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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by babamadiba(m): 11:14am On Dec 03, 2023
The things men do for sex that will only last a few minutes. How can you promise someone marriage just because of sex and your know in your heart that you ain't going to marry her? You are wicked sir.

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by AZControversial(m): 11:16am On Dec 03, 2023
Antoeni:
Give Up One

smiley

Very wicked question....... E hard ooo

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by AntiChristian: 11:16am On Dec 03, 2023
Padipadi:

Oloriburuku ni bobo yen. I ll nuke him now!
AntiChristian, don't you v shame?
Must you disgrace muslims here?
Lukgaf, Rashduct4luv, come and carry ya pikin called AntiChristian o!
I ll nuke him o!

Detonate the nuke! I'm sure it will first wipe off your generations first!
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Vinnie2000(m): 11:20am On Dec 03, 2023
Animegirl:
That was how one lied that lovemaking is different from fornication when we're not even married.

Lemme have money first, I will show men shege especially those Christian brothers bloody hypocrite.

Lolss, cheesy

But he is Right. 🤨🤨

Lovemaking is just Cuddling, Smooching and PRESSING things,
While Fornication is PENETRATION of the Rod into the hole. tongue tongue
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Eriokanmi: 11:20am On Dec 03, 2023
Any guy that picks annoyance anytime a girl says no sex should be seen as a fraudster in any relationship by every sensible girl. He's just looking for the opportunity to defraud her body and dump her and begins to run her down after he's had his way. When he buys or showers you with gifts, be cautious because he will use it as a point of reference and proof of his love for you, anytime you refuse him sex. Keep such gifts for the day he'd utter such a statement and throw the gift at him and call off the relationship thereafter.

No guy would want to start having sex with you before marriage, if truly he loves you. He'd definitely wait because it's a lifelong enjoyment...so, why the hurry?

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Akpaamunsi: 11:20am On Dec 03, 2023
MadamVanessa:
shocked


No man born of a woman can cross Vanessa using false marriage promises as bait grin.

If you need sex, Open up and be genuine with your intentions. when once you starts with marriage, I know immediately that you're a clown and still a baby in the game and I will play you the game till you become so useless.

I have done that to couples of men, sadly , today they're so useless . They foolishly sold every of their properties just to see Vanessa's pant. Men men men chai grin and today I am the Jezebel cheesy and I agreed totally.

And still, you are still hopelessly unmarried.
Clap for yourself

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by jcross19: 11:21am On Dec 03, 2023
Animegirl:
That was how one lied that lovemaking is different from fornication when we're not even married.

Lemme have money first, I will show men shege especially those Christian brothers bloody hypocrite.
so your wish is have money and show men shege! The money may not comes because of bad intention!

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by MetaPhysical: 11:27am On Dec 03, 2023
Interesting15:

By Sunday Akanni

I've been writing about certain tricks players use in getting women to bed. Today, let's examine The Marriage Trick

These players are aware that many ladies are desperate to get married and that they would do anything for it to come to pass. So, they positioned themselves to make the lady believe they have a long-term purpose and plan for their relationship, and that it will end with marriage. Some of them don't even mind introducing her to their family and friends (and vice versa) just to make her rest assured that they are serious. Then, they employ all manner of tactics to make the lady sleep with them, and he breaks her heart by breaking the relationship afterward.

My Counsel: In this part of the world, society has configured the minds of ladies to feel worried and inadequate if they are not in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage after they pass a certain stage.

But I want you to know that it is a sin to idolize marriage. When, in your quest for marriage, you go against God's Will, it means you are practicing idolatry, which God hates vehemently. Always remember that marriage was made for humans; not humans for marriage. In other words, you aren't meant to be inadequate simply because you are not married.

Now, I know it is not enough to just say these things without speaking along the lines of positioning yourself to attract and marry God-fearing men who will wed you without defiling the bed. Thankfully, there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honoring God with their bodies. These are men who are submitted to the LORD and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born-again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. Like I've said earlier, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born-again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be.

It is not enough to say 'I want a God-fearing man'. You must be a God-fearing woman yourself. A born-again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives carelessly anyhow and do things contrary to God's Will. Hence, to attract a God-fearing born-again Christian man, you must be a genuine child of God too. It is true that God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship. Hence, after committing your life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, you must also be committed to living a life devoid of sin and iniquity, focusing on serving God in spirit and in truth. I can assure you that, God knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man who will ensure you have a joyful marriage

You reading this right now may be worried that you are getting older and still single (and seeing many of your mates are already married). But, never compromise your purity stance. God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. Perhaps you keep coming across guys who dumped you because you won't allow them to mess with your body, and you are almost fed up. Well, actually, you are facing those things because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he can to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Finally, to get a God-fearing guy easily, then you should constantly be around where they can easily notice you. Imagine a lady saying she wants a God-fearing man, but is always clubbing and partying. Get closer to God, be busy with God's works, attend church services, dress responsibly, etc.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0U2iJOobbf/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

OP, get sense!
There is no plot or scheme a man will not pull just to enter between a woman's thighs, including promises bigger than marriage.

Ralph Tresvant sang and said "I'll give you the sun, the moon and the stars that sorround us", as if he owned them. Immediately,....women started taking off their pants and offering them to him.

Get sense my brother. You hear me?

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Eriokanmi: 11:28am On Dec 03, 2023
Padipadi:

It's actually dubious and fraudulent for some guys to do that. If you wan fûck, be patient. Marry the girl first & open bulala on her for life. To fûck sef dey taya married people nowadays cos of stress!
E ye lu awon omolomo ni jibiti obo and you won't marry them. Eyin naa a bimo obinrin o!
You sef go born females, stop promising girls marriage in order to fûck them! There's karma!

And if it's toto that's hungrying you, go meet olosho, hook up or any pay as you go vendor!
Please tell them. If you know in your heart that you won't marry her, don't defraud her cos the law of karma no get human face oo. Why even have sex before you marry her sef? She wan run away nii? What belongs
to you would stay. Same applies to ladies defrauding guys.

Married people easily get tired of sex. At times, caressing would suffice and both couple would hit the bed and be snoring. Everything even has limit jare. When I made a comment here sometime ago that I may not touch my wife for months, some said I was impotent, lol. Wetin I don do,do and do for years which had produced promising, intelligent and God-fearing children. Na me even deflour her sef. Our priority is to raise our kids with fear of God and be happy in life as a family. When the nature calls for it, we do it.

Even food sef no dey appeal to me like dat. Once I skip my breakfast, I may not eat again until it becomes brunch. I must work and put food at the table. Sexx this sexx that, na wetin?...Gbogbo nnkan lakoko wa fun.

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by PepeXKermit: 11:31am On Dec 03, 2023
Interesting15:

By Sunday Akanni

I've been writing about certain tricks players use in getting women to bed. Today, let's examine The Marriage Trick

These players are aware that many ladies are desperate to get married and that they would do anything for it to come to pass. So, they positioned themselves to make the lady believe they have a long-term purpose and plan for their relationship, and that it will end with marriage. Some of them don't even mind introducing her to their family and friends (and vice versa) just to make her rest assured that they are serious. Then, they employ all manner of tactics to make the lady sleep with them, and he breaks her heart by breaking the relationship afterward.

My Counsel: In this part of the world, society has configured the minds of ladies to feel worried and inadequate if they are not in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage after they pass a certain stage.

But I want you to know that it is a sin to idolize marriage. When, in your quest for marriage, you go against God's Will, it means you are practicing idolatry, which God hates vehemently. Always remember that marriage was made for humans; not humans for marriage. In other words, you aren't meant to be inadequate simply because you are not married.

Now, I know it is not enough to just say these things without speaking along the lines of positioning yourself to attract and marry God-fearing men who will wed you without defiling the bed. Thankfully, there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honoring God with their bodies. These are men who are submitted to the LORD and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born-again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. Like I've said earlier, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born-again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be.

It is not enough to say 'I want a God-fearing man'. You must be a God-fearing woman yourself. A born-again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives carelessly anyhow and do things contrary to God's Will. Hence, to attract a God-fearing born-again Christian man, you must be a genuine child of God too. It is true that God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship. Hence, after committing your life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, you must also be committed to living a life devoid of sin and iniquity, focusing on serving God in spirit and in truth. I can assure you that, God knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man who will ensure you have a joyful marriage

You reading this right now may be worried that you are getting older and still single (and seeing many of your mates are already married). But, never compromise your purity stance. God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. Perhaps you keep coming across guys who dumped you because you won't allow them to mess with your body, and you are almost fed up. Well, actually, you are facing those things because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he can to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Finally, to get a God-fearing guy easily, then you should constantly be around where they can easily notice you. Imagine a lady saying she wants a God-fearing man, but is always clubbing and partying. Get closer to God, be busy with God's works, attend church services, dress responsibly, etc.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0U2iJOobbf/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

In this part of the world? Oga abi na madam, na everyehere. And its not society, its human nature!
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by KoshCAD: 11:31am On Dec 03, 2023
MadamVanessa:
shocked


No man born of a woman can cross Vanessa using false marriage promises as bait grin.

