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Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by baralatie(m): 3:28pm On Nov 07, 2023
virginchaser:
No test before sex at the start of relationship? She only looked for six pack and good looking guy forgotten that all that glitter is not gold.
No test
You better follow Jesus Christ of Nazareth because it is only him that sticks to that rule
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Kobicove(m): 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2023
Nicepoker:
quoting the entire story to write " even in UK". I fit knack you jazz now grin
Oya knack am make we see grin
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by EmmyDJourno: 3:33pm On Nov 07, 2023
Women and fish brain, God knows I would purge my daughters from all this telemundo mindset, mtchewww🤦🏾
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by VULCAN(m): 3:34pm On Nov 07, 2023
What a sad story.

A rich businessman without sons has nobody to continue the business legacy.

This is an extreme of what I have seen on numerous occasions - a successful businessman sends his daughter to the best of school but they get deceived by a silver tongue and lose staggering sums of the father's money to a so called boyfriend or husband.

If you are a rich bisinessman and you don't have a son you can train amd leave your business to- then once you get to a certain age, sell the business and give some assets to the daughter/s then enjoy the remaining money because male gold-diggers use radar to locate and sweet talk dumb rich girls.

Imagine how everything her father taught her fell on deaf ears ontop a stranger that was mistreating her.

Just like Eve fell to the voice of Satan disregarding all God had done for them.

And the yeye mother did not slap sense into her.

What a waste!



Olumaeme:
Maybe I don't understand but the story akund somehow.

I sincerely believe that there is more to this story or something fishy is beneath what the man is telling us.

He also told us how his wife was aware of some of the things but could not get how to kick the guy out or take the matter to the police.

The man himself, also did not state his moves, did his wife tell him about this stories before she died, if yes, why didn't he visit the UK to see things for himself? If it was after her death, why didn't the wife tell him?

Could it also be that, the daughter's friend who introduced the guy to her was up to something?

Was the daughter also using pills to pass her exams? If not why would she be scared of blackmail or why didn't they even encourage her to come home when they noticed all the issues?

Well, at the end of the day, men should learn how to be close to their children, and should not use their wives as intermediary.

If the man has been present in the girl's, the boyfriend will watch his step and will not misbehave. Also fathers have to be very brutal, he looks like he has left everything to God, maybe because he knows there was a shady deal, if not, why not do a one man match to the UK police to demand justice?

I am not in their shoe and cannot tell them how to mourn.

RIP to the dead.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Dancebreaker:
Too bad.

Lots of Diaspora kids can be very vulnerable.

Some don't believe their parents understand the intricacies of Western society. Many won't take parents' advice.

But most of their parents have navigated the system for decades, yet these kids see African parents as Africans who don't understand the West.

Their resilience and street smartness are usually low.

Also, being black and stigmatised has eroded the self-esteem of many black kids so much that they feel overjoyed to be hit on by a white guy. Even a dodgy and low grade oyingbo. Pretty black/mixed race girls like this. I cringed a lot seeing it at uni.

But as a black man, if you speak, you will be seen as jealous, so I
said nothing.
Sad.

RIP.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by 2mch(m): 3:38pm On Nov 07, 2023
The man need to pay for publication of this news in the UK with proof. Get all her phone records, email records, private diary and bank records. Go after that guy with everything. Get some troublesome activists on your side. Let peace be far from him. Giving interview to Punch will not help you.

This is what happens when you sleep around and have kids everywhere. You will not be able to closely be in their life and develop a relationship where they can confide in you. It’s not a thing of pride to have children all over the place.

A lot of Oyinbo use stimulant to pass their exam. It’s not a crime or a big deal. The Herpes could be managed, it’s not a big deal. All these things were big deals to her because she had no one else to confide in and was ashamed.

Abroad is a place of sharks and vipers! A lot of them are entirely mentally unstable and do not have the reality we have. Those saying they are relocating to give their child a better life. Here you are. These are the kind of influences in the better life and for them it’s nothing. She’s black and they can manipulate to steal from her and get away with it. Yes, racism on a level that will destroy your kids. A lot of very mad people.

He also need to include the friend that introduced her to this guy. Let that fool prove that they were not in on the plot.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:39pm On Nov 07, 2023
baralatie:
narcissistic behaviour in relationships is not gender based though.
There are women who are also narcissistic.
But this is coerssion
You are right. But for certain posters to read it and then claim something is sketchy or that she is guilty of being bullied to death—they don't believe it because it's a lady that is dead and their bro must be innocent.

