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I posted this topic last year about my ex

https://www.nairaland.com/7496982/ex-stalking-me-wife-social#119443340

This morning I woke up to an Instagram notification that she just liked my photo.

This is someone I broke up with because of her attitude and she started raining curses on my, telling me I'll never prosper or become anything good.
Fast forward 2 years down the line, my wife is pregnant with our first child, my business is doing very well, I'm about buying my first car.

My question is why can't she move on, from time to time she'll pop up on social media trying to search for me or my wife.

I'm thinking of calling her and warning her

Call the Ex and give her sound warning or continue to ignore the MF

No need calling her over anything. She's doing that because she wants you to break the ice, even if it's for you to warn her. Thereafter, she'd try to establish communication. Don't play into her hands. Just block her everywhere on social media and maintain zero communication with her.

I wonder why you still have her on social media though, after that sort of acrimonious breakup.

ObaKlaz:
No need calling her over anything. Just block her everywhere on social media and maintain zero communication with her.

I wonder why you still have her on social media though, after that sort of acrimonious breakup.

I don't have her. She searched for me on Instagram

funkmrflexx:
I don't have her. She searched for me on Instagram

Then block her. I block certain people before they can even search and find me.

ObaKlaz:
Then block her. I block certain people before they can even search and find me.

She'll just create a new account and search for me

funkmrflexx:
She'll just create a new account and search for me

Keep blocking, sir, and see how many accounts she can create. Let wifey do the same too.

Just ignore her....

deep down she will be regretting her actions

Sorry to say this, but it seems you're relishing her subtle request for your attention.

You obviously know the answer to your questions in both threads you've created concerning this. Why haven't you done the needful?

If you're sure you want to maintain no contact with her and she keeps seeking your attention, keep blocking her. It's as simple as clicking a few buttons on your screen. She'll stop when the truth dawns on her.

If the stalking starts to become more unhealthy, then resolve to more critical measures. This isn't a difficult situation if you've really moved on from the lady, in my opinion.

Just assume she never exist and move on . She only liked your post, just one like on a post, she doesn't call, text, chat or had physical contact with you since you both broke up two years ago, she doesn't also trouble your wife, I see no problem here, you are the one creating issue where there is none from my opinion. Just move on

Don't call her.

Do her a favour by blocking her anytime she stalk you with a new acct

funkmrflexx:
I posted this topic last year about my ex

https://www.nairaland.com/7496982/ex-stalking-me-wife-social#119443340

This morning I woke up to an Instagram notification that she just liked my photo.

This is someone I broke up with because of her attitude and she started raining curses on my, telling me I'll never prosper or become anything good.
Fast forward 2 years down the line, my wife is pregnant with our first child, my business is doing very well, I'm about buying my first car.

My question is why can't she move on, from time to time she'll pop up on social media trying to search for me or my wife.

I'm thinking of calling her and warning her

Hmm if u have sense u will continue ignoring her and enjoy ur life but make sure ur wife knows everything. If ur sure She's been stalking u then she's most likely trying to come close by any means not to get u back but to bring u down any which way she can and it could get diabolical. Use ur head and protect ur new family.

funkmrflexx:
I posted this topic last year about my ex

https://www.nairaland.com/7496982/ex-stalking-me-wife-social#119443340

This morning I woke up to an Instagram notification that she just liked my photo.

This is someone I broke up with because of her attitude and she started raining curses on my, telling me I'll never prosper or become anything good.
Fast forward 2 years down the line, my wife is pregnant with our first child, my business is doing very well, I'm about buying my first car.

My question is why can't she move on, from time to time she'll pop up on social media trying to search for me or my wife.

I'm thinking of calling her and warning her

Why are you threatening by an ex liking your photo . Isn’t she a person , a human being . Just focus on you and your family .

rickleye:
Why are you threatening by an ex liking your photo . Isn’t she a person , a human being . Just focus on you and your family .

I wonder🤔

Op's story no clear at all

funkmrflexx:
She'll just create a new account and search for me

Did you ever promise her marriage?