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Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Justkatty(f): 8:15am On Oct 19, 2023
Shapeaso:
Exactly dear. cheesy
I weak for some people sha
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Billyddude: 8:25am On Oct 19, 2023
Aomial:
I went to visit my friend very far from my place.

Now, this friend of mine happened to be a very quiet person, so quiet that you may even liken him to a coward and quietly evil person.

So have been going to his place all this while for obvious reasons. 1, i get bored in my house . 2, he was my only friend in this strange place. 3. I needed to drive around to somewhere

I have already gotten tired of his character, i can't stress that enough. He is a virgin and not the fun type, and in his late 20's.



One gal, about 17yrs old girl would pass most times i was around and she would hail on us. We got so familiar with her that she became my friend personally. Nothing happened between us. I didn't toast her and i didn't tell her to fu*k me. "This i have to state here cos some dimwits will chastise me with this..."

For some time now, i noticed she has been behaving very very strange. I noticed because she was doing all these to piss me off. She would pass and placed her two hands on her face before saying her usual good morning. Later on, she would see us in a distance, make some odd remarks and take another route like we are making her do it.

So today, i was talking to a female friend of mine(a girl i was avin something with) next to my male friend. So, this teenage girl was passing and she made this remark "so na person wife you dey chase now..." These words really pained me. I had to excuse my friend to go after this teenage girl and she ran off.

I was boiling with anger with what just happened and had to trace her mother's house and spoke to her elder brother about it. The elder brother calmed me begged me on her behalf...

On my way from her place, walking down with my friend to his place, this lady saw us from a distance and made another gesture from afar... This gesture was only making me mad because i feel like she was taking me as her mate by doing this...

I got so angry that i dropped my phone and car key on the ground and ran after her. She ran away leaving behind whatever she was holding.

I was very angry and was shouting at her from afar, it attracted so much attention that everyone from that street was present there and was begging me to chill down. I even had to transfer my aggression to some other people there that was helping her pick stuffs from the ground...

I was very pissed and went back to my friend's place to get my phone and keys and drove off to my place.


You embarrassed your friend in his neighborhood..learn to control your emotions..you embarrassed your self too....like you parked your car to chase a teenager around in the street
Who those that?


ABOUT MY FRIEND
While this was happening, my friend, cowardly as ever was just standing, saying nothing, doing nothing, advising nothing, suggesting nothing and even just said he was going home to eat while i was boiling with anger.
I mean, what the use of friends when they can't get ur back or even advise you when anger is besting your reasoning ?

I had to delete his phone number from my phone and block all means to reach me.

As for the girl, am still asking myself if i did the right thing
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by world123: 8:26am On Oct 19, 2023
Next time you no go follow small pickin dey smile until you sure say that pickin get respect. When they greet you "good morning," you say morning. No extra talk.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by NoToPile: 8:27am On Oct 19, 2023
All these small small girls these days get mind sha, possibly she thought you will toast her or something as you have gotten familiar with her.


As for OP you need to control your emotions, chasing a teenager for misyarning? Naa that's low, your friend handled it far better.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by world123: 8:34am On Oct 19, 2023
I must say you haven't experienced life yet. When you experience it, that means you will be chasing and fighting people every day.

Learn to let go; walk away whenever you are triggered else you will end in jail.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Brandiebird: 8:50am On Oct 19, 2023
You don’t portray yourself as a good person, I don’t know what issue you have with your friend but please leave him alone. You’re the silent killer and the coward in this write up, and he comes across as a decent human being.

You’re chasing a little girl up and down the street and to make it worse, you’re looking for backup? For what? A 15 year old girl that you allowed to get familiar with you instead of respecting your age.?.

Did you notice that she didn’t disrespect that guy you were looking down on? Ask yourself why, it’s because he respects himself which is something you should try.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by ekitimanalways(m): 8:53am On Oct 19, 2023
Aomial:
I went to visit my friend very far from my place.

Now, this friend of mine happened to be a very quiet person, so quiet that you may even liken him to a coward and quietly evil person.

So have been going to his place all this while for obvious reasons. 1, i get bored in my house . 2, he was my only friend in this strange place. 3. I needed to drive around to somewhere

I have already gotten tired of his character, i can't stress that enough. He is a virgin and not the fun type, and in his late 20's.



One gal, about 17yrs old girl would pass most times i was around and she would hail on us. We got so familiar with her that she became my friend personally. Nothing happened between us. I didn't toast her and i didn't tell her to fu*k me. "This i have to state here cos some dimwits will chastise me with this..."

For some time now, i noticed she has been behaving very very strange. I noticed because she was doing all these to piss me off. She would pass and placed her two hands on her face before saying her usual good morning. Later on, she would see us in a distance, make some odd remarks and take another route like we are making her do it.

So today, i was talking to a female friend of mine(a girl i was avin something with) next to my male friend. So, this teenage girl was passing and she made this remark "so na person wife you dey chase now..." These words really pained me. I had to excuse my friend to go after this teenage girl and she ran off.

I was boiling with anger with what just happened and had to trace her mother's house and spoke to her elder brother about it. The elder brother calmed me begged me on her behalf...

On my way from her place, walking down with my friend to his place, this lady saw us from a distance and made another gesture from afar... This gesture was only making me mad because i feel like she was taking me as her mate by doing this...

