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My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 7:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I am from Edo state(Benin City) but based in Lagos with my family. I met this sweet Yoruba angel during the festive period in December 2020, we fell in love and ever since it has been from one sweet level to the other (although we have had misunderstanding sometimes but we usually settle immediately). she is nice, respectful both to my parents and siblings. I planned to engage her at our third year relationship anniversary which is supposed to be December this year, and the both of us have been talking of settling down by mid 2024. The issue now is that since the past election, my parents have been advising me against continuing with the relationship. The girl that was once the talk of the family, suddenly everyone has developed a cold feet towards her. Even if they have been trying to hide it whenever she is around, she has started noticing it and have been asking me questions. What even angered my parents the more was how GRV (Gbadebo Rode Vivor) was treated by most Yorubas simply because his mother is Igbo even when the father is Yoruba. My parents are saying since I have interest in politics, I should go and get an Edo girl to marry. But I have always maintained that I wont marry from my tribe and they said if I dont want an Edo girl, I can go and get a lady from anywhere in the SS that they dont want a yoruba as a daughter inlaw. I am confused right now. I love this girl and dont want to leave her, at the same time I dont want to disobey my parents. This girl even supported and voted GRV. I have tried to plead with them and even sent one of my uncle to go help me talk to them, they are still insisting that if I go ahead with my plans, then I should count them out of my marriage. Please kindly advise on what I should do at this moment. COPIED |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Infojames: 7:41am On Nov 05, 2023 |
They should as well Live with you for the rest of their lives to get your wife behave 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by advanceDNA: 7:45am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Since u copied it.....go bring the person wey get the case make we tell am what to do... 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by nabiz(m): 7:47am On Nov 05, 2023 |
BirtherOfKings:believe me best marriage will alway be from your tribe. Culture and believe matters a lot. Even jacob, Isaac etc was advised not to marry outside their tribe. There are many beatiful Edo girls out there to marry 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Nobody: 7:49am On Nov 05, 2023 |
They should understand that love can't be bought 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by onumadu: 7:55am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244: I no talk am ... E don dey start. No RESPONSIBLE AND SENSIBLE parent from the south south or south east who witnessed what happened to GRV would behave any differently. 8 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by INDOMIE9090(f): 7:59am On Nov 05, 2023 |
onumadu:Makinde married from rivers Akeredolu married a woman from imo state Adeleke Mum is ibo and he married an ibo woman too,Yorubas voted for them without looking at that. We rejected the uncothed ibo vagabond masquerading as Yoruba after he has degenerated the tribe in his past tweet.we not gonna lose our land to those who called it “no mans land” Lastly op,I will advice you leave the girl and Marry from your tribe shikena 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by EmirofAfonjaz: 8:04am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Marry from your tribe. This is because, marriage is not 'pre-marital' sex and the 'FUN' there in. As you grow older, you discover that marrying from your tribe has alot of advantages. 1. The children have grandparents with the same traditional beliefs 2. Language and cultural beliefs is unified. So what is not allowed in EDO for women and men is observed to the fullest. 3. When travelling for any festivities, relating to your (EDO wife) you are actually going to your house, because her house and yours are in the same State. 4. Your children won't be 'born throwaway' because they know their fathers compound. 5. You are deepening your roots and laying a very solid foundation for your bloodline, that will not be corrupted by external orientations and beliefs. Don't even negotiate your peace of mind at OLD Age with the immediate benefits of today. The firm breast and big ynassh you admire today abound everywhere. The character you need abounds everywhere. The LOYALTY (which is actually LOVE) you need is everywhere. Don't fall for 'WOKE' idiots that when she wants to act, your culture can't put her incheck. The secret of our parents having 'LONG' relationships and weathering the storms of marriage is that they are bound by 'LOYALTY' to each other that is cemented by traditional and cultural beliefs that make marriage stand the test of time. Your Mother will definitely want the best for her son. Get a girl within your immediate 'tribe' and let your mother do the investigations as regards her family and background. If your mother likes her, you don win. FREE the GIRL and look for an EDO woman, even from your tribe, that will give you happiness, joy and undiluted LOYALTY. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Shinjawestern: 8:06am On Nov 05, 2023 |
All lies .. Anyway God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by ConfidentialDoc: 8:08am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244: The movie script was very sweet...until you mentioned GRV. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 8:11am On Nov 05, 2023 |
