In all sense of humor, he’s right but just that he needed wisdom to handle such situation because memories are good and someone cannot just say one should bury all memories of someone you had close ties with. Rearrange the picture settings in the living room by collecting like terms just like mathematics then you’ll have peace

Of course... The dead is dead already

Please remove

Such a selfish man probably only remarried because of his kids.

They never take the side of the wife, no matter what.
It's either the side chic, or the dead wife.
Wicked lots!

KillIgbohoN0W:
Na she kill am?

i tire ooo 🤷

LikeAking:
Na only simps go remove am..

The moment him remove he becomes nothing in the eyes of the new wife.. His value will diminish..

Many of you don’t understand the F gender.. When it comes with dealing with F gender your must be highly manipulative..

If he keeps the late wife’s pics, the new wife will be very loyal and she will respect him in her heart..

If he simps, she will show him her devilish side..

He shud warn her neva to repeat that nonsense agian…

Lol!

Ofcourse he should take out the pictures.

Enemyofpeace:
What are your thoughts on this please?

A new wife is not supposed to meet anything of the deceased physically hanging anywhere.
The house should have been purged of the late wife memory even the man must have attained a clear minded state.

What does he need the pictures for?

He needs closure and healing. Removing the pictures facilitates both processes.

The man should have healed properly before trying to marry a new wife. There’s no reason for her picture to be on the wall.

LikeAking:
Na only simps go remove am..

The moment him remove he becomes nothing in the eyes of the new wife.. His value will diminish..

Many of you don’t understand the F gender.. When it comes with dealing with F gender your must be highly manipulative..

If he keeps the late wife’s pics, the new wife will be very loyal and she will respect him in her heart..

If he simps, she will show him her devilish side..

He shud warn her neva to repeat that nonsense agian…

Absolutely. However, the word is “you must not compromise or always try to please them”, not manipulative.

All those saying he's a simp are spewing thrash

Even if that man heals perfectly, don't mean he will forget the late wife just like that.
So if your mum dies,you will just forget like she never existed.

Marrying another wife is to fill in a gap in his life.
The wife is just a companion and helps in procreation.


Abeg leave your late wife picture there joor.
Na this kind new wife fit torment the late wife's children.
Ownership entitlement
Comot am say wetin happen.
If that woman no die,she for come that house?

Devilish women everywhere

Enemyofpeace:
What are your thoughts on this please?

is the picture disturbing her marriage? Some women sef..

What sort of marriage is that?

Pierocash:
Let him remove it. Why getting married when he knows he is not ready to move on?

If it is the woman that placed her late husband's pix like that,will the man overlook it? The answer is no

Exactly - it’s either he’s moved on or stuck in neutral . He can have a little shrine for late wife in the garage but it’s the new wife era

elmagnifico411:
is the picture disturbing her marriage? Some women sef..

thank you,she is just been evil and will extend that to the late wife's children if there's any

BarrElChapo:
The man should have healed properly before trying to marry a new wife. There’s no reason for her picture to be on the wall.

Maybe he's an Indian.

He should kuku set up a shrine for the late wife while at it, to prove his continuous loyalty.

The pictures naturally has to go. If you're not ready to put down the pictures, you aren't ready to move on and remarry.

Two have become one. You are now one with your new spouse as death as broken the bonding with the deceased wife.

The new wife can also influence things. Some may be generous and let it come down with time. She may want he stepchildren to heal as well.

Remove it. But sha this is pain everlasting. Not sure I will touch another woman.

Yugoslavia247:
Women and wahala.

You never show love you don dey show position.

If you show love na by himself e go say make una keep somewhere.

If she have her ex or late husband picture on her phone will u accept it?
Stop bein emotional, it's the logical thing to do. Love comes with mutual respect as well

Yes now. Does the man need to be told? what's the essence of remarrying if you still want to keep the memory of the late one around? To do what with it exactly?

Some things just require common sense to handle. No be everything go become issue.

Vinnie2000:


The Man is suppose to Remove it nah!

Just like Nigerians will soon remove DRUGGIE'S Picx from the halls of our Public institutions. 😏🙁

Please, let's have decorum here. Bringing down the President of Nigeria is uncalled for. Calling him names is unpatriotic. Let's be civilized, please. He wasn't the umpire at the election. This is our country and am very proud to be a Nigerian anywhere I find myself. ... please, don't let us be bringing our president down. Let the court decide and move on with our lives. Nigeria is a good country and we are good people. We shall pass through the current economic and security situation God's willing

Remove what?... When she was coming to the house to shag before they married, why did she not ask he removed it?

My two cents is let the man heal, it might take weeks, months or years... Honestly she is not worth having as a wife... I mean ex is dead why act like competition.

If the man have children from late wife, how will this affect impact them if pic is removed?

How will she treat children of late wife if a pic of her is causing grief?

Let the man heal, let her be a good wife and the picture will removed without her asking for it to be taken off.

I mean she sleeps in bedroom ex wife slept... Why did she not ask bed be changed or kitchen utensils be changed?...

Pierocash:
Let him remove it. Why getting married when he knows he is not ready to move on?

If it is the woman that placed her late husband's pix like that,will the man overlook it? The answer is no

Did she ever visited his house while they were dating? Has the picture always been on the wall? If the answer to any of these questions is YES, then he should tell her to move out if she isn't comfortable with the picture.
It is a very good example of the Yoruba proverb "Iku to si fila lo ri eni, owe nla lo npa fun ni" which means the death who takes off your cap is a sign of things to come (I tried interpreting it literally). If he takes off her picture today, he is going to cut off from everyone that means to his life be they dead or alive.

Yugoslavia247:
Women and wahala.

You never show love you don dey show position.

If you show love na by himself e go say make una keep somewhere.

The worst part be say na una jealous pass o.
Una go want to give wetin una no fit take, and at the same time, receive wetin una no fit give.
Selfish and self-centered!

LikeAking:
Na only simps go remove am..

The moment him remove he becomes nothing in the eyes of the new wife.. His value will diminish..

Many of you don’t understand the F gender.. When it comes with dealing with F gender your must be highly manipulative..

If he keeps the late wife’s pics, the new wife will be very loyal and she will respect him in her heart..

If he simps, she will show him her devilish side..

He shud warn her neva to repeat that nonsense agian…

Exactly!

Why do you've to hang the picture on the wall? That's disrespectful to your new wife. Have the pictures on your phone instead.

Odin13:
It’s not easy..
The man must heal before he marries.. if not.. it’s a huge problem.

been there..

And if he loves the late wife ba? So sorry for the new.

They will always want the pix remove.. the pix will go with time..when she fills the gap and more.

Perfectly said. It's with time. Allow time to resolve things by itself

If the late wife had young children before she died , it would create a wicked step mother environment in that home.
Children are very observant and they notice things like that

Pierocash:
Let him remove it. Why getting married when he knows he is not ready to move on?

If it is the woman that placed her late husband's pix like that,will the man overlook it? The answer is no

illicit:
If the deceased wife has kids in that family, her pictures will stay

If she doesn't, there's no point hanging her pics, maybe just one

Precisely.

Another question-if the new wife was the late one, would she want to be removed like that, especially if she had kids?

It'll take a special breed of woman to have them remove the pictures if the children are not small.

IMO, any woman who marries a widower(especially with kids) is like a being a second wife. It'll take a lot of loving from the new wife get close to replacing one's biological mother

She's a WITCH. Make the 🤖 husband sha nor entrusted the kids in her care