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Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK - Crime (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by adesegun121(m): 2:13pm On Nov 07, 2023
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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Emperormartin(m): 2:13pm On Nov 07, 2023
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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by AImiron(m): 2:13pm On Nov 07, 2023
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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 07, 2023
Overly protected kid,Omo get inside,dem no allow her is on her own and at the right time...That guy needs to be locked up forever..
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Nobody: 2:22pm On Nov 07, 2023
Girl when never even get sense naim u dey give director of company? A weak minded individual and u gave her such a heavy responsibility. The way and manner they bring up their kids makes them end up weak psychologically and emotionally. In the end she still lose undecided
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by sirgalahad26(m): 2:23pm On Nov 07, 2023
This is what happens when you do not allow your children to develop SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE.

How do you expect to learn about life if all you know is from your parents? No friends sharing their experiences and learning from it, I feel this incident would have been avoided if the girl is a lot more social.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 07, 2023
There is a very big difference between being smart & street smart.


This is the very defintion of extra ordinary naive...R.I.P to her
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Enskynelson(m): 2:25pm On Nov 07, 2023
OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste
Did you propose and she refused you because of your colour? U are such a jerk! sad
What a racist comment!
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Focusmind: 2:27pm On Nov 07, 2023
Our ladies and their so called taste for porch and woke people.

As a parents, be interested in the relationship your daughter or son keeps. Do not say that they grown up and they can take care of themselves. Most of them are still kids and do not understand what relationship is all about. If any of my child starts keeping relationship or starts having suitors or going after suitor, i must know that person to their family roots. It is too expensive to leave your children to the society after going through a lot to train them.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by wman(m): 2:27pm On Nov 07, 2023
This sucks. I wish the girl had been more open with her parents. The suicide thing might not have happened.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 07, 2023
OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste
Its not a must you comment!

Silence is golden!
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Eduadolero(f): 2:28pm On Nov 07, 2023
LilMissFavvy:
The guy is a strong wi*zard. He gave her an incurable STD and still manipulated her finances. I pity her father, God save us from having a fooli$h daughter.
I can never be that foolish. This was share foolishness from her
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by bablon20(m): 2:29pm On Nov 07, 2023
My advice for the man is that he should wait for a year or more after which he will revisit the guy with a brutal and gory revenge which he can never survive. Racism won't make him win d case. Those blokes are all racists!
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by TheGift: 2:29pm On Nov 07, 2023
Olamideey:
https://punchng.com/my-daughters-boyfriend-blackmailed-her-to-commit-suicide-in-uk-father/
Children, listen to your parents. No matter how much you think you know. E get why.
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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by xavuv: 2:30pm On Nov 07, 2023
Just sad
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 2:30pm On Nov 07, 2023
oluwaseyi0:
All this big men over protecting their daughter this is usually the end result

A so called young director been tossed up and down by a guy because she has no dating experience as a result of over protectiveness

You raised 'dumb' kid with zero street wisdom
She doesn't date men, she's called dumb.
She dates a string of men DJ Cuppy style, she's called a whôre.

Do you people ever know what you want?
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by obinna58(m): 2:31pm On Nov 07, 2023
Typically Nigerian girls greed killed her, thinking life is a Korean love movie
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by SIRTee15:
African girls, date and marry your type. Your dream about prince charming riding on a horse in shinning armour is different from reality.
These western G guys are generally not into black girls not to talk of native African girls. Their orientation and outlook about life is completely different.
Not everything is about handsome face, six packs, light skin and smelling nice.
Having a family, raising a home with lovely kids within a nuclear setting, building a future is not a priority for these guys. They don't see any big deal in dad, mum and kids living apart.
They were probably raise that way anyway and see it as no big deal.
They are street smart and they generally live life on a very fast lane. Too fast for most of our African ladies to cope with.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by yewit37486: 2:31pm On Nov 07, 2023
Olamideey:
How concerned are you about the documents with Ryan and why he has not been arrested?
Nobody knows the extent of what he copied. His phone has not been collected. My daughter was the Director of my company. Do we know what else he had taken from that phone aside from what he showed me? He has not been arrested or questioned. They have based everything on Bryan’s own statement. That is the only person they have listened to. And it was because the guy was ahead of us and that is what has been helping him to date. He has been walking freely since the ‘criming’ of the evidence. He also tried to use the information with him to obtain money from me. How can he use that information to get away when there is a law in the UK called computer misuse? They have not even extracted the last communication they both had. I need justice for my daughter. This kind of thing should not happen to any parent.
The police have not tried at all. Systemic racism is rampant in the UK. If this was one oyinbo girl now, it would have been a different story.

