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DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by mymoney001(m): 12:52pm On Jan 06
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by BobFischer(m): 12:54pm On Jan 06
Boom!!!
First to comment.
Okay!!!


yeye dey smell...

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Righteousness2: 1:00pm On Jan 06
The truth is there is no way to stop these things..
Some of these things are highly Prepared in the Spiritual and poured out in the Physical.
There is always a target for things like this, but it ends affecting the Target and the Innocent..

It behoves on each and Everyone to Personally Guard himself/ Herself..

It Behoves on us to Personally Be on alert Spirtually and Physically so as not to be swayed with the wind that is Blowing..

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by thebosstrevor1: 1:15pm On Jan 06
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by obembet(f): 5:13pm On Jan 06
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Someone7(m): 5:13pm On Jan 06
Have to say I agree. Nigerians love to fake stories to jump on any new trend. Quack labs are also licking their lips now at the prospect of fleecing Nigerians of their hard earned money

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Kylekent59: 5:13pm On Jan 06
Says who?

You are a female behind a male moniker. You must be exposed.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by stano2(m): 5:13pm On Jan 06
There must be stories because all these stuffs happen for real.

Hospitals go make money sha from DNA test people.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:14pm On Jan 06
Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth

Dear Ladies,
Shey na Bobrisky advise una wan follow,
or una be ashawo before?
Talk now make Nairaland ashewo thread boys hear o,
Before dem carry una money go outside!


#BreakTheTable
We Rise!
No Cap!

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Enudapan: 5:14pm On Jan 06
Nah eh! No qualms
Loving you wife nd children is important
But being sure you are the father of your child is importanter

DNA should be made mandatory an compulsory, immediately after birth in any hospital an maternity, with price heavily subside by the federal government
Infact always be sure by yourself that you children really looks like you or your wife,

I don't really trust those that will say
"This my son just left me an my husband, and went an carried the facial looks of my grandfather" (these statement should be investigated!)

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:14pm On Jan 06
Still on this DNA matter..........


SilverNorGold:
My brother, this got me LMAO grin cheesy grin grin grin grin
Lol cheesy
No be small matter o patriot.

Btw,
We no be brother o,
We are simply WE!

Happy New Year brotherly!

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by iamJ(m): 5:14pm On Jan 06
Liked by guilty women worldwide.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by alphaRego01(m): 5:14pm On Jan 06
At de end of the day,the trend will reduce sha

Social media eh,its a virus.ask twitter

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Mayng01(m): 5:14pm On Jan 06
Weew!
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Drabeey(m): 5:15pm On Jan 06
If you ask me what I think about this mata grin


... Guys expect unknown sons and daughters soon lipsrsealed

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by TheStranger: 5:15pm On Jan 06
It should continue.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by nelxxy(m): 5:15pm On Jan 06
angry
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Bornsinner7: 5:15pm On Jan 06
If this is destroying homes then those homes ought to be destroyed..

I don't see how this would destroy the home of loyal couples...

I have just come to the realisation that over 70% of men are raising kids that are not theirs.. you can imagine the kind of fuckery and adultery going on in this world...

The trend now is most women are scum.. they are the dogs they call men

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Magldsns: 5:15pm On Jan 06
Word of advise: Do DNA test. No let DNA test you!

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by simplePOS: 5:16pm On Jan 06
Truth is bitter

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Reinaldo: 5:16pm On Jan 06
Let people get whatever information they want.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Lewisalexander(m): 5:16pm On Jan 06
Amen
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Vyzz: 5:16pm On Jan 06
That's it...
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Adeboyeobj: 5:16pm On Jan 06
mymoney001:
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️

If you suspect your wife and capable of doing DNA, fine, go for it

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by pseudonomer: 5:16pm On Jan 06
thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like


Paternity test in Nigeria is low because people don’t go for DNA test

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Prodigee: 5:16pm On Jan 06
Vagina people and their wahala again! undecided

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Teaser4(m): 5:16pm On Jan 06
Copy n paste thrash....

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