tatiana4u:
It’s so sad because he was a gentleman who never engaged in any form of violence or trouble
Even his tormentor confessed that he’s always calm and peaceful….no wonder they were able to kill him!
Na person like Portable fit them for that industry!
I never liked Naira Marley or any of his songs,even when Tacha was cruising with him!
Na portable sef I like,despite his craziness and dirty looks.😂😂😂
Lol 😂
Anybody wey play marlian songs go collect wotowoto!😂😂😂

Tatiana4u:
That tiny ass walking skeleton called Zino doesn’t deserve to be saved because he’s enjoying his slavery and he’d snitch on anyone who wants to save him.
Make in perish dia!
His parents have already sold him out.smh

MercyStan:
Spiritual eyes this and that. Oga shut up. No one cares.

One doesn't need a spiritual eyes to see that the masses are supporting Ilebaye.

You just go to social media read comments and come here to cap rubbish.

You are just a troll looking so desperately for attention and you are starting to get on my nerves with the nonsense you spill daily.

You have spiritual eyes yet you support losing housemates year after year. From TBoss to Mike to Ozo to Maria.

It's only the obvious stuff that everybody knows that your so called spiritual eyes can see.

Mtcheeww

Tatiana4u:
It’s so sad because he was a gentleman who never engaged in any form of violence or trouble
Even his tormentor confessed that he’s always calm and peaceful….no wonder they were able to kill him!
Na person like Portable fit them for that industry!
I never liked Naira Marley or any of his songs,even when Tacha was cruising with him!
Na portable sef I like,despite his craziness and dirty looks.😂😂😂
Lol 😂
Anybody wey play marlian songs go collect wotowoto!😂😂😂

Nhazeru:
Even though spiritual husband is nothing but a myth, I would like to have Elon musk, Jeff bezos and Mark of Facebook as my own spirit husband. E go sweet to run things with them every night sha, what do you think?🤣

IconicR:
Are you trying to say the guy too was a cultist?

If he was a cultist I don't think they'll treat him that way

Godoverevery:
Lol.......Nigerians just love rubbish and it always irritating to see.

Am not even bothered about the mo bad saga cos I know this guys......they are all the same.

I don't have any RIP to waste on any cultists.

After what I suffered in those animal hands 3yrs ago in abeokuta......I can never ever pity any cultist killed i will always spit on there grave aswell.

Lauryn41:
He wasn’t a cultist

Don’t mind drimzsmoke

Godoverevery:
Lol.......Nigerians just love rubbish and it always irritating to see.

Am not even bothered about the mo bad saga cos I know this guys......they are all the same.

I don't have any RIP to waste on any cultists.

After what I suffered in those animal hands 3yrs ago in abeokuta......I can never ever pity any cultist killed i will always spit on there grave aswell.

Lauryn41:
Where is your human sympathy

Somebody died , see Wetin you dey talk

Mohbad was not a cultist

Lauryn41:
Where is your human sympathy

Somebody died , see Wetin you dey talk

Mohbad was not a cultist

hayzed19:
That guy is too cool for marlians music...
Moh get strong spirit sha... Me and my guy was actually singing his songs word for word out of nowhere without playing them sef... 30 minutes after, I heard Moh is gone...His death pain me gan ooo... Tears in my eyes everytime I login to instagram seeing his tribute everywhere...