I feel sad for this man. Mere thinking of how his daughter jumped in front of a moving train is traumatic enough.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Wallade(m):
Olamideey:
https://punchng.com/my-daughters-boyfriend-blackmailed-her-to-commit-suicide-in-uk-father/
Young, smart and intelligent minds are often weak with respect to maturity, love and amorous relationships.

When your son or daughter is a genius or moved so fast with academics or moved too fast between several stages of life. You need to pay extra attention to such child because they often have weakness which clever peers, associates, friends or foes can exploit.

I am not advocating that you invade their privacy but I wish that the parents can do more to help them understand life. Street smartness and better understanding of life is beyond academic excellence.

You will rarely see product of average or poor family background, poverty or street want to die a suicidal death, if we must die then we die fighting and taking some or all the assailants down.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by akpumping7720(m): 2:36pm On Nov 07, 2023
Upon say she go school she no still wiise
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Olumaeme: 2:37pm On Nov 07, 2023
Maybe I don't understand but the story akund somehow.

I sincerely believe that there is more to this story or something fishy is beneath what the man is telling us.

He also told us how his wife was aware of some of the things but could not get how to kick the guy out or take the matter to the police.

The man himself, also did not state his moves, did his wife tell him about this stories before she died, if yes, why didn't he visit the UK to see things for himself? If it was after her death, why didn't the wife tell him?

Could it also be that, the daughter's friend who introduced the guy to her was up to something?

Was the daughter also using pills to pass her exams? If not why would she be scared of blackmail or why didn't they even encourage her to come home when they noticed all the issues?

Well, at the end of the day, men should learn how to be close to their children, and should not use their wives as intermediary.

If the man has been present in the girl's, the boyfriend will watch his step and will not misbehave. Also fathers have to be very brutal, he looks like he has left everything to God, maybe because he knows there was a shady deal, if not, why not do a one man match to the UK police to demand justice?

I am not in their shoe and cannot tell them how to mourn.

RIP to the dead.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by jmoore(m): 2:37pm On Nov 07, 2023
Stop fornication, dem no dey hear.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by diamond68: 2:39pm On Nov 07, 2023
SIRTee15:
African girls, date and marry your type. Your dream about prince charming riding on a horse in shinning armour is different from reality.
These western G guys are generally not into black girls not to talk of native African girls. Their orientation and outlook about life is completely different.
Not everything is about handsome face, six packs, light skin and smelling nice.
Having a family, raising a home with lovely kids within a nuclear setting, building a future is not a priority for them. They don't see any big deal in dad, mum and kids living apart.
They were probably raise that way anyway and see it as no big deal.
They are street smart and they generally live life on a very fast lane. Too fast for most of our African ladies to cope with.
the girl is not african. mum is white and she has never lived in africa
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by dettolgel: 2:40pm On Nov 07, 2023
Why this man they waste time use African technology turn the yeye boy into manure. Make him first craze after that you off am sharp sharp. Abi una Nigeria juju no dey work again?
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Advancedman(m): 2:43pm On Nov 07, 2023
virginchaser:
No test before sex at the start of relationship? She only looked for six pack and good looking guy forgotten that all that glitter is not gold.
The Father lied almost all through.
26, and uk breed, stays off men then boom coerced by a friend who introduced the guy then blah blah blah unprotected sex, STD, gift turning to loan without written agreement, mysteriously found out she was expecting money yet in all this the daughter never listened to the father, mother or anyone else with sane counsel from her so-called social circle.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by DaChosenOne: 2:44pm On Nov 07, 2023
OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste
I wondered If the guy was white? He is,
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Bedwetter: 2:44pm On Nov 07, 2023
I like guys like these that black mail TF outta whôres
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