INDOMIE9090:actually it work then because OBI and TINUBU wasnt contesting for the same position. GRV has contested for positions before in lagos and nobody accused him of been igbo then. Tinubu and the 2023 presidential election brought out the bigotry in yoruba to full display. u saw the election as a war between the igbos and the yorubas. and GRV contesting under a party where an igbo man is the presidential candidate, that automatically made him an igbo in you guys dictionary. i bet you, if GRV had contested under APC, the igbo tagged on him would not had fly. most of you are just slaves to tinubu and APC. I see how most of u guys attack Makinde and Adeleke everyday both here and on X simply because they not in APC and not answerable to Tinubu. 14 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Elsudani2: 8:12am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Your parents wants the best for you. Avoid ofe mmnanu 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 8:13am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Shinjawestern:Oga remove SS from ur mouth we know fake love when we see one u can only deceive yourself. SS and SE have always maintained the same political base and always agreed. u guys are the traitors in the South. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Jeon(f): 8:13am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I wanted to take you seriously, but I regret reading this because it was copied. 9 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Elsudani2: 8:13am On Nov 05, 2023 |
onumadu: Yorubarinza love na fake love |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Elsudani2: 8:14am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244: Palm oil 11 razor blade face women will die single |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Shinjawestern: 8:16am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244: Okay Mr chinedu |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Brimstone77: 8:16am On Nov 05, 2023 |
.... Your parents are wise and knows what is the best for you.. If you try and disobey them you may regret it tomorrow.. As it stand now any of my children that think of marrying yoruba will be disowned.. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Elsudani2: 8:24am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Brimstone77: Disowned and sent to Gaza No be pikin be that |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Makunahatata: 8:24am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244:Chinedu ass licking 😂 |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 8:25am On Nov 05, 2023 |
INDOMIE9090:Edos are known for been stubborn and ready to fight anytime they noticed they are been oppressed. when i was doing my NYSC in Lagos here, there was a fight btw the driver of a truck that supplies us raw material for production and his motor boy. the motor boy is from Edo. Immediately the fight started, the motor boy started looking for sticks and bottle and telling the driver i will burst your head right now and nothing go happen. I went into laugh and signal my oga and said this one na confirm Edo boy. so me using that word that Edos are known for, automatically made me a betrayal of my tribe abi? gather sense man 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by INDOMIE9090(f): 8:29am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244:kindly show me a tweet where those you mentioned where abused.if makinde is hated cos of the party he his,he wouldn’t have gotten huge vote during the election. 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by tubolancer(m): 8:30am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244:You people will kill her, watch out. Just lost a family friend, an Igbo girl to this Edo people who didn't want her to marry their son. Apart from politics, these people will kill you especially if their son is doing well. I wonder what a Yoruba girl is doing with Edo people. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 8:31am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Makunahatata:u are actually the one ass licking here dragging SS to you. go and check the history of Nigeria in politics, SS and SE always vote in one direction. na 2023 u want dey form ur fake love just dey play Ngozi okonjo, tony elumelu, owner of AriseTV etc are all from the SS but u guys normally tag them igbo just dey deceive yourself Akapbio will choose igbo anyday anytime Wike will choose igbo anyday anytime Wike did what he did because he never believe obi could gather such votes with small LP and Atiku winning will be doom for him in politics. he was just fighting for his political career. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:35am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Obey your parents. E get why. |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Godfullsam(m): 8:36am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244: When GRV contested under the platform of pdp 2019, what name did he use? How on earth do you expect someone who came on air and said 'he doesn't think yoruba', to win an election in yoruba land? Do you even know the meaning of that statement? I tell you something, if GRV conducted himself very well and align with his people and gain their trust, he would have won. After all, a whole tinubu lost in lagos. But GRV was counting on the votes of the igbos to give him victory, that he why he was talking any how. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Dafresh: 8:37am On Nov 05, 2023 |
BirtherOfKings:Which one be Shiloh? |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Omobude244: 8:39am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Godfullsam:Oga GRV would still have won if not that people were forced not to vote that day. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by Makunahatata: 8:44am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Omobude244:leave story.. SS ppl said u should face your lane,they don't want u ... But u ppl are shameless, 😂 no self-esteem |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by CJStarz: 8:46am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I concur because I can relate. MARRY FROM YOUR STATE. ONE THAT SPEAKS YOUR DIALECT EmirofAfonjaz: 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Dont Want Me To Marry Her Because She Is Yoruba by 7lives: 8:47am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Your marriage, your business. Anyway why will a sensible Yoruba girl marry a kobokobo?. So that you can send her to Italy while you spend the money she sent, with your family and side chicks?. so happy your parents rejected her. That Yoruba girl, no matter how stupid she is, may she never be unfortunate. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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