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Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Nazgul: 12:54pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Report her to the appropriate authorities. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Nemesis0147(m): 12:58pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
bigdawg7:lol |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Berankis: 12:59pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kcstyle40:If you are in Lagos report het to LASEPA. I believe they deal with these issues.... Noise pollution and other forms... Report her don't let her kill you with smoke. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by superCleanworks(m): 1:00pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
SIXTEENTH: What is this one saying? What if there was an asthma patient in the house? have you ever heard of SECOND HAND SMOKING + Lung Cancer ? So I should bring a BLOCK INDUSTRY MACHINE to the back of your window and you will understand because it is my means of survival? Nigerians and sentiments 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Antoeni(m): 1:00pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Palm Oil Nko? |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Blackdisciple(m): 1:01pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
For sure she has been doing that business before you came to that area, and the smoke disturbs nogjust you but also other tenants and surrounding yet they kept mute... She will not stop just because of you bro I will advise put yourself together and move out of that house because you can't keep on closing your windows in the heat because of one mama put is cooking.... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by VIKTO83(m): 1:02pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Don't confront her at all. If u have some money u can start by buying for her a gas cylinder let her fill d gas (that's if its me sha). Next u ho and petition d environmental protection agency and the human right too. Follow her like a civilised person. When u petition do not include ur name or identity. U better use a group name. U will be surprised to know u are not d only one suffering this within that place. But like u mentioned...yoruba people dey fear well well. Dem no ho ever confront her. |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Talk to her first, If she's adamant escalate the matter to the authorities. Whatever you do, don't engage her in verbal exchange. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by judedwriter(m): 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Simply go to her and say, "madam, please your cooking with firewood is bringing too much smoke in my room. Please can you adjust your cooking to gas?" Reason with her, she's isn't a monster, she won't eat you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by kaludestiny10(m): 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You are spot on. Your advice is top notch. SIXTEENTH: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by integrity16(m): 1:04pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Oga, go to LASEPA office and report. They will handle this issue for you. Google their office address. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by shedy03(m): 1:06pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I hate problems and I avoid conflicts in every way ... But I have been suffering this for long now I advise you look for another house away and move. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Stevosty: 1:06pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You want mama put to still buy gas in Tinubu's economy, if you can't close your windows, relocate. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Enemyofpeace: 1:08pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Complain to your landlord or move out of the house. No be every problem una go dey carry come meet the elders on nairaland. Make una try to dey use una brain too |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Evolutionism: 1:09pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kcstyle40: Wahala everywhere. Kai and this thing can pain ehn. Me that loves Fresh Air so much. I even prefer Fresh Air to AC. But Nigeria Air too dey polluted. If you Report the woman and they prosecute her. Your adversities in life don start be that. Except the woman is among the tiny fraction 10% of Human Beings who remain in that country. An average black being doesn't care about his/her fellow being. Know this and have peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by JoshTim: 1:11pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Simply tell the agent or landlord of the house, complain severally....they will be the one to take i up with the woman 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Lexusgs430: 1:12pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kcstyle40: If you stay in Lagos...... Report this pollution to the appropriate authorities........ |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by nedekid: 1:13pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Dont approach the woman as there is nothing you say that will make her adjust her cooking arrangement. Codedly send a petition to lasepa ie Lagos state environmental protection agency. I assure you they will speedily look into the matter. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Ogunleti01: 1:13pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Discuss am with your caretaker or landlord first wait for the outcome. don't confront her yourself 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Dumfrank(m): 1:13pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kcstyle40: LASEPA. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Ogilinsaka: 1:14pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kcstyle40: Contact LASEPA they will swing into action immediately 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Adewale1603(m): 1:14pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You dey try o. You're reducing your life span small small. Pollution of any kind is bad for the health 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by suzzyboss(m): 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Buy her a gas and a burner ... She'd ask why ..then you'd state your reason in very polite way .. even if she doesn't collect the gas .. She'd change her cooking location for your gesture... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Dumfrank(m): 1:18pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
It's either you report her to LASEPA...OR, You invest in The new RESPILON® adjustable window screen, transforms an ordinary window screen into a filter that blocks smog, emissions, allergens, dust and pollen from entering an open window. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by dododawa1: 1:19pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You no get LANDLORD LANDLADY CARETAKER Use your no 6. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Fryx: 1:21pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Why do people reason like this? When have we so degraded as a race that we don’t even believe in simple communication? There is a way you talk to someone, even if she is the devil, she will reason with you. She is a human being like you. We should honestly learn the act of communicating. We are all humans and have the same building block. Even if our experience differ. |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by SIXTEENTH(m): 1:22pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
superCleanworks: Sometimes if truly you needed a comfort in your zone then the best advice is to get yourself a home I mean a house built by you but remember you might get a neighbor who's means of livelihood might be a nuisances to your health and hazard but what can you do? No lives is perfect so I appreciate the little comfort you got. Remembered the unfortunately one's at the IDP camp! |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by rajiedreez: 1:22pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You'll need to approach and speak with her in a civil manner, Also inform your landlord or caretaker about it. If nothing is done about it go to the local government office around your area and ask for environmental sanitation office ( they wear white and khaki brown uniform) make a an official report and also try to have evidence of steps you've taken for her to stop it in the past. Make sure the report is official. Within 2 weeks it'll be sorted out |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by okerekingsley90: 1:23pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
LoveJesus87: OP This is the vest advice you can take. If it is not your house start planning to move . on the other hand,if it is your house approach her with civility otherwise apply violence 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by Papayaayasager(m): 1:23pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Don't seat in your house and conclude that if confronted she might not listen Since the smoke is disturbing you, go to her tell her your mind make sure it's not her rush hours or early morning because Yoruba poeple have this thing with Laro kutukutu sh*t Make sure you talk to her in a mannerful way for her to see reasons with you that the smoke is really disturbing you Option two, try been her customer first whilst you are at it let her know you are her neighbor In that way you've established That mutual grounds to let the cat out of the bag. |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by NuhuAjang71(m): 1:24pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
The best thing to do is to change the position of your window or you quit the house for your health and peaceful mind. |
Re: How Do I Handle This ? by SIXTEENTH(m): 1:24pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
kaludestiny10: Cheers 🍹🥂 🍷 bro, sometimes lives give us something to learned on how to adapt. Live and let's live! 1 Like |
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