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Farfalla:
The problem with people like you is that you approach every opinion here as an argument to be "won".

Yes, I mentioned the two extremes because women are always castigated on NL about having many boyfriends before settling down. When they want to bash women they'll go for that one extreme and run with it, disregarding the majority who are neither sluts nor virgins.

This particular young lady was not exposed to relationships and dating. You'd think that's what they like because I can swear 3 days do not pass by on this forum without young men declaring that they must only wife a virgin -- or a girl with low body count.

Now here is a girl who ticks that box but what do I see? The same group of men castigating the dead girl for being "unexposed". Isn't she the rare type to whom praises are due?

And no I'm not a lawyer. I'd fail woefully in that profession as you have noted.

Olamideey:
https://punchng.com/my-daughters-boyfriend-blackmailed-her-to-commit-suicide-in-uk-father/

Advancedman:
The Father lied almost all through.
26, and uk breed, stays off men then boom coerced by a friend who introduced the guy then blah blah blah unprotected sex, STD, gift turning to loan without written agreement, mysteriously found out she was expecting money yet in all this the daughter never listened to the father, mother or anyone else with sane counsel from her so-called social circle.

Farfalla:
The problem with people like you is that you approach every opinion here as an argument to be "won".

Yes, I mentioned the two extremes because women are always castigated on NL about having many boyfriends before settling down. When they want to bash women they'll go for that one extreme and run with it, disregarding the majority who are neither sluts nor virgins.

This particular young lady was not exposed to relationships and dating. You'd think that's what they like because I can swear 3 days do not pass by on this forum without young men declaring that they must only wife a virgin -- or a girl with low body count.

Now here is a girl who ticks that box but what do I see? The same group of men castigating the dead girl for being "unexposed". Isn't she the rare type to whom praises are due?

And no I'm not a lawyer. I'd fail woefully in that profession as you have noted.

folake4u:
@ the bolded. Wahala!

BRATISLAVA:
Looking at that guy, he looks unattractive, self obsessed and dangerous. Typical billboard advert of men to avoid. He's likely a misogynist. And because he thinks he's such a stud he probably has more than herpes. The usual reckless narcissistic tendencies.

You'd really wonder what some women see in certain men. What they think is worth dying for. And his ears are too big. A huge red flag.

SIRTee15:
African girls, date and marry your type. Your dream about prince charming riding on a horse in shinning armour is different from reality.
These western G guys are generally not into black girls not to talk of native African girls. Their orientation and outlook about life is completely different.
Not everything is about handsome face, six packs, light skin and smelling nice.
Having a family, raising a home with lovely kids within a nuclear setting, building a future is not a priority for these guys. They don't see any big deal in dad, mum and kids living apart.
They were probably raise that way anyway and see it as no big deal.
They are street smart and they generally live life on a very fast lane. Too fast for most of our African ladies to cope with.

yewit37486:
The police have not tried at all. Systemic racism is rampant in the UK. If this was one oyinbo girl now, it would have been a different story.

I feel sad for this man. Mere thinking of how his daughter jumped in front of a moving train is traumatic enough.

UnemployedGradu:
no rip to waste, she already enjoyed her life on earth. 1997 to 2023..that's 26 years of being with a rich parent,born at U.k, went to the best university of Manchester city, kept getting jobs in a roll but she doesn't have sense unlike me that was born in this Nigeria, went to uniben, came out with second class but haven't gotten good job..I have been struggling for 5 years now with no good job. Actually the reason I wanted to study medicine or pharmacy last decade but jamb kept selling my result so I eventually went for a lower course of biochemistry. Oloyode of jamb just that it shall never be well with you, your daughters would end up in love scams like this and I would read their R.I.P here one day. You changed my destiny because of compromising of my three jamb results I wrote consecutively! God would judge you.

LilMissFavvy:
He looks dangerous. Sad that she had the wisdom to get degrees and certificates, yet lacked the wisdom to chose the right man.

diamond68:
i know the family. the guy has relocated back to nigeria about 20 years ago. the girl grew up with her white mum

2mch:
The man need to pay for publication of this news in the UK with proof. Get all her phone records, email records, private diary and bank records. Go after that guy with everything. Get some troublesome activists on your side. Let peace be far from him. Giving interview to Punch will not help you.

This is what happens when you sleep around and have kids everywhere. You will not be able to closely be in their life and develop a relationship where they can confide in you. It’s not a thing of pride to have children all over the place.

These are the kind of influences in the better life and for them it’s nothing. She’s black and they can manipulate to steal from her and get away with it. Yes, racism on a level that will destroy your kids. A lot of very mad people.

Elxandre:
The guy is not white.

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

VIicard:
Its void.No proof

Farfalla:
You know I thought of you while typing that last sentence.

Law is not my thing, although I did some International Humanitarian Law and Introduction to Human Rights units that were forced down our throats as compulsory courses in our department.

Magnoliaa:
Dating a rich girl as a broke guy is like top 3 of fantasies — now here's a lady that fits perfectly into that mold and one idiot is shaming her for being naive and falling prey to a gold-digging boy.

The lots* of those creatures disgust me.

folake4u:
I can only imagine.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1. Hmmm, that's interesting. I thought it's only Nigerian universities that requires their students to do compulsory Law courses.

2. Did you like the course though?

I NEVER liked International Humanitarian Law and Introduction to Human Rights courses. They were elective courses in my school and I ran away from them. Fuçking BORINGGGGGGG and LOOOOONG.

3. Did you finish learning about the Human Rights Conventions though?

yewit37486:
My point was if the girl was a white girl, regardless of whatever race the guy was, the police would have acted differently.
Secondly, from his name and other pictures, the guy definitely is white.
https://www.nairaland.com/7895838/tragedy-strikes-family-father-seeks

BRATISLAVA:
And his ears are too big. A huge red flag.

Elxandre:
You're right. My bad.

Farfalla:
1. Every faculty has those compulsory courses. Ask those Engineering students forced to study Communication Skills I and II?

2. I sort of took an interest in Refugee Law, but the other topics were the kind I would just study to pass.

3. Does one ever finish learning the Human Rights Conventions (along with all those gazillion articles and ratified treaties) without getting to that semi-werey point I'd observe with many of our professors?

Lukepeter:
Which conclusion is wash.

Wallade:
? I didn't quite follow.

Lukepeter:
You concluded that poor and black people don't commit suicide.

Wallade:
Young, smart and intelligent minds are often weak with respect to maturity, love and amorous relationships.

When your son or daughter is a genius or moved so fast with academics or moved too fast between several stages of life. You need to pay extra attention to such child because they often have weakness which clever peers, associates, friends or foes can exploit.

I am not advocating that you invade their privacy but I wish that the parents can do more to help them understand life. Street smartness and better understanding of life is beyond academic excellence.

You will rarely see product of average or poor family background, poverty or street want to die a suicidal death, if we must die then we die fighting and taking some or all the assailants down .

Wallade:
You misunderstood me. Where did I mention that black people don't commit suicide ?

[b] Maybe you should check the record of suicide in Nigeria today: it is rising. [/b]The several reasons are another topic of discussion.

Maybe you should simply make your own point rather than try to critique mine with statements you assumed that I made.

Lukepeter:
From rarely to it is rising.

Why don't you want your comment to be critique and looked into? Should everything you said be just accepted? It is a forum for a reason, we debate and learn everyday.

Farfalla: