Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. - Travel (3)

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Agunesinjaweola: 2:37pm On Dec 22, 2023

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

Correct explanation

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by namedo: 2:40pm On Dec 22, 2023

Then what qualifies it for a table?

Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by CJStarz: 2:41pm On Dec 22, 2023

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

Typical Mbaise logic😂
I like that

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Faruq987: 2:41pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Abroad husband sends money home too

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by maasoap(m): 2:45pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Equally blame the longer throats of girls and their families too

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Thomasankara(m): 2:45pm On Dec 22, 2023

[/color]cos the gal is not attune to anything called reality, she prefers to wander in fool's paradise[color=#770077]

Serendipity2023:
Why deceive the girl?

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:46pm On Dec 22, 2023

Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

E dey shake abi 🤣

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by kpukpuyenke(m): 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2023

mbaise1000:
Are you sure the girl was deceived? What will you call a girl who decides to marry someone she hasn't met before? Tell me sincerely what you think she is thinking in making that decision? BTW I am not saying it's good for anyone to deceive anyone but, this goes both ways, I believe that the greatest and most important consideration in making a marriage choice should be love, as you can see here neither the man abroad nor the girl at home cared about that, so my point is, why blame ONLY the man?

Bros you are wise

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Thomasankara(m): 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2023

[/color]so are you implying that ladies are not capable of thinking straight, unless some codes of information are handed to them like a programmed robot? I still have female friends that still have their sanity intact though,no matter the situation they pass through, I don't know about you. [color=#770077]

Serendipity2023:
Let the girl know the truth first

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by RepoMan007: 2:54pm On Dec 22, 2023

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Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

table has been grinded into powder and is used for make up.

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Available9: 2:57pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

The consequences of a greedy young girl and are family

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by mbaise1000: 2:58pm On Dec 22, 2023

kpukpuyenke:
Bros you are wise

Thank you chief

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by mbaise1000: 3:00pm On Dec 22, 2023

CJStarz:
Typical Mbaise logic😂
I like that

Haa, na so you you wan see the thing?

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by CJStarz: 3:02pm On Dec 22, 2023

mbaise1000:
Haa, na so you you wan see the thing?

They're intellectually smart people.
They often make valid points 💪

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 3:06pm On Dec 22, 2023

lonelydora:
Nna, I feel like tagging two babes that I know.

Please do! undecided

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by jessylaurel(f): 3:20pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

That's is why when Nigeria women go to abroad and divorce their husband they call them wicked and evil and forgetting every level he has been doing g to her for many years.

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by GboyegaD(m): 3:26pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Isn't this generalizations very wrong? How many Nigerian men are abroad and how many of them do you use as your sample? If this in your sample, how many did this?

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Natbrowny: 3:29pm On Dec 22, 2023

namedo:
Then what qualifies it for a table?

The top still dey. Dey use crate of beer hold am. Table lite

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Thereishel: 3:37pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

You're very ignorant because you're in Nigeria not abroad. Visiting once a year you think it's easy as if the distance is from Lagos to Ibadan. Beside you think it's easy to file paper for someone who is not motherly and fatherly born to you. Supposing he has a wife abroad and he brings another wife that is bigamy 20 years in prison

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Eniolohunda: 4:11pm On Dec 22, 2023

Thereishel:
You're very ignorant because you're in Nigeria not abroad. Visiting once a year you think it's easy as if the distance is from Lagos to Ibadan. Beside you think it's easy to file paper for someone who is not motherly and fatherly born to you. Supposing he has a wife abroad and he brings another wife that is bigamy 20 years in prison

Wahala

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by dominique(mod): 4:20pm On Dec 22, 2023*

Back in the day, the naive girls may have been deceived that they will eventually join their husbands abroad. Nowadays they're fully aware that the husbands have abroad based families and are looking for home-based wives and they're up for it. That's what some girls are looking for sef, abroad husband that will be paying her bills while she gallivants about. This is 2023, nobody is deceiving any girl or her family into marriage to an abroad based man

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Iampromoted(m): 4:23pm On Dec 22, 2023

Thereishel:
You're very ignorant because you're in Nigeria not abroad. Visiting once a year you think it's easy as if the distance is from Lagos to Ibadan. Beside you think it's easy to file paper for someone who is not motherly and fatherly born to you. Supposing he has a wife abroad and he brings another wife that is bigamy 20 years in prison

So why get married to another lady in Nigeria if he has a wife abroad?

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by zrocky: 5:33pm On Dec 22, 2023

How is it wickedness. You that is marryinghim for paper is that not wickedness. When he take her abroadna to destory his future

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Whatisurproblem(m): 5:55pm On Dec 22, 2023

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

so she can go over there and takeover his properties and send him to street abi? Why don't you mention evil women are doing to men that take them Abroad? Or you are also a 419

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Rejouir: 6:26pm On Dec 22, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Y are you talking for someone else.

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by mbaise1000: 7:03pm On Dec 22, 2023

Whatisurproblem:
so she can go over there and takeover his properties and send him to street abi? Why don't you mention evil women are doing to men that take them Abroad? Or you are also a 419

I don't understand the point you are trying to make please

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Codes151(m): 9:13pm On Dec 22, 2023

YOU NO GET WETIN TO TYPE

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by ibinaboonline: 11:53pm On Dec 22, 2023

Nna men. I bu nwoke ka I bu nwanyi? Oyel dey ur head.

mbaise1000:
Are you sure the girl was deceived? What will you call a girl who decides to marry someone she hasn't met before? Tell me sincerely what you think she is thinking in making that decision? BTW I am not saying it's good for anyone to deceive anyone but, this goes both ways, I believe that the greatest and most important consideration in making a marriage choice should be love, as you can see here neither the man abroad nor the girl at home cared about that, so my point is, why blame ONLY the man?

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Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Whatisurproblem(m): 12:15am On Dec 23, 2023

mbaise1000:
I don't understand the point you are trying to make please

ok, research shows 80% of women taken to Abroad endup manipulative, and use the law that favor woman over there to collect the husband property and send them to the street, we have cases in recent time where victims husbands took revenge by killing thier wifes in America. I'm not in support of wasting women time over here but women have proving themselves to be dangerous specie why men are now scared to take them Abroad

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by BluntCrazeMan: 5:49am On Dec 23, 2023

Serendipity2023:
Why deceive the girl?

Deceive??
About the papers?

Or what?

Where exactly is the deceit?
Or the girl thinks papers are so easy to process?

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by mbaise1000: 11:07am On Dec 23, 2023

ibinaboonline:
Nna men. I bu nwoke ka I bu nwanyi? Oyel dey ur head.

Man I be, greetings and happy Christmas

Re: Evil Our Men Do Abroad In Connivance With Families In Nigeria. by Chigold101(m): 6:21am On Dec 24, 2023

ednut1:
This was common between 1980s to early 2000s. With the information on the internet , different legal routes to japa etc any lady what agrees to such is useless herself. So deserves no pity.

It was not common in the 80s.
Traveling abroad then was for important thing than going for hustling.
In the 90s, it was just beginning.
But in early 2000 & until now, it has become a num

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