...Emphasis on narcissistic men.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:41pm On Nov 07, 2023
Roboto11:
No be her type and colour be that?

Stop projecting your inferiority on others.
Her type, but definitely not her color. Her father is a Nigerian man.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:42pm On Nov 07, 2023
GOOD FOR U.


AFTER U FINISHED bleeping WHITE WOMEN, U STILL HAD MIND TO ALLOW YOUR DAUGHTER GO AND FVUK RACIST WHITE MAN.


U THINK FVUKING CURE THE HATE.


JUST LOOK AT YORUBA AND IGBO, BOTH TRIBE HATE EACH OTHER WITH PASSION BUT WE GET SOME MARRIAGES.


MORAL OF THE STORY, SEND HER BACK HOME AND EVEN USE YOUR HAND FIND MAN FOR HER.

BLACK MAN, SHE NEED SOME MELANNY BACK.


RIP
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Nicepoker(m): 3:42pm On Nov 07, 2023
Kobicove:
Oya knack am make we see grin
He is still valuable to humanity I will pardon him.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:45pm On Nov 07, 2023
VULCAN:
What a sad story.

A rich businessman without sons has nobody to continue the business legacy.

This is an extreme of what I have seen on numerous occasions - a successful businessman sends his daughter to the best of school but they get deceived by a silver tongue and lose staggering sums of the father's money to a so called boyfriend or husband.

If you are a rich bisinessman and you don't have a son you can train amd leave your business to- then once you get to a certain age, sell the business and give some assets to the daughter/s then enjoy the remaining money because male gold-diggers use radar to locate and sweet talk dumb rich girls.

Imagine how everything her father taught her fell on deaf ears ontop a stranger that was mistreating her.

Just like Eve fell to the voice of Satan disregarding all God had done for them.

And the yeye mother did not slap sense into her.

What a waste!
She's a dumb rich girl because she dated a struggling broke boy with a bright future? Someone she could grow with? After all, don't men only remember and celebrate women they struggled with? How is what she did wrong? Isn't it the submissive fantasy loved here?

Or has the suffering anthem of Nigerian boys suddenly changed, because it's a thing that changes to suit the narrative and this time she needs to be blamed for the coercive control of the boy?
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:46pm On Nov 07, 2023
legitnow1:
GOOD FOR U.


AFTER U FINISHED bleeping WHITE WOMEN, U STILL HAD MIND TO ALLOW YOUR DAUGHTER GO AND FVUK RACIST WHITE MAN.


U THINK FVUKING CURE THE HATE.


JUST LOOK AT YORUBA AND IGBO, BOTH TRIBE HATE EACH OTHER WITH PASSION BUT WE GET SOME MARRIAGES.


MORAL OF THE STORY, SEND HER BACK HOME AND EVEN USE YOUR HAND FIND MAN FOR HER.

BLACK MAN, SHE NEED SOME MELANNY BACK.


RIP
But she's dead.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:48pm On Nov 07, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
But she's dead.
HE SHOULD HAVE DONE THAT BEFORE.


I SEE SO MANY OF THEM TURNING WHITE ABROAD, IT IS FUNNY, THE SELF HATRED BLACKS HAVE FOR THEIRSELF.


THEY ARE LIETERALLY TURNING WHITE, ONE BY ONE.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Jamie1000: 3:49pm On Nov 07, 2023
The ppl you meet daily, will either subtract from you or add to your life.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Besuccesful(m): 3:49pm On Nov 07, 2023
No matter what let your child be street wise. Take them out and tell them different method of ways wahala fit enter person life.

As little as my son is I do tell him all the different scam method someone might want to use to harm him.

Obviously she was used because she didn’t have that experience. Someone can have master degree and still be a mumu. I doubt if a streetwise naija babe will fall or kill herself for this type of scam.

No doubt the guy came into her life to scam and ruin her. Rip to her.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by JagabanB: 3:49pm On Nov 07, 2023
princepeter566:
Efcc should come and learn from UK police how they protect their own.
If it's in Nigeria now Efcc will park both innocent and suspected young boys and snap them then tagged them "suspected fraudsters"
Ñoñseñse talk as usual, ur comment made me read the write up and it reeks of police incompetence, if it was done in Nigeria, u will come to blame the police.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:53pm On Nov 07, 2023
THE MOST USELESS RACE IS BLACK.

