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4KNGOATS:
I beg una for help me ask the mumu wetin I'm want make men they use before. Rubbish preacher preaching gibberish

A bio, same thing in my mind. Does he think nah derogatory words like "I hate you" we go dey use seduce them! I tire for im matter of.

Sonnobax15:

Same way bannies use--"Send me transport so that I will come and visit you" to extort money from innocent guys

It's a vice versa something...

And they wount still come you will call tire next thing is

Number switch off

Wetin man go do

What about ladies that use I love you to deceive their guy inorder to get money and materialistic things from the guy 🙄

Old trick thats "no longer workable, even with genuine love, girls would ask you,...na love we want shop?"

How many girls even open legs base on love for guys nowadays?

My bros, its "money for hand, back for ground" in 21st century ooo.

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

No be same phrase dem take dey obtain MONEY man?

Why is it that any writeup/reasoning that is based on bible or holy spirit hardly make sense?

How about a girl I was nacking for the fun of it with no string attached and she was on top of her voice, shouting I LOVE YOU, YOU'RE SO SWEET, OH, I LOVE YOU, BABY only for her to receive a call from her fiance who kept reassuring her that he loves her.

You won't be surprised that as the guy kept saying I LOVE YOU she insisted that I should continue to pound her and increase the tempo of the vawulence while she herself kept whispering to my hearing that she loves me.

What a triangular love. Yet, it is my money that created the magical moment.

Love na joke of the century.

Or them trying to deceive us

The only "I love u" I offer dem girls na money...


Anything other than this is a total crap...

4KNGOATS:
I beg una for help me ask the mumu wetin I'm want make men they use before. Rubbish preacher preaching gibberish

You will never stumble and fall in life my brother
Dont listen to d idoit untill dis jezebel show him am sure he not even in a relationship yet

If a guy doesn't love a lady he won't have sexx with her na.

immortalcrown:
You made a good attempt. Keep it up. I wish you more wisdom so you can improve in your knowledge and your teachings.

But your teaching here is biased. I mean, it is one-sided. Women equally use the term love to deceive men. Apart from prostitutes and victims of rape, every woman that gives a man her body willingly do it as her own demonstration of love, and every man that goes to a woman for sex do it as his own demonstration of love for the woman. So, it is equal here.

The perversion of love is not by men alone. As a matter of fact, women do it more than men. The only reason men foolishly train girls in universities or establish the girls in business and the girls later dump the men is because the women assured the men love. How many women have invested their resources in the men that claim to love those women and the men ended up dumping the women? Answer this question.

So, if you want to talk about the perversion of love, do not focus only on men because the other gender is also guilty.

I liken such topic to the BATman v PO saga.....last last, the winner takes it all, whether he clearly and rightly won or not, the loser, lives to compete another time.
This is how it works....you may have won or lose but you are on either side.
The deception is thinking you are on both sides simultaneously.
This is the problem.
Today, can you see the trajectory of relationships....blaming women who are at the receiving end of the men......?
......coming from church and posting the ladies who could be wife's, lovers and mums.....scrolling to see if they may be picked up as prize.......

The writer is a MAD nincompoop.

Oloriburuku Oloshi somebody, my Niggas don fucck him Mama, impregnate his Fiancee and fucck him sisters and nieces mercilessly. So the idiot dey in severe pains

Hypocrites..
.
Everybody get agenda......

So you want us to use I HATE YOU Guys use money and I love you to let them off the pant

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Going by the head line, this is also mainly used by women.

Both genders are guilty

Natbrowny:
If men dont say it. Ladies won't open the door.

They like hearing it despite them knowing its a lie
If u show it without saying it, they won't connect

So MEN WHO SAY IT WITHOUT SHOWING IT GETS THE BATON..

This is true. You’ll have them easy when you say it. But I try to avoid saying it whenever I don’t mean it cos I don’t want deceive anyone emotionally.
Problem is they always want you to say what you want with them anytime you’re coming close to them, but they can’t bear it when you tell them the truth.

It's the simplest way to gba pátá.......🤣😜

4KNGOATS:
I beg una for help me ask the mumu wetin I'm want make men they use before. Rubbish preacher preaching gibberish

He want make them use I hate you

Nackzy:
Almost all men use this lines

And what do ladies use

Using "I love you” to Deceive guys for money

In one word no loose guard

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princemillla:
As much as I believe the writer is trying to make some sense, I will still criticize him to stay away from this topic. Because things has changed. The i love u thing cut across both gender now

Men using I love u to have sex

While ladies using I love u to extort men also.

What about the ones u r inviting to a date and u send her tfare only to block u etc?




Abeggy.

Over civilization cum scam has eaten deep into things we consider sacred in the past, no true love again.just stay guided n mind your business.

You nailed it 💯..lass lass, everybody go do wetin go pay am nii