I got so angry that i dropped my phone and car key on the ground and ran after her. She ran away leaving behind whatever she was holding.

I was very angry and was shouting at her from afar, it attracted so much attention that everyone from that street was present there and was begging me to chill down. I even had to transfer my aggression to some other people there that was helping her pick stuffs from the ground...

I was very pissed and went back to my friend's place to get my phone and keys and drove off to my place.



ABOUT MY FRIEND
While this was happening, my friend, cowardly as ever was just standing, saying nothing, doing nothing, advising nothing, suggesting nothing and even just said he was going home to eat while i was boiling with anger.
I mean, what the use of friends when they can't get ur back or even advise you when anger is besting your reasoning ?

I had to delete his phone number from my phone and block all means to reach me.

As for the girl, am still asking myself if i did the right thing
grin grin
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Brandiebird: 8:59am On Oct 19, 2023
ekitimanalways:
grin grin
That part cracked me up too grin grin grin

That’s my type of niqqa 😁
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by ekitimanalways(m): 9:17am On Oct 19, 2023
Brandiebird:
That part cracked me up too grin grin grin

That’s my type of niqqa 😁
cheesy
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Aomial(op): 10:04am On Oct 19, 2023
Shapeaso:
Any man that control his tongue and knows when to speak and when not to speak is a wiseman. Your friend is one.
he is a coward. I can't say much but e even can't take care of his own shit because of fear.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Kevineleven(m): 10:49am On Oct 19, 2023
Teenagers can misbehave since they are only children in adult body, you need to warn her seriously, but i believe your outburst sent a clear message, she will behave herself now.
But your reaction towards your friend's attitude is a bit much.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Aomial(op): 10:54am On Oct 19, 2023
Kevineleven:
Teenagers can misbehave since they are only children in adult body, you need to warn her seriously, but i believe your outburst sent a clear message, she will behave herself now.
But your reaction towards your friend's attitude is a bit much.
She got the message...

I will try to behave more appropriately next time. Thank you for your contribution.
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Ulunne777(f): 1:46pm On Oct 19, 2023
How old is the poster again?
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by ChybuzzDD(m): 2:56pm On Oct 19, 2023
Aomial:
I went to visit my friend very far from my place.

Now, this friend of mine happened to be a very quiet person, so quiet that you may even liken him to a coward and quietly evil person.

So have been going to his place all this while for obvious reasons. 1, i get bored in my house . 2, he was my only friend in this strange place. 3. I needed to drive around to somewhere

I have already gotten tired of his character, i can't stress that enough. He is a virgin and not the fun type, and in his late 20's.



One gal, about 17yrs old girl would pass most times i was around and she would hail on us. We got so familiar with her that she became my friend personally. Nothing happened between us. I didn't toast her and i didn't tell her to fu*k me. "This i have to state here cos some dimwits will chastise me with this..."

For some time now, i noticed she has been behaving very very strange. I noticed because she was doing all these to piss me off. She would pass and placed her two hands on her face before saying her usual good morning. Later on, she would see us in a distance, make some odd remarks and take another route like we are making her do it.

So today, i was talking to a female friend of mine(a girl i was avin something with) next to my male friend. So, this teenage girl was passing and she made this remark "so na person wife you dey chase now..." These words really pained me. I had to excuse my friend to go after this teenage girl and she ran off.

I was boiling with anger with what just happened and had to trace her mother's house and spoke to her elder brother about it. The elder brother calmed me begged me on her behalf...

On my way from her place, walking down with my friend to his place, this lady saw us from a distance and made another gesture from afar... This gesture was only making me mad because i feel like she was taking me as her mate by doing this...

I got so angry that i dropped my phone and car key on the ground and ran after her. She ran away leaving behind whatever she was holding.

I was very angry and was shouting at her from afar, it attracted so much attention that everyone from that street was present there and was begging me to chill down. I even had to transfer my aggression to some other people there that was helping her pick stuffs from the ground...

I was very pissed and went back to my friend's place to get my phone and keys and drove off to my place.



ABOUT MY FRIEND
While this was happening, my friend, cowardly as ever was just standing, saying nothing, doing nothing, advising nothing, suggesting nothing and even just said he was going home to eat while i was boiling with anger.
I mean, what the use of friends when they can't get ur back or even advise you when anger is besting your reasoning ?

I had to delete his phone number from my phone and block all means to reach me.

As for the girl, am still asking myself if i did the right thing
"so na person wife you dey chase now..."

You should have ignored her when she said this
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by ChybuzzDD(m): 2:58pm On Oct 19, 2023
Aomial:
thank you for the clarification. Can we talk on WhatsApp, i have some few personal questions i would like to get answers to.
There you go again with another childish display!
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Joelobioha(m): 3:15pm On Oct 19, 2023
Wait your unfriended your Introverted friend due to annoyance from a teenager..man was juts chill and refuse to interfere in your banter..
Re: Teenager Insults Me, Was My Reaction Logical ? by Aomial(op): 4:01pm On Oct 19, 2023
Joelobioha:
Wait your unfriended your Introverted friend due to annoyance from a teenager..man was juts chill and refuse to interfere in your banter..
I was already tired of his other shits before this happened
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