THESE DAYS NA BLACK AND CHINESE DEY REIN.

EVEN IN AFRICA, THE CHINESE MAN IS SPREADING HIS SEED.

Y DO SO MANY OF YO NOT SEE THE BEAUTY IN BEING BLACK?
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 3:53pm On Nov 07, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
Her type, but definitely not her color. Her father is a Nigerian man.
Guy looks mixed-race to me.

Might be the photograph.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by popesco123: 3:54pm On Nov 07, 2023
Although I heard it is a killer disease like HIV.

quote author=BRATISLAVA post=126841886]

It's a virus.

This is how some South African snake oil salesmen claim they've had the cure to HIV since 1997.[/quote]
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:54pm On Nov 07, 2023
FROM RACE MIXING, MANY OF YOU END UP IMPORTING DISEASES THAT ONLY THE WHITE AND CHINESE CARRY.


DO U BLACK MONKEYS EVER THINK OF THAT OR IS IT JUST ABOUT SKIN BLEACHING FOR YOU IDIOTS.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:55pm On Nov 07, 2023
Roboto11:
Guy looks mixed-race to me.

Might be the photograph.
He doesn't to me. But he also doesn't look attractive.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Oluwaseunomo: 3:55pm On Nov 07, 2023
Bedwetter:
I like guys like these that black mail TF outta whôres
Jiggy
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by BRATISLAVA: 3:56pm On Nov 07, 2023
popesco123:
Although I heard it is a killer disease like HIV.

quote author=BRATISLAVA post=126841886]

It's a virus.

This is how some South African snake oil salesmen claim they've had the cure to HIV since 1997.
It causes cancer. But all viruses are dangerous. And none have a cure.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:57pm On Nov 07, 2023
THE PROBLEM WITH AFRICA IS NOT YOUR SKIN.


IT IS TRIBALISM AND WICKEDNESS.


IF NIGERIA WANTED TO DEVELOP, THEY CAN DO SO IN UNDER 10 YEARS.


EVERYTHING IS HERE, WE DONT EVEN HAVE TO IMPORT ANYTHING.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 3:58pm On Nov 07, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
He doesn't to me. But he also doesn't look attractive.
Beauty is in the eye of the "beer holder".
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 3:59pm On Nov 07, 2023
YES, JUST 10 YEARS AND NIGERIA WILL BE DEVELOPED.


IT WONT TAKE MORE THAN 10 YEARS.


OFCOURSE THEIR ARE OTHER ASPECTS THAT WIL BE DONE GRADUALLY OVER MANY YEARS AND DECADES LIKE EVERYWHERE ELSE.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 4:00pm On Nov 07, 2023
legitnow1:
FROM RACE MIXING, MANY OF YOU END UP IMPORTING DISEASES THAT ONLY THE WHITE AND CHINESE CARRY.


DO U BLACK MONKEYS EVER THINK OF THAT OR IS IT JUST ABOUT SKIN BLEACHING FOR YOU IDIOTS.
Sharap.

Dumbass.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 4:01pm On Nov 07, 2023
Roboto11:
Sharap.

Dumbass.
OYA TALK TRUE, I PROVOKE U FOR THE LAST THREAD, U TRACK ME HERE TO RELEASE THE FRUSTRATION? huh
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 4:01pm On Nov 07, 2023
Dancebreaker:
Too bad.

Lots of Diaspora kids can be very vulnerable.

Some don't believe their parents understand the intricacies of Western society. Many won't take parents' advice.

But most of their parents have navigated the system for decades, yet these kids see African parents as Africans who don't understand the West.

Their resilience and street smartness is usually low.

Also. being black and stigmatised has eroded the self-esteem of many black kids that they feel overjoyed to be hit on by a white guy. Even a dodgy and low grade oyingbo. I cringed a lot seeing it at uni.

But as a black man, if you speak, you will be seen as jealous, so a said nothing.
Sad.

RIP.
This I agree with.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 4:02pm On Nov 07, 2023
legitnow1:
OYA TALK TRUE, I PROVOKE U FOR THE LAST THREAD, U TRACK ME HERE TO RELEASE THE FRUSTRATION? huh
Not sure I know you.
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by legitnow1: 4:02pm On Nov 07, 2023
Roboto11:
Not sure I know you.
NO BE ROBOTO11 AGAIN? undecided
Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Roboto11: 4:03pm On Nov 07, 2023
legitnow1:
NO BE ROBOTO11 AGAIN? undecided
...and?
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