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BRATISLAVA:
Because he's finally preaching to men, he's being called a male feminist.

When he was demonizing women, he was a bastion of morality in these evil times we live in.

So interesting how the topic has shifted to whataboutism.

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

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immortalcrown:
You made a good attempt. Keep it up. I wish you more wisdom so you can improve in your knowledge and your teachings.

But your teaching here is biased. I mean, it is one-sided. Women use "I love you" to collect money from men. Some women use the sentence to collect transport fare and block the guy immediately. In the name of love, a boy will buy a girl an expensive model of iPhone on her birthday and she will buy him 3 boxers and 3 singlets on his own birthday. But you are here sounding as if women suffer it most.

Women equally use the term love to deceive men. Apart from prostitutes and victims of rape, every woman that gives a man her body willingly do it as her own demonstration of love, and every man that goes to a woman for sex do it as his own demonstration of love for the woman. So, it is equal here.

The perversion of love is not by men alone. As a matter of fact, women do it more than men. The only reason men foolishly train girls in universities or establish the girls in business and the girls later dump the men is because the women assured the men love. How many women have invested their resources in the men that claim to love those women and the men ended up dumping the women? Answer this question. All the women who commit paternity fraud use love as a tool for it. They give their husbands fake love and profess love the boyfriends or sugar daddies that impregnate them. And when you call for DNA tests, people silence you in the name of love. They will tell you to love you wife by trusting her.

So, if you want to talk about the perversion of love, do not focus only on men because the other gender is also guilty.

Advancedman:
It's ladies that wants to hear 'i love you' simple

Anny69:
The next "I love you" that comes out of my mouth to any man just know I will suck you dry! You'll regret ever meeting me. So you should stay in your lane.

immortalcrown:
You made a good attempt. Keep it up. I wish you more wisdom so you can improve in your knowledge and your teachings.

But your teaching here is biased. I mean, it is one-sided. Women use "I love you" to collect money from men. Some women use the sentence to collect transport fare and block the guy immediately. In the name of love, a boy will buy a girl an expensive model of iPhone on her birthday and she will buy him 3 boxers and 3 singlets on his own birthday. But you are here sounding as if women suffer it most.

Women equally use the term love to deceive men. Apart from prostitutes and victims of rape, every woman that gives a man her body willingly do it as her own demonstration of love, and every man that goes to a woman for sex do it as his own demonstration of love for the woman. So, it is equal here.

The perversion of love is not by men alone. As a matter of fact, women do it more than men. The only reason men foolishly train girls in universities or establish the girls in business and the girls later dump the men is because the women assured the men love. How many women have invested their resources in the men that claim to love those women and the men ended up dumping the women? Answer this question. All the women who commit paternity fraud use love as a tool for it. They give their husbands fake love and profess love the boyfriends or sugar daddies that impregnate them. And when you call for DNA tests, people silence you in the name of love. They will tell you to love you wife by trusting her.

So, if you want to talk about the perversion of love, do not focus only on men because the other gender is also guilty.

iammolise:
Boy! U must've seen enough gbolaz from men... I would love to read ur story

Anny69:
The next "I love you" that comes out of my mouth to any man just know I will suck you dry! You'll regret ever meeting me. So you should stay in your lane.

Westerhoffe:
Let me have a talk with your husband.
He definitely needs to see this.

Ashirioluwa:
When it comes to deceiving in a relationship, ladies are more guilty than men.

A lady will pretend as if you’re the only man in her life, but she has at least other 5 men pounding her on daily basis.

Most men are only playing along by acting foolishly because they know these bitches aren’t faithful.

Their unfaithfulness is the main reason why most men turn them into sex objects rather than future partners.

Fiscus105:
Old trick thats "no longer workable, even with genuine love, girls would ask you...na love we want shop?"

How many girls even open leg base on love they have for guys nowadays?

My bros, its "money for hand back for ground" in 21st century ooo.

StUriah:
How about a girl I was nacking for the fun of it with no string attached and she was on top of her voice, shouting I LOVE YOU, YOU'RE SO SWEET, OH, I LOVE YOU, BABY only for her to receive a call from her fiance who kept reassuring her that he loves her.

You won't be surprised that as the guy kept saying I LOVE YOU she insisted that I should continue to pound her and increase the tempo of the vawulence while she herself kept whispering to my hearing that she loves me.

What a triangular love. Yet, it is my money that created the magical moment.

Love na joke of the century.

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==