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Roboto11:
...and?

U STIL DEY VEX?

legitnow1:
U STIL DEY VEX?

I don't know you.

Roboto11:
I don't know you.

TUPAC, MAD THAT I FvUKED YOUR WIFE


WEST SIDE, BAD BOY KILLERS....

Do you have to marry your type before you can be happy?

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

BRATISLAVA:
It causes cancer. But all viruses are dangerous. And none have a cure.

It’s a skin infection. It does not cause cancer. It just cause blisters it does not itch. A lot of people carrying it don’t even know they had it because they never had a breakout so they are just going around spreading it. HPV causes cancer not Herpes.

If you collect and give MouthAction, chances are that you have herpes. Herpes on the genitals is same as the cold sore you have on your mouth and 99% of people have herpes. Especially the one on the mouth. Most people even get it as babies from their parents kiss. This is why I let no one kiss my children on their mouth. Or they get in big trouble.

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

Abeg u are a racist. Just gerrrout

2mch:
The man need to pay for publication of this news in the UK with proof. Get all her phone records, email records, private diary and bank records. Go after that guy with everything. Get some troublesome activists on your side. Let peace be far from him. Giving interview to Punch will not help you.

This is what happens when you sleep around and have kids everywhere. You will not be able to closely be in their life and develop a relationship where they can confide in you. It’s not a thing of pride to have children all over the place.

A lot of Oyinbo use stimulant to pass their exam. It’s not a crime or a big deal. The Herpes could be managed, it’s not a big deal. All these things were big deals to her because she had no one else to confide in and was ashamed.

Abroad is a place of sharks and vipers! A lot of them are entirely mentally unstable and do not have the reality we have. Those saying they are relocating to give their child a better life. Here you are. These are the kind of influences in the better life and for them it’s nothing. She’s black and they can manipulate to steal from her and get away with it. Yes, racism on a level that will destroy your kids. A lot of very mad people.

He also need to include the friend that introduced her to this guy. Let that fool prove that they were not in on the plot.

I hope they hear.

BRATISLAVA:
He doesn't to me. But he also doesn't look attractive.

I'm surprised a few people here see the guy as good looking, absolutely nothing attractive about him.

2mch:
The man need to pay for publication of this news in the UK with proof. Get all her phone records, email records, private diary and bank records. Go after that guy with everything. Get some troublesome activists on your side. Let peace be far from him. Giving interview to Punch will not help you.

This is what happens when you sleep around and have kids everywhere. You will not be able to closely be in their life and develop a relationship where they can confide in you. It’s not a thing of pride to have children all over the place.

A lot of Oyinbo use stimulant to pass their exam. It’s not a crime or a big deal. The Herpes could be managed, it’s not a big deal. All these things were big deals to her because she had no one else to confide in and was ashamed.

Abroad is a place of sharks and vipers! A lot of them are entirely mentally unstable and do not have the reality we have. Those saying they are relocating to give their child a better life. Here you are. These are the kind of influences in the better life and for them it’s nothing. She’s black and they can manipulate to steal from her and get away with it. Yes, racism on a level that will destroy your kids. A lot of very mad people.

He also need to include the friend that introduced her to this guy. Let that fool prove that they were not in on the plot.

. Awesome.. Here's a man with a working brain. You the only one who included the friend who did the introduction.. They all in the plot together.. Pity she didn't kill the Italian fraudster before killing herself..

UK yahoo boy

The story seems to have a lot of loopholes!

This story is not complete because I don't see what incriminating information Bryan had that could have pushed this young girl to kill herself

This story is shady and incomplete abeg. The man needs to tell us what really happened

Train your child to be tough and save yourself the pains.

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

So who are you going to blame when Nigerian women who are married men commit suicide , and there lot's of them by the way

dkidd:
Girl when never even get sense naim u dey give director of company? A weak minded individual and u gave her such a heavy responsibility. The way and manner they bring up their kids makes them end up weak psychologically and emotionally. In the end she still lose

The sage has spoken, I see.
You have concluded only weak-minded individuals succumb to poor mental health - before checking out completely in some cases?
And that high incident rates of suicide has a direct correlation to how kids are raised bah?