If you need sex, Open up and be genuine with your intentions. when once you starts with marriage, I know immediately that you're a clown and still a baby in the game and I will play you the game till you become so useless.

I have done that to couples of men, sadly , today they're so useless . They foolishly sold every of their properties just to see Vanessa's pant. Men men men chai grin and today I am the Jezebel cheesy and I agreed totally.
Keep fooling yourself here.

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Padipadi: 11:32am On Dec 03, 2023
AntiChristian:


Detonate the nuke! I'm sure it will first wipe off your generations first!
Chai!
I m looking for you o!
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Teymanhenry(f): 11:36am On Dec 03, 2023
If she's got more to offer then I think the guy would be the one to do everything it takes to marry her

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Angelfrost(m): 11:41am On Dec 03, 2023
Padipadi:

I gave you street advise. I fit be older than you that you are saying you are still young.
Also, you supported extra marital affairs so why are you telling me there are couples going months or years without sex?

Bro, can you point out where I supported Extra marital affairs?!! Or you don't understand my submission??!

I am simply saying going into marriage solely because of hunger or desire for sex will not end well cos after the sexual gratification, what next?!!

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by KingLander: 11:44am On Dec 03, 2023
AntiChristian:
grin
The lock 🔒 doesn't have sense to have allowed the key 🗝️ entrance without authority!

He dey una body!

Get married no matter how simple!
Simple?
The threshold begins from bank jobs. Anything less, the current Nigerian girl sees you as still suffering.
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Joy2dworldxyz: 11:44am On Dec 03, 2023
Thanks man, this is one of the best articles I have read online of late. A word they say, is enough for the wise.

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by KingLander: 11:48am On Dec 03, 2023
Teymanhenry:
If she's got more to offer then I think the guy would be the one to do everything it takes to marry her
So women that think smart like you exist.
To be honest, girls just want to marry and doing nothing pre-wedding and post-wedding. Their money is for clothes and hair.

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by happney65: 11:53am On Dec 03, 2023
Dupalmer:
Ladies pls listen. Many men are not bold enough to tell you whether you pussy is sweet or not.
The truth is that some pussies are not sweet enough to KEEP. So it will seem the guy used and dumped you. Your beauty might be good enough to be used for showcase but he isn't fulfilled inside.

Some babes are beautiful but their kitten are just there in fact it doesn't get the guys excited enough to keep permanently.

Some babes are damn ugly but their below is honey and sugar combined.

You will see a wh0re mongering girl who isn't even pretty let alone beautiful but men will be spending to get her attention.

you see those wet pussies that grip and breathe during intercourse coupled with not too big and responsive clit. They are very addictive type of poocy. Hmmmm some men can die on top of it.
If they see such they will marry her within weeks and pamper her like a baby whether she's fine or not.
These type of poocy don't keep any man:
Dry, smelly, loose poocy and unsightly discharges poocy.

Theoretically most men tell you don't marry for sex but in reality sex play a great role in choosing a life partner.

Singing "Obo yato si obo,o tun wa so wipe obo yato si obo"
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Animegirl(f): 11:55am On Dec 03, 2023
jcross19:
so your wish is have money and show men shege! The money may not comes because of bad intention!

I don't have bad intentions, Oga. I just won't tolerate nonsense from your kind.
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by BabbanBura(m): 11:57am On Dec 03, 2023
Animegirl:
That was how one lied that lovemaking is different from fornication when we're not even married.

Lemme have money first, I will show men shege especially those Christian brothers bloody hypocrite.

Goodluck with that madam pepper!
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Padipadi: 12:01pm On Dec 03, 2023
Angelfrost:


Bro, can you point out where I supported Extra marital affairs?!! Or you don't understand my submission??!

I am simply saying going into marriage solely because of hunger or desire for sex will not end well cos after the sexual gratification, what next?!!
I kuku understand you. Where else can you get constant sex except inside marriage?
Suggest!
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Expanse2020(m): 12:07pm On Dec 03, 2023
MadamVanessa:
shocked


No man born of a woman can cross Vanessa using false marriage promises as bait grin.

If you need sex, Open up and be genuine with your intentions. when once you starts with marriage, I know immediately that you're a clown and still a baby in the game and I will play you the game till you become so useless.

I have done that to couples of men, sadly , today they're so useless . They foolishly sold every of their properties just to see Vanessa's pant. Men men men chai grin and today I am the Jezebel cheesy and I agreed totally.
Dey play
With that multiple body counts
Even [b]padipadi[/b]wey dey recieved douch time to time no get body counts reach u, he no fit vouch for u
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Theweekend: 12:18pm On Dec 03, 2023
Expanse2020:

Dey play
With that multiple body counts
Even [b]padipadi[/b]wey dey recieved douch time to time no get body counts reach u, he no fit vouch for u
grin
Expanse2020:

Dey play
With that multiple body counts
Even [b]padipadi[/b]wey dey recieved douch time to time no get body counts reach u, he no fit vouch for u

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Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Sleekfingers: 12:22pm On Dec 03, 2023
A player using marriage as a way to have sex with a woman is not a real player at all.
To get under a woman's skirt is the easiest, without using that dumb marriage strategy.
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by donem: 12:26pm On Dec 03, 2023
Antoeni:
Give Up One
Lol all 4 are essential, but if it's a must I prefer to give up Sexx
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Expanse2020(m): 12:27pm On Dec 03, 2023
Padipadi:

It's actually dubious and fraudulent for some guys to do that. If you wan fûck, be patient. Marry the girl first & open bulala on her for life. To fûck sef dey taya married people nowadays cos of stress!
E ye lu awon omolomo ni jibiti obo and you won't marry them. Eyin naa a bimo obinrin o!
You sef go born females, stop promising girls marriage in order to fûck them! There's karma!

And if it's toto that's hungrying you, go meet olosho, hook up or any pay as you go vendor!
you actually talk sense small today I must commend you my boi.
But when a girl or lady is raised well no boy will jilt him..it because society have turn upside down that a virgin cannot come out and be proud rather people like Vennesa, ladyJ, Manna grilled and others would come out to attack her on the internet talk-less of on the Street.
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by mbaise1000: 12:30pm On Dec 03, 2023
MadamVanessa:
shocked


No man born of a woman can cross Vanessa using false marriage promises as bait grin.

If you need sex, Open up and be genuine with your intentions. when once you starts with marriage, I know immediately that you're a clown and still a baby in the game and I will play you the game till you become so useless.

I have done that to couples of men, sadly , today they're so useless . They foolishly sold every of their properties just to see Vanessa's pant. Men men men chai grin and today I am the Jezebel cheesy and I agreed totally.
St least you agreed that they can enter Vanessa by other tactics or means, would have been better if you said you are still a virgin and trully you are a virgin, that would have been something to be proud of in this wicked times, it should not be about the method used to succeed with the sin, if you give it up willingly, it's still sin, so maglfam Vanessa, God is not stupid and His children should not be, if you are still unmarried, the best advlvice from the poster is that like attracts like.
I wish you the best
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by Padipadi: 12:31pm On Dec 03, 2023
Expanse2020:
you actually talk sense small today I must commend you my boi.
But when a girl or lady is raised well no boy will jilt him..it because society have turn upside down that a virgin cannot come out and be proud rather people like Vennesa, ladyJ, Manna grilled and others would come out to attack her on the internet talk-less of on the Street.
Thank you. 😂 As a sign of love, open ya mouth and take one nuke!
It's to blow up any dysfunctional organ in you. 🚀
Re: When A Guy Promised You Marriage Just Because Of Sex by 10thTenthMan: 12:35pm On Dec 03, 2023
Antoeni:
Give Up One

Interestingly I can give up

Sex.
The Internet.

Sex is the easiest to give up. It doesn’t affect how you relate with people or reduce the potential of getting other comforts.

You need money to buy, sell, move about. Goods and services generally.

You need the internet to function a lot these days. Even though you can decide to live off grid.

I can with various levels of discomfort give these two up.

Maybe someday this will be a topic that people will contribute their opinions to.

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