For those saying “almost all of us assslick in our daily life “ or that we all have to do some things don’t sit well with our self esteem/self pride ; omo na speak for urself things o.

A friend of mine once worked with a boss that was very disrespectful simply because he can be disrespectful and get away with it. The man will go disrespectful on my friend and other colleagues . He can go abusive simply because u wrote “Managing Director” instead of “Managing Director/CEO” as the undersigned in a letter he’s to sign as the boss . He would simply ask how u passed WAEC , threaten to write ur university to withdraw ur certificate and all those nonsense .

Until one day he went on abusive on my friend and that one tried to explain his way out of the issue he was raising ; he locked my friend’s shirt and was almost going to physically assault him before stopped at the die minute .

My friend left his office that day and made up his mind he was done with the nonsense . He said he got home and started thinking about his life ; a married man with wife and children at home being treated like a slave like that . Less than 2 months he got another job and resigned his appointments .

No be everybody go sacrifice their self pride for money o.

BlueRayDick:


Israel claimed he married her as a virgin who was a church girl. There’s a possibility that her eyes no tear until Israel carry her Trabaye and her friends follow am talk say she deserves “a better man “

While it may be possible that a new guy may be on the horizon , we can’t rule out the possibility that she has not even made up her mind on who the new guy will be . It might just be a case of what Yoruba will call “ ẹjẹ́ ká lé akátá lọ ná, kátó f'àbọ̀ fún adìyẹ" ( i.e she wants to dump him first before moving on to another man who might already be lurking in her DM on social media ).

Once Israel upgraded her to almost his level, its certain Hypergamy will set in. It's nature.

BlueRayDick:
For those saying “almost all of us assslick in our daily life “ or that we all have to do some things don’t sit well with our self esteem/self pride ; omo na speak for urself things o.

A friend of mine once worked with a boss that was very disrespectful simply because he can be disrespectful and get away with it. The man will go disrespectful on my friend and other colleagues . He can go abusive simply because u wrote “Managing Director” instead of “Managing Director/CEO” as the undersigned in a letter he’s to sign as the boss . He would simply ask how u passed WAEC , threaten to write ur university to withdraw ur certificate and all those nonsense .

Until one day he went on abusive on my friend and that one tried to explain his way out of the issue he was raising ; he locked my friend’s shirt and was almost going to physically assault him before stopped at the die minute .

My friend left his office that day and made up his mind he was done with the nonsense . He said he got home and started thinking about his life ; a married man with wife and children at home being treated like a slave like that . Less than 2 months he got another job and resigned his appointments .

No be everybody go sacrifice their self pride for money o.

Lmaoo ask some of your manager friends in banking the insult dey eat during MPR and yet they are still there😁

Ibime:


That woman is village people. She want kill the goose that laid the golden egg and drag him into poverty based on young foolish pride. She's just an immature kid. All these grown men that go looking for 21 year olds to marry, these are what come with the territory. If you are a grown man, go and find 25+ years babe that knows what life is about.

wahala plenty like this, we dey look for 21 years to marry to avoid evening newspapers 📰 🗞️ of 25+ Ladies..

Now 21 years eyes 👀 don tear, Dem now think 💬 say we wey marry them no dey dia level 🎚️ again..

Shey make wey leave 21 years girls come dey marry evening newspapers .abi how we go do am like this

My own is simple, as far as it's not illegal and he is using it to provide for his family in this case then sure.
It's fine to have self respect and uphold it.
But to say that nobody respects Israel Dmw, that in itself is a blanket statement and a lie.

Happy Sunday 😁

liveLongNprospa:


Lmaoo ask some of your manager friends in banking the insult dey eat during MPR and yet they are still there😁

False equivalence again .

MPR is a performance review meeting where u will either get praised for ur excellent performance or get chided for subpar performance .

If u work in an organization where they insult u for doing ur job then u should think of getting a job in a less toxic environment

Ibime:


That woman is village people. She want kill the goose that laid the golden egg and drag him into poverty based on young foolish pride. She's just an immature kid. All these grown men that go looking for 21 year olds to marry, these are what come with the territory. If you are a grown man, go and find 25+ years babe that knows what life is about.

The 25+ fit still dey ment.
Omo na to just hope and pray before picking partner🙏

BlueRayDick:


False equivalence again .

