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Just few moments before we mark a new year, it is pertinent for us to eradicate this stupidity from our lives.
When we complain of entitlement mentality, it doesn't mean we are complaining about what is at stake, rather it is a means of restoring sanity and gratitude to humanity.

Giving or doing good is something that is very rare, because it takes a kind heart to release.
I have seen alot of people that has millions but can never give u 1k, even if u are dying, they will say; E NOR DEY. While we have very rare souls that can even borrow or give u their last card.
Its ONLY a fool that thinks kind people are foolish.

☆My encounter with two entitled girls yesterday and just now.

Yesterday, i decided to check on a chick which i have been having interest in for sometime now.
When i got there, what the family were eating was pitifully bad. Soup that looks like water with little or no fish, so i invited her over to my place because i bought rice amd meat for my supper.
When we got home, we ate together, u could see how she was feeling relieved on the sight of something good in her stomach.
After eating, i brought Predator and Gordon Gin + 2 glasses, she refused to take alcohol and i expected her to take predator and i open both drinks and started cooling off, immediately, she collected the predator, saying; She would take it along, i declined and asked her to use the glass because i would need the rest after sipping my gin, instantly, she said; if i refuse her the whole bottle, she won't take.
I simply said; Ok and emptied everything, after sometime, she left angrily, to me, wetin consign me and this mumu.

So today, i was at home all through and i decided to come out to eat, on my way going, i saw a teenage girl, she greeted and requested i buy candle for her. I told her no probs. that she should wait till after i finish eating. After eating, i checked her but she was not around. I proceed to my fav. spot to take a little gin b4 going to church.
After buying my stuff, i bought 2 candles, with the hope to use 1 and give her the other.
As i was chilling, she came in, to get candle o, but she saw me accidentally.
I gave her one candle, could you believe this little teenager told me, the candle is too small, that i must buy the big one before she accepts it. I simply told her; THANK U and that was all , she left when she noticed i wasn't even listening to her noise.

NOW THIS IS THE DEAL;
How can a reasonable person tell or control u on how u should help them, when we have millions of people that would say No, EVEN IN MIDST OF PLENTY?

A lot of entitlement in women are caused by guys.
Most can't approach ladies, so they use money and foolish kindness to get the cookie, little did they know; They are creating a foolish mindset in ladies.

THIS MINDSET SHOULD AND MUST STOP, IF U NOTICE ANY ENTITLEMENT IN ANYONE, SHUN IT, EVEN IF ITS #20 INVOLVED.
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THAT WAY, SANITY AND GRATITUDE WOULD BE RESTORED IN THE SOCIETY.

Thanks.
☆Wish u and your household a blissful, fruitful and Prosperous year ahead, coupled with sound health🙏

Encountering or sharing a negative stories is not my portion this Year.

Amen.

Jeon:
Encountering or sharing a negative stories is not my portion this Year.

Amen.

Lady, what is negative in correcting ills in the society?

Did u even read the post?.

MSN1:
Lady, what is negative in correcting ills in the society?
Did u even read the post?.

1, Not a lady

2, I did and I notice the ills, but nothing concern me.

If you can't keep up you cut off .

Nigerians are most likely the most entitled humans alive. See what an old friend sent after I sent him some money yesterday

Stawner16:
Nigerians are most likely the most entitled humans alive. See what an old friend sent after I sent him some money yesterday

Very pathetic.
Most people in saner climes, once they here that name, Nigeria; That is the end of reasonable conversation with u.

A lot of people won't know the doom that awaits posterity.

Jeon:
1, Not a lady

2, I did and I notice the ills, but nothing concern me.

If you can't keep up you cut off .

Shukurah Muhammed Aisha is that why you raped your sisters and mom, confess now because I have your pictures and videos. no hiding for you, Efulefu!

You're absolutely right about the importance of eradicating entitlement and fostering gratitude. Here's a breakdown of your message and some additional thoughts:

Combating Entitlement and Promoting Gratitude:

Focus on the positive: While highlighting negative experiences is important, focusing on the kind actions of others (like the "rare souls" who are generous) can be even more impactful.
Lead by example: The best way to geometry dash promote gratitude is to practice it yourself. Be thankful for what you have and show appreciation to those who help you.
Open communication: Instead of shunning someone entirely, have an open conversation about entitlement if you feel comfortable. Explain why their expectations might be unrealistic.
Your Experiences:

The first encounter: It's commendable that you helped someone in need. However, it's okay to set boundaries. If someone refuses a drink you offer, you don't have to feel obligated to give them the whole bottle.
The second encounter: It's understandable to be frustrated when someone rejects your help with conditions. However, offering help is commendable, regardless of the reaction.
Addressing the Root Cause:

Shifting societal norms: You raise an interesting point about some men using money to get attention. Encouraging healthier ways to approach relationships can help create more genuine connections.
Looking Forward:

Spreading gratitude: Let's all focus on practicing and promoting gratitude in the new year. This can create a more positive and appreciative society.
New Year's Wishes:

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I wish you and your family a happy, healthy, and prosperous new year as well!

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Your message is a reminder that kindness should be given freely, slope, and without expectations. It’s important to foster a culture of gratitude and appreciation in our interactions. Wishing you and your household a prosperous!
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rosydam:
You're absolutely right about the importance of eradicating entitlement and fostering gratitude. Here's a breakdown of your message and some additional thoughts:

Combating Entitlement and Promoting Gratitude:

Focus on the positive: While highlighting negative experiences is important, focusing on the kind actions of others (like the "rare souls" who are generous) can be even more impactful.
Lead by example: The best way to geometry dash promote gratitude is to practice it yourself. Be thankful for what you have and show appreciation to those who help you.
Open communication: Instead of shunning someone entirely, have an open conversation about entitlement if you feel comfortable. Explain why their expectations might be unrealistic.
Your Experiences: crossy road

The first encounter: It's commendable that you helped someone in need. However, it's okay to set boundaries. If someone refuses a drink you offer, you don't have to feel obligated to give them the whole bottle.
The second encounter: It's understandable to be frustrated when someone rejects your help with conditions. However, offering help is commendable, regardless of the reaction.
Addressing the Root Cause:

Shifting societal norms: You raise an interesting point about some men using money to get attention. Encouraging healthier ways to approach relationships can help create more genuine connections.
Looking Forward:

Spreading gratitude: Let's all focus on practicing and promoting gratitude in the new year. This can create a more positive and appreciative society.
New Year's Wishes:

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I wish you and your family a happy, healthy, and prosperous new year as well!

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