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Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 11:10pm On Dec 27, 2023
Lordswazz:


Even the begotten son of God Almighty, Jesus, said, "The poor will always be with you." Now I know you want to be hopeful and it's good, but NOT EVERYONE WILL BE SUCCESSFUL. The only prayer you should have on your lips every day is to not be among the "poor" Jesus was referring to, and then back it up with hard work and zeal.
I pray that i will not be among the "poor" JESUS CHRIST was referring to (amen).
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by wwwtortoise(m): 12:52am On Dec 28, 2023
pansophist:


Yes. I have been saying this here for long. The immaterial are what actually matters, and material wealth are complimentary.

A wealthy woman that is not sexually satisfied will go get it from a broke boy that has dedicated his life to knacking as a calling grin

Big man will park his car to go to the ghetto to meet iya alagbo to give her better herbal medicine. Though he is rich, he needs the service of a poor woman.

Rich folks are mostly wolves, very wise within themselves, and need those lower to feel respected, and to put their wealth in the spotlight becsuse if everyone are rich, then no one is rich.

A governor that is wealthy and has access to unimaginable funds recently passed away. So time was actually his greatest wealth, and poor man has it in abundant.

Or all these rich western people that yahoo boys are exploiting becsuse they need companionship. Their big houses, money, and financial freedom could not fill the desire for love and to be loved.

Life is lived immaterially, money just makes it more interesting.



etc.


I think this is the picture Ecclesiastes 1:2 is trying to reveal if you look at it holistically.
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by wwwtortoise(m): 12:56am On Dec 28, 2023
kabanayol9:

Thanks for more enlightenment, everyone go through one stuff or the other but i think that shouldn't hinder helping a good friend.

By all means everyone should help one another. Unfortunately, the only help people recognize and appreciate is financial help.

I’m sure you understand what I am driving at.

Goodnight bruv.

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Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Kipaji: 3:12am On Dec 28, 2023
pansophist:


Yes. I have been saying this here for long. The immaterial are what actually matters, and material wealth are complimentary.

A wealthy woman that is not sexually satisfied will go get it from a broke boy that has dedicated his life to knacking as a calling grin

Big man will park his car to go to the ghetto to meet iya alagbo to give her better herbal medicine. Though he is rich, he needs the service of a poor woman.

Rich folks are mostly wolves, very wise within themselves, and need those lower to feel respected, and to put their wealth in the spotlight becsuse if everyone are rich, then no one is rich.

A governor that is wealthy and has access to unimaginable funds recently passed away. So time was actually his greatest wealth, and poor man has it in abundant.

Or all these rich western people that yahoo boys are exploiting becsuse they need companionship. Their big houses, money, and financial freedom could not fill the desire for love and to be loved.

Life is lived immaterially, money just makes it more interesting.



etc.

Thank you for the gem.
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by AfahaAbia(m): 7:44am On Dec 28, 2023
All my life i have never ever hope on any friend to succeed. I have always succeeded on my own via grace...
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by ITbomb(m): 7:45am On Dec 28, 2023
The more you continue being a leech, the more he will distance himself from you.

No matter the top you think he is, there are new challenges and he might be struggling too.

The new car you see him buy might be an attempt to get to an appointment earlier and better.

Try stop expecting anything from him and see how he will respect you the more
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Acidosis(m): 9:22am On Dec 28, 2023
kabanayol9:

I agree boss but they would have done well to speak out but not all of them.

If they speak out, you still won't believe because you think they have what you don't have.

You think you deserve help from someone who drives a big car because bike is all your can afford. You forget that the one driving a big car is also looking for help from the one using a private jet. Everyone needs help. The earlier you realise that, the saner you'll become in the long run.

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Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 9:31am On Dec 28, 2023
Acidosis:


If they speak out, you still won't believe because you think they have what you don't have.

You think you deserve help from someone who drives a big car because bike is all your can afford. You forget that the one driving a big car is also looking for help from the one using a private jet. Everyone needs help. The earlier you realise that, the saner you'll become in the long run.

I agree with you but bad as e bad that one no go say make i no fit help my friend, no matter how little....
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 9:37am On Dec 28, 2023
wwwtortoise:


By all means everyone should help one another. Unfortunately, the only help people recognize and appreciate is financial help.

I’m sure you understand what I am driving at.

Goodnight bruv.
I understand my brother, good morning.
But i still know of someone after making it bought a car for his friend to be making ends meet, that kind situation, you don't expect the friend not to be contented unless if he is the wicked and greedy type.
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Karlifate: 9:55am On Dec 28, 2023
kabanayol9:

Are you saying because money 💰 has come now, his scheduled changed, upgraded financially, he can't still be hanging with his family, girlfriend?
I can't say because he is still hanging out with me, i should be saying he is now pompous, No.

kabanayol9:

Nah women dey do that one, real men doesn't gossip, it's just for the good friend to know what he is passing through, a good friend wouldn't do so.

About castigation, i am just wondering why people changes after making it and forgetting people wey dem dey before.

The richer you become, the more your priority changes. 💯
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by davillian(m): 12:44pm On Dec 28, 2023
kabanayol9:

That is true, not every human that has a helping hand, one of guy then wey nothing don sup, we dey on talking terms, o boy as GOD bless am, my guy bone me.
But does money 💰 changes people to that extent?
I don't think it's the money , may be you dint notice

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Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 2:02pm On Dec 28, 2023
davillian:

I don't think it's the money , may be you dint notice
I think so too.

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