₦airaland Forum

youngreezy:
omor your mother dey suffer ooo

I'll call Asari Dokubo and his people to sell you as a slave as they did to your useless fathers.

When she die she go get sense

OBIDIENTNAIJA:
Women are too emotional to handle things. That's why it will be difficult to handover to a woman president who is not rigid. Otherwise, she go use our country do trade by barter to please one idiot. Their emotions shoots up easily.

Men don’t really care about children. That’s why Naija youth are suffering and the politicians don’t give a damn. Women are emotional and will have more empathy and want a better environment for their children. So far as men continue to rule, the suffering continues. Make women majority senators, majority house of reps etc, and so far as their wicked husbands or male influence do not interfere, watch things change for the better.

Evilthoughts:
I'll call Asari Dokubo and his people to sell my mother as a slave as they did to my useless father.

why do you hate your mom so much? let's talk about it

JAPAHTML:
some day you will lose ur life cos of tribalism

Asari Dokubos father used to sell Igbos as slaves, didyou know that?

That woman looks like she would love nothing more than to be killed by her husband. The type that has relations while nursing a split lip and black eye and feels like she's a good woman and still doesn't know why she's enjoying the battery

wiseoneking:
Adult pamper?

Stop abusing your women

TOPCRUISE:
I feel because they pay a lot for their bride price made them to be so abusive.

Igbos are naturally aggressive but you're saying the truth here .

Onyema190:
You're mad

Respect your women. Stop beating and treating them like slaves

Zooposki:
Men don’t really care about children. That’s why Naija youth are suffering and the politicians don’t give a damn. Women are emotional and will have more empathy and want a better environment for their children. So far as men continue to rule, the suffering continues. Make women majority senators, majority house of reps etc, and so far as their wicked husbands or male influence do not interfere, watch things change for the better.

When kids talk you just know.

I think it is called Stockholm syndrome

Because they are better together...If the muppet wasn't breathing she would have understood she needed help from this man but God knows some of these women can't add up 2+2.

pendragonbladgo:
This thing are in two ways, it can break a home and it can also ammend a home.

My mum was in this mess in early 90s until she got a federal job. That is when my Dad stop and respect her.
I am sure this woman is jobless.

Parents take care of your daughters, give them education and skills, African women suffer domestic violence because they take men as only hope of survival.

And come to think of it, 5children? Are they goats or foul?
The kids are too much, am sure the man is frustrated and the woman is only job is to give sex!

Its not in all Situation, the late Gospel musician Osinachi was the bread winner of the house and the husband was abusing her.

SoNature:
■ My comment is a call to action. Fathers have greater roles to play in the lives of their children, especially the boys. Everything isn't about making money. Raise good boys who can put their homes together when they become men. If we don't, we will continue to have a situation where women are battered on a daily basis and that discourages many others from getting married.
■ This lady is one of those who spoke up. There are tens of thousands of others who have abusive marriages, but keep praying that their marriage will work. Bros, no Igbo woman goes into marriage in the hopes that it will fail one day and she will go back to her father's home...even your parents won't support you. It's for better for worse...

But are mothers not equally responsible as far as the raising of those good boys you speak of? How does a battered wife who chooses to remain in a violent marriage go about raising a good boy at the end of the day when the example of a man she saddles her son with is a man who comes back and uses his mother for a punching bag?

2. You say marriage is "for better ...for worse", but was Osinachi not a clear enough example of what this worse could amount to?

Evilthoughts:
Igbo snitch is pained

Better look for dysfunctional society to relocate to

Addme:
Some things don't just add up. Something related happened in my area last Sunday where a man was caught sleeping with his wife's 13 years old younger sister. Guys gather beat the man and some of us stopped them from beating him and we were in the process of taking him to the Police Stations before the wife knelt down and started begging that we shouldn't do it. We initially refused but this woman was begging and crying profusely for her husband forgiveness.
I just left them to their issues, I no wan carry someone's issue for head.

Hmm. I figure she was thinking of all the pressure that will come from the family especially the in-laws and the stress she would face from the police eventually once they sink their claw into the man.

BafanaBafana:
And you are calling others fish brain with this your kind of thinking?

Biafrans are frustrated slaves in Nigeria and will remain so for eternity.

pendragonbladgo:
This thing are in two ways, it can break a home and it can also ammend a home.

My mum was in this mess in early 90s until she got a federal job. That is when my Dad stop and respect her.
I am sure this woman is jobless.

Parents take care of your daughters, give them education and skills, African women suffer domestic violence because they take men as only hope of survival.

And come to think of it, 5children? Are they goats or foul?
The kids are too much, am sure the man is frustrated and the woman is only job is to give sex!

It happens to even women who own supermarkets.

a relative of mine is such.she got Married as a virgin after gaslighting her siblings for marrying noble men, she ended up marrying a scammer and flaboyant pretender who claimed to be a police CSO but got caught by the army for posing as a police officer. My relative bailed him out of the police station after he was beaten to pulp by the army and police.

He has no job right now, lives lavishly on his wife’s properties, locks her outside the house that she PAYS for, plays the victim card to make people think my relative is disrespecting him because he’s broke, beats her to pulp, even the children’s school fees, he is not responsible for their payment.

No one should ever be too sure of the future.

Anything can happen!

She don dey miss her husband anaconda

jaeyking:
same reason I ask myself how do women get pregnant for abusive partners

It is well oo

Good question!
Somebody has been facing abuse for 11 years, and was impregnated 5 confirmed times. The woman is obviously enjoying the abuse.

Begging for his release is a confirmation that she's enjoying the abuse 😡

ClearFlair:
Better look for dysfunctional society to relocate to

Like in one of your 5 useless states

Respect the late gospel crooner ,Osinachi, and stop mentioning her name anyhow. Gender violence knows not tribe, race,religion or creed. News abound of Yoruba women who have been so abused or killed by their Yoruba husbands,same goes to other tribes. Stop giving ethnic coloration to every post here all because you hate a certain tribe.
D woman in d post made her decision probably because she was coerced into doing that. It's a man's world here in this part of the world. Only a few women can stand and say no to that kind of pressure.
Let's just pray she doesn't pay dearly for such a terrible decision.

Pepperdemisback:
If na another tribe marry the woman, you no go hear word as dem go dry boast of themselves.
Go and show any Ignorant woman in inter tribal marriage that experiences such, you won't see. Na dem dem like that gospel artist.