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How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 1:45pm On Mar 30
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by ignis: 1:47pm On Mar 30
congratulations

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by house10s2: 1:57pm On Mar 30
undecided

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by nzeobi(m): 1:58pm On Mar 30
W

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Ahmed0336(m): 2:02pm On Mar 30
No comment lipsrsealed

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 30
Case closed. Busy....

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 2:07pm On Mar 30
What about your son?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by DryMouth: 2:11pm On Mar 30
Gbam!
I like pple like you.
No need to seek any stupid opinion from anybody.
You are truly a man

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by siofra(f): 2:21pm On Mar 30
Who is this one

I'll not be surprised if it's one stupid redpiller fantasising his future life.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by SHINJA: 2:23pm On Mar 30
You do well
You are a real man..

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by blinking001(m): 2:46pm On Mar 30
You did the right thing sir. Your mental health remains your most cherished priority, Don't allow any woman to mess with it. Again i commend you for the actions you took. Stupid women should be held accountable for their actions. Please ensure you take custody of your child. Don't allow that lunatic to raise your son. Thanks.

We move...

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by blinking001(m): 2:48pm On Mar 30
DryMouth:
Gbam!
I like pple like you.
No need to seek any stupid opinion from anybody.
You are truly a man
He did the right thing. If all most men behaved this way I'm sure the level of stupidity and entitlement displayed by Nigerian women will drastically decrease.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mcslize: 3:07pm On Mar 30
Na man you be. I hate stupid behaviours. I don't know what wives gain in making life miserable for men they call their husbands.

Is it a taboo for women to be of good behaviours to their husbands in this era?

Once again na man you be. We are not joking here. Men eyes dey red now.

Marriage are hell these days. To avoid high BP, I don't blame you for the action you took. Bravo!

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by TheWolfen(m): 3:09pm On Mar 30
Lol
Congrats!
You didn't give room for women manipulations. When she ask that you come give her the divorce paper cheesy..
That is a trap a lot of men falls for. cheesy


But I think you should forgive her if she comes begging with a promise that she will improve on herself.

She didn't cheat on you.
It is only when a woman cheat that i advice men not to haven't anything to do with her anymore

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by tayo60(f): 3:21pm On Mar 30
This is super story.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by SNEFF: 3:25pm On Mar 30
well i thought your name is proudpolygamist, anyways what do i know ...

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Toktee(m): 3:32pm On Mar 30
grin liabilities called women

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by luwiizy(m): 3:34pm On Mar 30
siofra:
Who is this one

I'll not be surprised if it's one stupid redpiller fantasising his future life.

See tears...

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by judatech: 3:44pm On Mar 30
What's the title of this film? I for like watch am o!.which channel? Na series?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 6:49pm On Mar 30
Dontmissheaven:
Repent now of your sinful evil ways to avoid spending your eternity in hell fire after you die. Jesus Christ love and warns you to repent and convert now to Christianity to avoid hell fire. Only Jesus Christ can save you by his death on the cross and his blood which washes away your sins, any other ways ( Islam, paganism, Hinduism, atheism, etc) can not save you. Be wise while you still have the chance accept Jesus Christ now and save your soul from hell. Be wiser than Satan and follow the one true God. This is the eternal truth from the spiritual realm.

Will you take this nonesense preaching out of my thread?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nyamuriflathead: 8:27pm On Mar 30
This is how a man behaves. Decisive!!!
Not those weak men that would kom to nairaland asking for solutions from women

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nonexisting: 8:32pm On Mar 30
Nyamuriflathead:
This is how a man behaves. Decisive!!!
Not those weak men that would kom to nairaland asking for solutions from women
Restrict this your account to politics section where you fight tribal wars. You can't use useless account to make a useful comment, the username negates every sense you are trying to make.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by charlesdinho7: 8:55pm On Mar 30
you are a real man. all these 21st century ladies think they can open their gutter of a mouth and say rubbish to their husbands. women are supposed to worship their husbands as their mini god. this is africa. a lady must respect her husband wholeheartedly...

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:01pm On Mar 30
ignis:
congratulations

Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:06pm On Mar 30
SNEFF:
well i thought your name is proudpolygamist, anyways what do i know ...

Yes and I will still Mary more women.. My religion allows me to marry up to 4

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by arthurwillia(m): 9:11pm On Mar 30
Fake story

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by uncleck: 9:12pm On Mar 30
I wonder why marriage was introduced in the first place. It just doesn't make sense

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mystiquefia: 9:17pm On Mar 30
arthurwillia:
Fake story

Just because you're a weak man, doesn't mean others are weak

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mystiquefia: 9:18pm On Mar 30
Proudpolygamist:


Yes and I will still Mary more women.. My religion allows me to marry up to 4

Oga slow down, dem no dey pursue u. Fear God biko
Lmao

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