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Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by fascowilly(m): 8:01pm On Dec 31, 2023
Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility? undecided

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.
grin grin grin
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by babtoundey(m): 8:02pm On Dec 31, 2023
I am only interested in knowing the dialect of Yoruba she speaks. "Daddy mi o, Wole (something something) se ki mi fe? It sounds cool.

If the guy likes he can prostrate, na im own palaver be that
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by izubext007: 8:03pm On Dec 31, 2023
Don't be negative
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by linearity: 8:04pm On Dec 31, 2023
Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility? undecided

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.
Why you come dey drink Panadol for another person wahala?

Based on the statistics you have quoted, since kneeling to propose is the primary and main cause of marital problems and divorce, when it get to your turn just stand up and propose and BOOM 💥 all your potential marital problems would disappear.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by tochez24(m): 8:06pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
You're far from the truth..... 99% of the MEN don't really care about their children's marriage unless there's domestic violence♂️

They have more than enough drama already in their own homes, more reason they always come home late lol😆

If it's her mum that she called then you know there's a problem⚠️
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by MrSmithy: 8:06pm On Dec 31, 2023
Daddy will practically be the third party in there marriage and decision making...
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Eriokanmi: 8:06pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
Your guess is wrong. My wife is fondly loved by her dad. She rarely talks of her mum. He was the first person she introduced me to before her mum.

Today, we're over a decade in marriage and her dad never intervened or interfered in our marriage. I remember a time we had an issue at the early part of the marriage bothering on trying to understand each other. She called her dad that she wanted coming home but he refused. He said he must not near his house because her new home is her husband's house. The man takes me as his son
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2023
If she’s not a virgin I do hope she called her dad before she got deflowered. Let’s not be hypocrites
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Tunde835(m): 8:08pm On Dec 31, 2023
Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility? undecided

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.
Imagine having to kneel to someone you"ll basically work to death to cater for.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by CSTRR: 8:08pm On Dec 31, 2023
What bullshitt is this?

Pikin wey suppose dey girlfriend phase, you carry ring put for her hand.

Marry grown woman, una say na chew gum girls una want.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by CSTRR: 8:11pm On Dec 31, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Your guess is wrong. My wife is fondly loved by her dad. She rarely talks of her mum. He was the first person she introduced me to before her mum.

Today, we're over a decade in marriage and her dad never intervened or interfered in our marriage. I remember a time we had an issue at the early part of the marriage bothering on trying to understand each other. She called her dad that she wanted coming home but he refused. He said he must not near his house because her new home is her husband's house. The man takes me as his son
There's a big difference between been "fond of her dad", and calling her father at the point of proposal.

What's the meaning of that nonsense?
Will the father not meet the fiance later?

So if the father said No don't accept, what happens?

She would just walk away?
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Patriotic9ja(m): 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2023
tooth4tooth:
Naaah! Men are not programmed like that. The man has his own wife to worry about. She's just a daddy's girl, that all.
When matured/experienced people speak, it's easy to know. You've said it all 👏 🙌 👍
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Bluntemperor: 8:16pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
Who is this?
Please,can you tell us what is wrong in what the girl is doing?
Are you the one that is seeking Consent.please,wait when you have your children,do it the way of the World! The way Una want turn the Marriage Institutions to now, Parents should not even have a say,abi?
Omo Daddy KO,OMo ita ni!
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by luminouz(m): 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2023
Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility? undecided

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.
I will NEVER do that shiit. Nigerians copy everything but the sensible ones. How in hell does it make sense to kneel down to propose to someone you will spend your life taking care of?

Nigerian men dey fall my hand big time. I'm glad men like you still exist
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Fiscus105(m): 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
What makes it a bad sign? Colorado and monkey tail have completely turn ur head and make u reason like lunatic.


If lady leaves you for sane guy now, u would come online to wail as usual, which rational girl will like to settle down with a guy who reasons like a lunatic?
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Faposky95: 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2023
Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility? undecided

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.
Knee dan....for wetin....?!
Babe, make we arrange marry make we continue the match for life......
She no fit say no.......
Still on still, all na hustle....
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Eriokanmi: 8:20pm On Dec 31, 2023
CSTRR:
There's a big difference between been "fond of her dad", and calling her father at the point of proposal.

What's the meaning of that nonsense?
Will the father not meet the fiance later?

So if the father said No don't accept, what happens?

She would just walk away?
She na proposal call you seriously. My father in law did worst. I don't want to go into details. My daughter takes after her mum. I won't be surprised if she does same when the time is right. She tells me everything, including boys disturbing her.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by oladele239(m): 8:20pm On Dec 31, 2023
I never knelt to propose to my wife

Baddadash
Foreign culture wee ruin u pple
Men wake up!

