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Your sister confronting little kids is wrong, but she should have removed her kids from the school after the tooth incident, I know I would.

JASONjnr:
One thing I noticed about parents like your sister is that, they always go about feeling right about their actions and refused to be corrected or pay attention to their wrong actions.


Your child was beaten and you confronted the children. Instead of going to the school administrators to report and ask the children to also give their own storyline.

Also, it seems she's the only one giving the school a problem.


Let her change her kids from the school to another school then. If the problem persists, then she's the problem.

Also, whatever you say about your sister's husband shows how irresponsible you are. That man is the head 9f his family and you should allow him run his family the way he wants. You should go and get married and have your own kids.

You are a fool and you for talking trash,
Did you even finish what she wrote or you lack comprehension, her sister did the right thing to confront those kids, i hate bullies.

I understand the stress of looking for anothr school for your nephew BUT its better to transfer him to another school before he ends up either badly injured or worse dead.

They don't seem to like him or his parents or maybe something else.


Change his before its too late.


The mum should have reported to The School Authorities before warning off the boys.

The boy should not run errands for the bully's mum and she ought to know what and how her son is.

I understand the stress of looking for anothr school for your nephew BUT its better to transfer him to another school before he ends up either badly injured or worse dead.

They don't seem to like him or his parents or maybe something else.


Change his school before its too late.


The mum should have reported to The School Authorities before warning off the boys.

The boy should not run errands for the bully's mum and she ought to know what and how her son is.

Remember that there are hundreds of kids of which yours is just one of them being attended to in d school.
So, ur child issue should be handled just like dt of other kids, for he is not extraordinary in any way.
You have no right to go into d school compound to warn pupils dt offended your kid or beat them .Remember those kids u are warning also have parents who can come after u and give u sleepless night if u touch them.
The kids are officially in d custody of teachers.In that case, report d matter either to d teacher or d school head and all involved will be summoned in ur presence and heard from.
Ur kid might even be d one that bullied them first before they retaliated.U can't tell because u were not there when it happened.
But in all, it's a minor case for d school authority.
Finally, avoid anything dt will make u have verbal exchange with d teacher of ur kid.Instead, often give her motivational gifts if she is doing well and u will make better way for ur kid.
Humans naturally tend to overlook a kid they so much love and take care of, when insulted
for dt reason esp when they have good purpose.
If u all these fail, take ur kid to another school.
U will gain nothing from taking kids school matter to police or court.U will end up wasting money and time in a case dt will linger for years for nothing while d police milk ur hard earned money in d name of getting u justice dt is no where.

Jewessgratitud3:
LoL .. abeg ooo. 😂😂😂😂... We no want vawulence. She will meet her match. I've told my sister to let it slide just that she feels they're being unfair to her children.

until they kill the children abi? I hope you are aware that things like this have killed students because parents refused to act.

I dont want to know the offence of the boy
Why do they gange up to beat a school their school mate ,two fighting is different,two person fighting a person abaa,and kids for that matter something is wrong.
You better withdraw your kid From the school before his killed

Your sister should not have addressed those kids without the presence of a teacher or their parents.

She should have taken her kids out when the teachers began to employ strategies to punish them. The amount of effort for an adult to sit down and think of ways to hurt a child in that manner is evil.

Your sister should be reporting that school to the relevant state miniatry of education.

Jewessgratitud3:
The owner of children refused to remove his children from there for reasons best known to him.

Drop location make men go say hi to the school authorities. Men mount.

is your nephew schooling there for free? why is your sister involve in all this wahala? her fees keep the school going and if she does not like the school approach to her son, then let her change her son to another school!

Jewessgratitud3:
I made this post for sensible people who can reason and give constructive advice. Not the distorted incoherent slurs you gibberished up there.

Then the problem isn't the school. The trouble is in your blood.


You and your sister are one hell of a trouble.

His response may sound somehow harsh and crude but he raised some meaningful points pertaining to how ur sister acted in the school and also you've given the impression that the husband is useless when it seems like u just don't like him. Every other thing he said is not warranted tho

Jewessgratitud3:
I made this post for sensible people who can reason and give constructive advice. Not the distorted incoherent slurs you gibberished up there.

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

from your previous post and this one, I was looking for at least just one thing...the name of the school. your story looks like fiction. not even a mention of where the school is located. so what exactly do you want anyone to do with your story?

JASONjnr:
Then the problem isn't the school. The trouble is in your blood.


You and your sister are one hell of a trouble.

I'm glad they've told you how stupid you are. No need stressing it again.