Since you have this one pretty much figured out, please explain the figures presented below.

Available evidence suggests that Nigeria’s suicide rate of 17.3 per 100,000 stands above the global 10.5 per 100,000 and that of Africa’s 12.0 per 100,000 estimates.[25] This suicide figure may even be higher than the estimated if there were to be proper reporting, documentation, and statistics.[24] Suicide in Nigeria is often not well reported and documented because of fear of stigmatization, cultural and religious sentiments, and the criminalization of suicide by the Nigerian constitution.[24,26] This study therefore assessed the prevalence of WHO helpful/harmful suicide reporting cues in suicide stories reported by Nigerian newspapers from January 1 to December 31, 2021.

Ref: Onoja, I. B., Ojih, S. E. U., Onoja, P. O., Onoja, N. M., Bebenimibo, P., & Akor, S. E. (2023). Nigerian newspapers coverage of suicide: Assessment of adherence to WHO suicide reporting guidelines. Indian Journal of Psychiatry, 65(5), 579–585. https://doi.org/10.4103/indianjpsychiatry.indianjpsychiatry_537_22

Hmm... Where have I read this story before🤔.

We all have certain expectations and romanticized notions of what we think love is, thanks to the way love has been portrayed in society through the movies we watch, articles we read and social media posts were scrolling through almost every day. When we see jealousy playing out on screen, we believe it’s a sign of intense love because the two people in the movie are afraid of losing their loved one to another. The popular Twilight movies and literature leads us to believe that true love and relationships are about obsession. That love is an all-consuming feeling. That when two people are in love, nothing else matters and no boundaries exist. This romanticized notion blinds to the fact that this is not what reality is at all, and that kind of love only exists in movies and between the pages of books because they make for a good storyline. In real life, that kind of behavior are indicators of manipulation. Being controlling isn’t about love, it is manipulation.
Being obsessed isn’t being passionate, it’s manipulative.
On some level, we know we should be able to recognize the signs of an abusive partner in a relationship. We know that we should, but it’s easier said than done. When we love, we tend to blind ourselves to our partner’s fault. We make excuses for the behavior that should be setting off alarm bells in our head because we’re trying to avoid facing the truth. We don’t want to have our hearts broken that way and we try to convince ourselves that they’re not really like that at all.

Clues That Indicate You Might Be Manipulated:

Have you ever had that feeling that something wasn’t quite right with one of the relationships you have? Even with a casual encounter with someone you just met. Something just didn’t quite feel right and you left feeling even more stressed, frustrated or confused than when you first started. That could be a sign you were in the presence of a manipulator. The reason why manipulators resort to the tactics that they do is that they’re often incapable of simply asking for what they need, or being able to express their needs in a healthy, direct manner. Since they lack these skills, the resort to this emotionally unhealthy strategy in an attempt to try and control the other people around them and force them to bend to their will.
Manipulation comes in several forms, and it can range anywhere from abusive to simply just being around a bossy personality. Some manipulative behaviors are much easier to spot than others, and if you suspect you could be a victim of a psychological bully, these are the tell-tale clues you want to keep an eye out for:
(1)You’re Always Forced to Oblige - If you don’t go along with what they want, they make you feel guilty about it. Even though you had every right to say no. If you constantly feel pressured or forced into doing something you don’t want to do, you’re being manipulated. If you’re afraid of saying no, you’re being manipulated. If you feel bullied into going along with someone else’s demands, you’re being manipulated. Manipulators are experts at playing the victim card, and they will play it for all its worth to make you feel as guilty as possible like you’re doing something wrong because you chose to say no to them.
(2) You ?uestion Your Own Judgement - Every time you’re around a certain someone, you always find yourself questioning your own judgment. Suddenly, something you were so sure of a minute ago fills you with doubt, making you second guess your own decisions after having a conversation with a manipulator.
Present an idea or opinion to them and they’ll somehow find a way to twist and turn it around, making you unsure and uncomfortable. Spend enough time with them and they’ll make you feel unworthy like you’re a complete failure and nothing you could do will ever be the right choice.
(3) No Favor Comes for Free - If they do you a favor, you can bet there will always be strings attached to that request. Nothing a manipulator does is ever a “genuine favor”, there will always be an ulterior motive for why they are helping you out. If accepting help or a favor from someone makes you feel uncomfortable because you know you’re going to owe them for it later, you’re dealing with a manipulator. When the manipulator does you a favor, there’s an expectation to be repaid. They’ll be the first ones to tell you that you owe me this, and you’ll feel obliged to go out of your way to help because you feel guilty about saying no. Say no to them and they’ll make you feel like the most ungrateful person in the world.
(4) You’re Always Getting Blamed - Even when you haven’t done anything wrong, you’re somehow the one to blame. That one manipulative friend who always has an excuse for their bad behavior or poor judgment, the one that always makes you the scapegoat, that’s not a friend. That’s a manipulator. It’s your fault, you made me think I should do it, I wouldn’t have done it if you agreed it was a bad idea. The hallmark of a manipulative “friend” is when somehow, you’re always in the mix and the one made to feel like you’re in the wrong.
(5) They’re Not Really Listening - Another sign you could be manipulated is when they don’t really listen when you’re speaking. They may look at you while you’re talking, but at the first chance they get, they twist the conversation back around unto something that involves them. Everything is always about them. In fact, the only time they seem to be engaged in when they’re gathering the information that they can later use against you when the time is right. Beware of what you say when you’re around them, and never trust them with confidential or important information.
(6) They Come to You When They Need Something - Do you have that one friend who only ever seems to get in touch with you when they conveniently need a favor? That friend could be manipulating you, especially if you’re the one who is constantly doing those favors but when you need help the most, they’re never around. Or they’ve always got some excuse up their sleeve as to why they can’t help you. When they need something from you however, they behave like you’re their best friend in the whole world.

'HOW TO ANALYZE PEOPLE' by Daniel Spade.

A must have in one shelf/book collection 👆

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

Ahan. As per black men don't kill their wives and girlfriends or blackmail or push them to suicide niyen o?

DaddyJapan:
The sage has spoken, I see.
You have concluded only weak-minded individuals succumb to poor mental health - before checking out completely in some cases?
And that high incident rates of suicide has a direct correlation to how kids are raised bah?

Since you have this one pretty much figured out, please explain the figures presented below.



Ref: Onoja, I. B., Ojih, S. E. U., Onoja, P. O., Onoja, N. M., Bebenimibo, P., & Akor, S. E. (2023). Nigerian newspapers coverage of suicide: Assessment of adherence to WHO suicide reporting guidelines. Indian Journal of Psychiatry, 65(5), 579–585. https://doi.org/10.4103/indianjpsychiatry.indianjpsychiatry_537_22

Go back 20 years and check the stats. U think parenting now is same as what we had back then? It still boils down to parenting first and societal norms. Most kids today are weak minded. Lack the ability to cope or remain calm under pressure/ stress hence u see little kids doing all sorts out of peer pressure, to fit in with the crowd, to be accepted by society, seeking validation of people they do not know from Adam etc the list goes on. This wokeness and modern lifestyle has done and is doing more harm than good. It affects the family or rather targets the family as an institution and undermines it's importance hence u see women challenge men at the slightest instead of working with them to forge ahead they want to be the men. Children being rebellious and out of control and yet still the parents still handling them with kids gloves like they are scared to be firm. I can go on and on. It's the life we have now and it's worse off in the western world 🌎

She no get sense perhaps u born her der. . .is a pity

Incredibly bad. I guess what happened in ITALY was more than meet the eyes. SHE LOST OUT TO HER NAEIVITY IN RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE. SHE DATED THE WRONG GUY

DaChosenOne:
She's biracial. Her Nigerian father was/is a white woman chaser. I thought she looked mixed. Nigerian men have a lot of out of wedlock mixed race kids in the West. They abandon them and the non-Black mothers.