MPR is a performance review meeting where u will either get praised for ur excellent performance or get chided for subpar performance .

If u work in an organization where they insult u for doing ur job then u should think of getting a job in a less toxic environment

Bros we've all done performance reviews.
We've read the insults that have been dished out during mpr in the banking sector.
So it's not false equivalence.
Nor be ogas dey tell men whether they felt they were man enough to be called dad's by their kids because of performance at work.
Abi is it the various insults that has been said??
Surely you cannot say you've not seen the consistent stories of how toxic and degrading MPRs are.
It's a well documented topic on the Internet.

Amigoss:


In the same room with Tinubu,you no go "asslick" am ....

Olusegun dada roll for floor begging Tinubu to be APC youth president, though he didn't win but today he is in Abuja and Na person wey don call Tinubu thief and drug baron before oo

No, I won't. I no sabi do am.

iamoyindamola:

Shebi them talk say if you virgin person the person becomes attached
Especially the naive one but this one detach completely from Israel and her reason no hold water sef

I think there's more to the matter..

https://twitter.com/Hitee_/status/1505946184556363784?t=QvSpzg3XZHSyAm_rn5dPbA&s=19

Use that link and you'll see people confirm that it's a normal thing in the banking sector.

Which kind ass licking worst pass this one

BlueRayDick:


False equivalence again .

MPR is a performance review meeting where u will either get praised for ur excellent performance or get chided for subpar performance .

If u work in an organization where they insult u for doing ur job then u should think of getting a job in a less toxic environment

In the end everyone will decide his threshold. It will depend on multiple factors. The toxicity of the party concerned, the business/career opportunities, the current state of finances, your own emotional maturity, your industry value.

Sometimes it's just a waiting game. Who will outlast who.

I have a partner who is much more tolerant to bs and toxicity than I am - and it is via him a lot of the business comes in. Sometimes I tell him to engage the client because I simply cannot deal.


The higher you advance, the more toxicity you will have to deal with.

Odunharry:

Once Israel upgraded her to almost his level, its certain Hypergamy will set in. It's nature.

Truer word bro. That's it.

My six year old can do a better presentation than this!

An MPR classic

liveLongNprospa:


Bros we've all done performance reviews.
We've read the insults that have been dished out during mpr in the banking sector.
So it's not false equivalence.
Nor be ogas dey tell men whether they felt they were man enough to be called dad's by their kids because of performance at work.
Abi is it the various insults that has been said??
Surely you cannot say you've not seen the consistent stories of how toxic and degrading MPRs are.
It's a well documented topic on the Internet.

Prospa I know u to be an expert at false equivalence but I no get the energy to take dey shalaye this wet Sunday afternoon .

I clearly narrated a case of where someone had to do the best for his self esteem as against cowing to the bullying/abusive nature of his boss .

My point is not everybody will stay in toxic work environment simply cos it will guarantee their income . Wetin hard for there now ?

BlueRayDick:


Prospa I know u to be an expert at false equivalence but I no get the energy to take dey shalaye this wet Sunday afternoon .

I clearly narrated a case of where someone had to do the best for his self esteem as against cowing to the bullying/abusive nature of his boss .

My point is not everybody will stay in toxic work environment simply cos it will guarantee their income . Wetin hard for there now ?

Being an oga is funny. You can be completely insulated from the reality that you are an asshole. You see what happened with Sam altman? The way the staff said we go with him? That is how you know a non toxic boss.

One time We had a ceo ousted. The guy then started his own company. He then tried to poach us. 95% were like no thanks we will stay where we are. And these were people he had elevated. Some in his inner circle sef.

But the man had been running a crazy toxic environment and no one wanted to deal with that.

The toxicity in Nigerian banks no be there. Don't your remember it shall not be well with them access bank? And after all the brouhaha, the man hired forensic it guys to track down the person who shared the email originally. So he could deal with him/her personally.

Isreal wasn't even asslicking if you check it deeply.

The guy is just been excitedly and overtly appreciative of the man that turned his life around for just being his logistic manager.

The life changing experience he had with Dave brought out the child in him. He couldn't hide it. This is who I saw, not all this asslicking talks.