I would advice the parent to seek the services of a lawyer and get to know the charges that can be brought up against the school. She will most likely bring the school to their knees at the end of the day. Clearly, the school has breached their duty of care, furthering it with intimidation.

If pursuing this course of action will drain their purse they should withdraw the child from the school. A living child is better than a dead one.

If they are teaming up to maltreat a student because of previous issue with one of them now they are using it against the child and that was gone, those teachers are not qualified to be teachery, as for the girl that took the school after the dead of the owner is just a child and acting like a girl she is ....

You can't ban me from going to school my child is schooling ....

I will advise the child should be removed from the school to another school, I don't blame your sis on her actiongs or anything cos who will stand and watch his child being maltreated ...

Don't allow the child resume back to that school January next year

Are the children there on scholarship or a form of charity? Even if, she should withdraw them from the school! I guess the dad is sleeping with the teacher/proprietress or he's incapacitated because of his finances but that's not an excuse for him to allow his children bullied! I won't really blame the mother because I don't joke with my children either...I really understand how she's feeling. However, she had liver to leave her children in that school after the so-called first incident. She can involve the police, NGOs in charge of children etc

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

Yeah your sister did the wrong thing by talking to those boys without a teacher present or reporting it to the school first. That said that is a terrible school and I would take my children ASAP out of such a school.

The kid is been affected..he is loosing his self esteem and this can affect him ..

That kid needs to change school ASAP.

Blackdisciple:
If they are teaming up to maltreat a student because of previous issue with one of them now they are using it against the child and that was gone, those teachers are not qualified to be teachery, as for the girl that took the school after the dead of the owner is just a child and acting like a girl she is ....

You can't ban me from going to school my child is schooling ....



I will advise the child should be removed from the school to another school, I don't blame your sis on her actiongs or anything cos who will stand and watch his child being maltreated ...

Don't allow the child resume back to that school January next year

Ok. Thanks.

They were trying to stop bullying by the richest man's kids

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

Is that the only school available or they are giving the child scholarship plus feeding and writing materials with transportation and paid excursion and/or holiday trips?


Enlighten us abeg.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ The owner of children refused to remove his children from there for reasons best known to him.

You sister goofed when she didn't report the case to the police instead of confronting the boys on school premises too. She for go report the boys to the school and then report them to police if school no do anything.

Start by posting the name of the school abeg make we at least know which exact school you dey mean so.

I wonder what part of "Change the boy's school" his parents don't understand. Since when did parents pay schools to beat their children or get them bullied by their mates? Or is the school free? Even if it is free, is it proper to leave a child in that toxic environment not minding the impact it's having on him psychologically, emotionally, and mentally?

Kobojunkie:
You sister goofed when she didn't report the case to the police instead of confronting the boys on school premises too. She for go report the boys to the school and then report them to police if school no do anything.

Start by posting the name of the school abeg make we at least know which exact school you dey mean so.

Kor see.. .. it was in the afternoon when school had already closed. So as her children came out to meet her, the son now told her what they did to him and being that she knows the boy my sister just felt it's something she can handle as a mother by calling him and the two older boys to stop bullying her son. That was all o.

I don't want to be the one to mention the school. No be me go koba them. I just want to know if the matter is worth litigating. My sister will do all that.

Bankowner:
I wonder what part of "Change the boy's school" his parents don't understand. Since when did parents pay schools to beat their children or get them bullied by their mates? Or is the school free? Even if it is free, is it proper to leave a child in that toxic environment not minding the impact it's having on him psychologically, emotionally, and mentally?

Me too I'm of the opinion that they should change the childrens school but some men here will tell me to go and marry and mind my business that I have no right to tell the father what to do in his family that's why I no wan talk go that side.

I no dey like all these stories....
If the school no let your pikin go.... Change the school especially since you know that complaining won't make much difference...
Na people dey make this life hard... This life no really hard at all

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

Just change schools at this point. And your sister should let her children know that no child or anyone should walk over them. They should stand up for themselves and express themselves.

It will also helps to minimize bullying and child abuse around them

Your sister is not sensible at all , is that the only school around there, or she is waiting for her son to get kill before she realize how serious bullying is.

Mind your business and let your sister and her husband raise their children the best way they see fit! You're going to end up causing serious problems in the family with the way you meddle in their affairs and your apparent disdain for the husband!

You pose more danger to that kid than the school itself and if care is not taken that man would explode one day with your oversabi family disrespecting him......Keep it 100% and mind your business, you no fit love the boy pass the papa!

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

Get a lawyer to write to the commissioner of education and copy the police on this, private schools don’t want to have a bad name. The letter can also be leaked online to gain traction, no be person go tell the school to beg.