₦airaland Forum

iamtardey:
Does it make sense to you?

udede:
I need a lady that want to go into contract marriage with me for some years. The aim is to have children but if along the line we realized that we are compatible enough to spend the rest of our lives together in love, then so be it.

I also need advice on this from people who are into it.

udede:
I need a lady that want to go into contract marriage with me for some years. The aim is to have children but if along the line we realized that we are compatible enough to spend the rest of our lives together in love, then so be it. I also need advice on this from people who are into it.

Mindlog:
When the contract marriage ends, who gets primary custody of the children?

Since the aim is to have children, go for surrogacy and you do not need any form of marriage for that.

Vision101:
Contract marriage in Nigeria? See selfishness... you will marry her for fixed number of years. She'll bear the pains of child bearing and do wifey things for you. You alone will take the children. At the expiration of the contract she will pack her things and leave. No child, no husband, no home. You would have sandpapered everything in her whatever

You will then have another contract marriage. This time no child bearing. Only wifey things.

Na only you get sense. Even though some of you underrate women, they are not as stupid as this. Have some respect for them.

udede:
I need a lady that want to go into contract marriage with me for some years. The aim is to have children but if along the line we realized that we are compatible enough to spend the rest of our lives together in love, then so be it.

I also need advice on this from people who are into it.

udede:
I need a lady that want to go into contract marriage with me for some years. The aim is to have children but if along the line we realized that we are compatible enough to spend the rest of our lives together in love, then so be it.

I also need advice on this from people who are into it.

Nice2023:

U wey still dey borrow money for MTN want a contract marriage...ur head needs to be well connected before opening ur mouth.

Contract marriage finish u there.

Kobojunkie:
You can start by outlining the potential benefits to be gained by any woman who enters this union with your person and also include information on what the lady is to expect in the case that you both decide it is best to part ways after maybe a couple of years.

Vision101:
Contract marriage in Nigeria? See selfishness... you will marry her for fixed number of years. She'll bear the pains of child bearing and do wifey things for you. You alone will take the children. At the expiration of the contract she will pack her things and leave. No child, no husband, no home. You would have sandpapered everything in her whatever

You will then have another contract marriage. This time no child bearing. Only wifey things.

Na only you get sense. Even though some of you underrate women, they are not as stupid as this. Have some respect for them.

udede:
all these should be tabled here on nairaland abi

Skyview01:
Op, this is an interesting proposition. What is in it for the lady. What does she get out of this arrangement.

Kobojunkie:
no be you create thread?

udede:
na the topic i create, a lawyer will draft the contract and it will not appear on nairaland

udede:
like it finished you and your st*pid family. Nkakwu

Nice2023:

Poor soul talking about marriage.

Don't go and rebuild your damage life. Be looking for whom u will destroy her life.

Poor man.

udede:
empty vessel. Wretched homeless nonentity

Nice2023:
Sorry,I don too yab u.

But sincerely,go and build ur life so that life can be good for u ok.


Marriage isn't for weak men like u.

udede:
I taya for dead people pretending to be bandying words with the living . You no fot yab me empty vessel.

Nice2023:
U are still borrowing money to survive.

I don't mean that u can't be rich tomorrow but I am saying,that my yeye life needs to be rebuilt before i use frustration take kill myself in marriage.
Even my Mama is useless

Contract marriage castrated my father's penis there.

Nice2023:
Sorry,I don too yab u. Like my mama dey yab my usless papa

But sincerely, i will go and build my life so that life can be good for me ok.


Marriage isn't for weak men like me.

udede:
I think you should go back to psychology class (if you were ever there) and read what some great mind said about my post

Vision101:
Contract marriage in Nigeria? See selfishness... you will marry her for fixed number of years. She'll bear the pains of child bearing and do wifey things for you. You alone will take the children. At the expiration of the contract she will pack her things and leave. No child, no husband, no home. You would have sandpapered everything in her whatever

You will then have another contract marriage. This time no child bearing. Only wifey things.

Na only you get sense. Even though some of you underrate women, they are not as stupid as this. Have some respect for them.