N.B I love my wife though 💕
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:21pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
If it's the mum then you can have an issue,men don't behave like that normally. Most issues of interference are caused by women.

Traditionally men have been the one choosing partners for their daughters and most of these marriages don't normally end in divorce meaning fathers have been held making good decisions regarding the marital welfare of their daughters. When a lady holds her father in high esteem and reverence it will sso ruba off on how she see her new father figure which is the husband. Research have shown that ladies who hold their fathers in contempt are likely to hold their husbands in contempt unlike ladies who cherish their fathers.

There is more merit for that scenario that transpired than demerit. One may be inclined to think that the lady may not fully be ready to accept and stick with the man without an external influence from parents but I will beg to differ a little, though I would have expected that she accept and take him over to the father. If this scenario was coming from the mother then I would advice to thread carefully because what is in front is bigger than what is behind. Fortunately, most men don't behave like that.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Bluntemperor: 8:23pm On Dec 31, 2023
Bluntemperor:
Who is this?
Please,can you tell us what is wrong in what the girl is doing?
Are you the one that is seeking Consent.please,wait when you have your children,do it the way of the World! The way Una want turn the Marriage Institutions to now, Parents should not even have a say,abi?
Omo Daddy KO,OMo ita ni!
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by faceland: 8:24pm On Dec 31, 2023
It is red flag.
Even asked the guy to stand up if he likes.

She has no personality. Doesn't know what she wants.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by luminouz(m): 8:24pm On Dec 31, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Your guess is wrong. My wife is fondly loved by her dad. She rarely talks of her mum. He was the first person she introduced me to before her mum.

Today, we're over a decade in marriage and her dad never intervened or interfered in our marriage. I remember a time we had an issue at the early part of the marriage bothering on trying to understand each other. She called her dad that she wanted coming home but he refused. He said he must not near his house because her new home is her husband's house. The man takes me as his son
Awwwwnnnnnn....
Oya egbon, where is my gift for the New Year?
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by iamjavadem(m): 8:25pm On Dec 31, 2023
If this is true,she wouldn't have called him at all. Or the daddy would have responded by tell her to make up her mind herself. You have no clue watcha talking.
Samakus:
Since it's her dad she called, no biggie

Men have a lot on their head to start pokenosing into their children's marriage
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by farem: 8:27pm On Dec 31, 2023
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
Bad sign for a daughter to call her dad for the most important decision of her life? She is not from baby factory, you know! You don't experienced a father figure, I am sorry.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by judedwriter(m): 8:29pm On Dec 31, 2023
okito:
While the decision to marry is a personal one, it's also the most important decision you can take as a human. it can either make you or marr you, then scarr you for life.

If the young lady trusts her father so much as to seeking his input before making the commitment, I don't think it's wrong. Like they say, if you are not sure, ask.

Lastly, fathers are not usually as intrusive as mothers in their children's relationships. if the husband can treat the girl so well in the marriage to earn her trust and love, she will transfer all the love and trust from her father to her husband, and the man will enjoy her thoroughly.
Hmmmm....

In the olden days of our parents, marriage was strictly by their choices not ours.

Calling her dad before consenting can be seen as being very respectful, but marriage is more deeper than this.

You have to be fully convinced in your spirit that the person you want to spend your life with is truly your life partner.

Too many mistakes people make in the choice of life partner is because they put their 5 senses ahead of spiritual discernment.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by faceland: 8:32pm On Dec 31, 2023
Bluntemperor:
Who is this?
Please,can you tell us what is wrong in what the girl is doing?
Are you the one that is seeking Consent.please,wait when you have your children,do it the way of the World! The way Una want turn the Marriage Institutions to now, Parents should not even have a say,abi?
Omo Daddy KO,OMo ita ni!
Use your instinct. Even his friend is shocked.
I blame him for putting her on spotlight.
How can he say he is sure SHE wants to marry him when she is doing "Who Wants To Be A Millionaire" hot call.
We should have good relationship with our parent but there is something not right here.
May be she is hoping popci would say no.
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by allabig(m): 8:32pm On Dec 31, 2023
Sharp gurl.

If you make findings well .. her papa be correct guy man wey don build better rapo with her
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by evictor305: 8:33pm On Dec 31, 2023
As long as it's the dad she called and not the mom the man is safe. If it's the mother then it's a red flag already
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Freepalestine: 8:37pm On Dec 31, 2023
On their first night,if the guy makes advance the girl will be like,let me call my dad and seek permission from him...
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by Seasasa(m): 8:37pm On Dec 31, 2023
This call have a different meaning all together
Re: Moment Lady Calls Her Dad Before Accepting Her Fiance’s Marriage Proposal (vid) by FireUpNow(m):
Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though
It doesn't work that way. She could be her dad's favourite child. Fathers don't really interfer with their daughters marriages.
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