I'm not surprised he isn't with his daughter's mother. You're right. So many swirly kids in the UK with absent black fathers.

White women and black male interracial unions last the least out of all interracial relationships.

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

They said that we Naija men are scum. She don go meet people wey no be scum

It doesn't cause cancer.

quote author=BRATISLAVA post=126842535]

It causes cancer. But all viruses are dangerous. And none have a cure.[/quote]

LilMissFavvy:
The guy is a strong wi*zard. He gave her an incurable STD and still manipulated her finances. I pity her father, God save us from having a fooli$h daughter.

No be una dey insult we Naija men. She don go met people wey get class.

Advancedman:
The Father lied almost all through.
26, and uk breed, stays off men then boom coerced by a friend who introduced the guy then blah blah blah unprotected sex, STD, gift turning to loan without written agreement, mysteriously found out she was expecting money yet in all this the daughter never listened to the father, mother or anyone else with sane counsel from her so-called social circle.

I thought I was the only one who found the story sketchy. Telling a girl over 25 not to have a boyfriend after Tertiary school ? She felt stuck cos of herpes, 100,000 pounds going into her account.. the boy blackmailing her cos she read with stimulants. The story isn't clear.
I don't even understand what she apologize for sef .Even the man's business isn't clear at all

Children raised with good things, in good environments and having it all at a young age, be careful. So many people are angry at you. So many children of others who didn't have the same opportunity as you, coming to ruin you to scorn your parents and you. These people usually strike hardest during the University period and ahead.

It's sad, it seems that they hated her luck and drained her.

dkidd:
Go back 20 years and check the stats. U think parenting now is same as what we had back then? It still boils down to parenting first and societal norms. Most kids today are weak minded. Lack the ability to cope or remain calm under pressure/ stress hence u see little kids doing all sorts out of peer pressure, to fit in with the crowd, to be accepted by society, seeking validation of people they do not know from Adam etc the list goes on. This wokeness and modern lifestyle has done and is doing more harm than good. It affects the family or rather targets the family as an institution and undermines it's importance hence u see women challenge men at the slightest instead of working with them to forge ahead they want to be the men. Children being rebellious and out of control and yet still the parents still handling them with kids gloves like they are scared to be firm. I can go on and on. It's the life we have now and it's worse off in the western world 🌎

Why did you not respond to stats I provided earlier instead of reaching for more straw man arguments?
Now I am asked to go and get some stats too

For your information, suicide rates are actually failing because of greater awareness and increased knowledge of mental health.

Relative to the size of the population, the suicide rate in England and Wales has declined by 28% since 1981. Most of this fall occurred before 2000. In 2021 the rate was higher than it had been in 2005-2012 and 2016-2017.

Source: https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings

Over the past three decades, suicide rates have slowly and steadily dropped; between 2000 and 2016, the global mortality rate from suicide dropped by about 33 percent. So while it may feel like the world is crumbling into a war-torn, authoritarian shit show ravaged by rising temperatures and politicians who stand idly by, we can take solace in knowing that we’ve become better at preventing suicides.

Source: https://www.wired.co.uk/article/suicide-prevention-falling-rates

even the boy face look like HERPES

VULCAN:
Fascinating how in an attempt to formulate a very weak argument, you mentioned two extremes.

Who told you that the extremes are the only places to be positioned?

I hope you are not a lawyer cos I don't see you winning any serious case!

The problem with people like you is that you approach every opinion here as an argument to be "won".

Yes, I mentioned the two extremes because women are always castigated on NL about having many boyfriends before settling down. When they want to bash women they'll go for that one extreme and run with it, disregarding the majority who are neither sluts nor virgins.

This particular young lady was not exposed to relationships and dating. You'd think that's what they like because I can swear 3 days do not pass by on this forum without young men declaring that they must only wife a virgin -- or a girl with low body count.

Now here is a girl who ticks that box but what do I see? The same group of men castigating the dead girl for being "unexposed". Isn't she the rare type to whom praises are due?

And no I'm not a lawyer. I'd fail woefully in that profession as you have noted.