By Sunday Akanni

It's always amazing (sadly so) seeing how guys usually trick different ladies into sexual activities. Many randy guys out there are confident that they can always lure any lady they want into their bed, as they have done it successfully countless times. In fact, there are randy guys whose sexual fantasies seem to revolve around young teenagers, decent-looking ladies, and Christian sisters. They hunt for ladies in this category, and won't mind waiting for months before eventually luring them into their bed.

Unfortunately, one way or the other, these guys seem to have certain formidable strategies and methods they employ, because they have successfully brought down so many ladies. They will use these ladies and dump them like trash. I've seen Christian sisters who were impregnated by such guys (mind you, many of these randy guys are not even presentable in society and are not up to any noble standard). Many of these guys are even unbelievers - and you will ask the Christian sisters who fell into their traps "How did you fall for someone like this?"

This is the sad reality though. One thing I know is that these randy guys have gained expertise in exploiting the tender hearts and emotional tendencies of women and their inherent cravings for attention, affection, love, and acceptance. The average lady, who is an emotional creature, wants attention, affection, love, and acceptance. These randy guys build their strategies around all of these and make you trust them. Once they have deceived you into believing they care and love you (unfortunately, they are only lusting after your body) and make you comfortable with them, they will begin drawing you into places where both of you can have private moments, particularly doing all it takes to invite you to his home.

Then, in such private settings, they will aim at doing all it takes to get the lady aroused. I did some research along these lines and I made some discoveries. Many guys intentionally use all manner of strategies just to plant the seed of sex in her mind - using erotic words, playing a romantic movie for her purposely that has a sex scene (or even outright pornography), gentle but purposeful bodily touches, etc.

In my research, I discovered something that solved some of my puzzles and curiosities. Now, this is it. I've always wondered how easy it is for a decent or godly lady to simply forget her identity and dignity in an instant and then yank off her clothes and allow a guy to play with her body sexually. Then, I learned that some guys go to lengths to give ladies stuff that manipulates their body system. These guys utilize different mind-altering stuff. For instance, some guys depend on serving ladies that visit them alcohol, particularly red wine, which then makes her loosen her guard. But of course, we know that a genuine decent or godly lady rarely takes alcohol (so this one can be easily employed only when the lady in question is also a randy girl).

Then I discovered there are times when these guys employ the usage of aphrodisiacs, which they slip into the drink of the lady without her knowing. These aphrodisiacs are very powerful when it comes to getting the lady vehemently aroused sexually. At that point, the lady seems under a spell and will forget all manner of decency or modesty, as there will be an intense (and many times uncontrollable urge for sex). Of course, these randy guys take advantage of such vulnerable situations to have sex with the lady.

Even if you are the type of lady that says "I can't take a drink I didn't open myself", I should tell you that many of these guys are smarter than you, and always know how to slip the stuff inside your drink without you suspecting it.

Hence, if you are a decent lady, you have no business visiting an average random guy in their home. One of the most potent ways to avoid falling into sexual sins is to avoid tempting circumstances and settings. If the guy is not a trusted family member or your God-fearing fiance (not a boyfriend), then avoid private moments in a closed place. This is for your own good.

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Very educational post.I would seek out the book by all means.Sunday Akanni's books are very dear to me.

Another sex topic!
Christianity can never stop free mixing and nudity!
This sex and dating war can't be won with the freedom mentality.

Where are the "my heart is pure gang"?