I stand with this guy, Cos I'm some one that believes in appreciating people who have added values in my life. There are people I can never go against or raise a voice against in my life like this. No matter what bad they do to me, I'll feel bad and walk out of the situation cos the soft spot is up and stuck...this is due to these persons impact in my life.

Give respect to whom it is due abeg.

BlueRayDick:


Prospa I know u to be an expert at false equivalence but I no get the energy to take dey shalaye this wet Sunday afternoon .

I clearly narrated a case of where someone had to do the best for his self esteem as against cowing to the bullying/abusive nature of his boss .

My point is not everybody will stay in toxic work environment simply cos it will guarantee their income . Wetin hard for there now ?

And I clearly said "almost everyone" and not "everyone" meaning that there are a few number of people who don't ass lick.
You decided to speak more on it and I'm helping you and yet I'm the one who is an expert?
Lol you must have been blind to my explanation.. Oh wait you actually weren't 😁

Realmrsean:
wahala plenty like this, we dey look for 21 years to marry to avoid evening newspapers 📰 🗞️ of 25+ Ladies..

Now 21 years eyes 👀 don tear, Dem now think 💬 say we wey marry them no dey dia level 🎚️ again..

Shey make wey leave 21 years girls come dey marry evening newspapers .abi how we go do am like this

LOL wahala dey. I think the majority of girls between the ages 18-24 just want to have fun and nothing is stopping them. The amount of attention from men alone especially at that age can make the average girl not think straight

Emaprince:
Truer word bro. That's it.

The message has always been don't upgrade any woman to your status/same level. With time she will start looking for those higher than the man.

Hypergamy is real man.

Odunharry:

The message has always been don't upgrade any woman to your status/same level. With time she will start looking for those higher than the man.

Hypergamy is real man.

Upgrade to the level of see finish

Amigoss:


Upgrade to the level of see finish

True. To some guys they are trying to be the best Husband or Bf but in cases, such decision will always come back to bite them.
A man should be step ahead of the Wife/Husband.

Realmrsean:
wahala plenty like this, we dey look for 21 years to marry to avoid evening newspapers 📰 🗞️ of 25+ Ladies..

Now 21 years eyes 👀 don tear, Dem now think 💬 say we wey marry them no dey dia level 🎚️ again..

Shey make wey leave 21 years girls come dey marry evening newspapers .abi how we go do am like this

From the age of 17 to 25, poverty does not resonate with you as everyone is in the same boat and you still have some umbilical chord to your parents. At this age is when people make stupid life decisions that affect their future wealth. From 25 to 30, reality will start to dawn on you, and you will not play with the bag like this 21 year old has done.

OasisX:
.....forgotten Island in Anambra West LG about to enjoy dividends of democracy. Soludo for 2nd term is unshakable.


https://twitter.com/emmaikumeh/status/1728465822824178029?t=ILhxM-DIBgINLZJWytkryQ&s=19

soludo learning fast that elections are won outside the capital cities.

GloriousGbola:


soludo learning fast that elections are won outside the capital cities.

......techno-politician. Baba don start cooking for 2nd term.

BlueRayDick:

Until one day he went on abusive on my friend and that one tried to explain his way out of the issue he was raising ; he locked my friend’s shirt and was almost going to physically assault him before stopped at the die minute .

My friend left his office that day and made up his mind he was done with the nonsense . He said he got home and started thinking about his life ; a married man with wife and children at home being treated like a slave like that . Less than 2 months he got another job and resigned his appointments .

No be everybody go sacrifice their self pride for money o.

Does Davido do that to Israel? Davido wey dey carry Israel go Jacobs go buy Rolex for am. You go explain tire, Israel is living his best life and that's the end of story

TrebleChamp:
Aliko Dangote, the richest Man in Africa who has a defined Job, has had 2 divorce from 2 separate marriage. When a wife decides to leave her man (maybe for another man), she will cook up some silly reasons to justify her action....

So the women left Dangote for other men?

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Ibime:


Does Davido do that to Israel? Davido wey dey carry Israel go Jacobs go buy Rolex for am. You go explain tire, Israel is living his best life and that's the end of story

U just decided to miss the point about self pride .

No wam . Israel should look for another woman that will focus on just the money he brings to the table only .

It is well with him .

Godx:

So the women left Dangote for other men?

(You clearly saw maybe there). Dangote or the wives didn't give reason for their divorce, so you are free to guess the reason...