ValCon888:
I'm more shocked than Buhari at the messages your 12 year old sister is sending and receiving.

If she's still a virgin, then it's only a matter of time until she's not.

Firstly, you have to confront her to find out if any of those guys are above the age of 17 because that would be paedophilia doing such things with her.

In addition to advising her about the dangers of sex at her age, you need to find ways to chanel her energies into more meaningful engagements.

One of the reasons why she's like this is because she has lots of free time on her hands. That's why she can go see boys.

Occupy her time with numerous activities to stimulate her mind, also take away her smartphone if possible.

At the end of the day, she needs someone to seriously watch her. A disciplinarian that will be on her neck 24/7 or she will be lost to the streets.

You can't be more shocked than I am. This is a 12 year old girl?

Seems they need to teach her about STDs. There's nothing else they can do for her. What is done is done. They are all kids fooling around, so no adult to give a fight.

Was the OP a red pill crusader, or why is he hiding? As a man, safeguarder of women's bodies, vaginometer, what was he doing while all the little boys have made moves into his sister? Most men that post about women have worse in their bloodline.

fyzaila:


It's quite shocking tbh, i think the girl and her brother lack a father figure in their life because op didn't mention their dad.

this makes a lot of sense.

slimjohn2k5:
Don't fight her or shout at her
Call her n tell her u hv seen all the dirty things.
Then let her know she should always use condom n stick to one guy.

Anything pass this advise she will hide more, bring more surprises.

Never heard of a lady named Hillary

Never heard of a man named Hillary.

maureensylvia:


I get where you are coming from, but for a 12 year old?
She’s too small…we are talking about someone that’s not yet a teenager here(teenagers can be stubborn and adventurous). I’m a mother, I understand this way better.

A 12 year old is not developmentally ready to engage in sexual activity, and the potential consequences for their safety and well-being are extremely concerning. It's important to remember that even if a 12 year old says they want to have sex, they may not understand the implications.
The girl is likely vulnerable and at risk.

didi100 should have an honest and open conversation with her sister about the concerns she has.
He should come from a place of love and caring, and try to understand where her sister is coming from. It's possible that her sister is struggling with other issues or feeling neglected or unsupported.

Approaching it with empathy and compassion is really important.

This should be the duty of the mother though

But these are little boys in question.

It is well

didi100:

Thanks for the advice.I also opened her google search and say things like "moan meaning,what comes out of a boys penis,cum meaning,what styles will make a boy love me"

I'm sorry but I couldn't hold it.
LOL...

If mosdii talk now. They will ban him. . Op that girl is gone. Just go register her in one brothel let her explore this career.

Kobojunkie:
Talk to your mum about putting her on birth control immediately . If she is already sexually active, it is only a matter of time before you start hearing the worst may have happened. You have the advantage of approaching her, not as a parent but as an experienced older brother who is himself, not a virgin, and has no blinders on about these things, so take advantage of that at least, but make sure to be sensitive to the fact that she is still a 12-year old. Teach her why you would rather she not be into these things.

She needs to know why it is important for her to take care of herself. She needs to be made to see that the path she has chosen would require a lot of work on her path and you need to help her understand all that would be required to keep herself safe from infection and pregnancy and also being taken advantage of by predators out there. Please be patient and kind as you help her along so she comes to realize for herself that she is indeed not old enough for what she may already be involved with and that it is OK to quit until much later.

you want a 12 years old to be put on birth control, are you really serious?

what sort of advice is this

Jeon:
Lolz.
nah one redpill sister be this.
Their sisters are not useless like Nigerian ladies.


😁 They have morals and dicknities . Because this is what their brothers are always teaching.

Redpill show you pepper to the extent of changing your gender on Nairaland

I didn't read your post. But I find your topic interesting.

Let me read your post now.

You must be on kolos. Strong kolos. How creepy

This topic turns me on like mad, I love fucking teenagers with their tight pussies , the way dey wriggle in pain when I insert my dick into them, geez am hard already just reading this.

didi100:
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Wait, you're still wondering if she's a virgin? You're actually a gen z so you should know what kids are capable of, although it's nothing new.

I should be 12 or 13 when I opened a Facebook account back in 2015 (or was it 2017?) because I was amazed by that technology— I could easily connect with people in faraway continent. This is why I had so many black Americans as friends back then...

Girls are so wild, believe it or not! As a kid, I can't count how many times girls my age would sexually abuse me including those older than me.

My first kiss was in 2018/2019 when I was 16—17, and the way that girl kissed me (she even french kissed me or whatever they call it), showed that these girls do a lot of crazy stuff in the girls only boarding school. Let me repeat: GIRLS ARE WILD! Call me whatever you want but this is why I stay away from little girls that age before they accuse me of something ridiculous.

I remember how a 15 year old girl texted me last year and if she didn't tell me she was 15, I would never know because her texts were mature.

Look, no matter what you do; she'd never stop eating the forbidden fruit — I know you're gonna hate me for this but that's a fact. But anyway, just go ahead and tell your mom about how wild her daughter is but your sister might end up hating you, don't let that stop you... .

Try to also talk to her about this and do your best as her older brother but that won't stop her... I'm sorry but try your best... It's crazy how I'm in my 20s, very handsome, and still a virgin but my younger ones are always going wildddd .

So yes, try your best... All the best.

ParagonPrick:
This topic turns me on like mad, I love fucking teenagers with their tight pussies , the way dey wriggle in pain when I insert my dick into them, geez am hard already just reading this.

bro, she's 12? Self-control before you destroy yourself

didi100:

Thanks for the advice.I also opened her google search and say things like "moan meaning,what comes out of a boys penis,cum meaning,what styles will make a boy love me"

This is heart wrenching

I don't even know what to say, at her age I didn't even know what is called period or menstruation not to talk of sex.

I cant even read the chats finish,headache dey worry me.she is not a virgin.tell your mum right now.only you cannot handle this issue..chai

Stab your agbere of a sister and kys for fulfilling Allah work

I had to stop reading the screenshots at a point. Terrible!! Twelve years old?? How can I unsee this??

She is even saying things a mama like me can't dare say even in full adulthood. What is wrong with children of nowadays?

See, brain resetting beating first is in order. All other disciplinary actions and advice can follow, but first, flog that demon of iranu out of her. Wtf!!

didi100:

Thanks for the advice.I also opened her google search and say things like "moan meaning,what comes out of a boys penis,cum meaning,what styles will make a boy love me"

I was twelve when I learned that women give birth through the vagina. I was in JSS2 when our teacher asked us to ask our parents the meaning of 'copulation'. I didn't know the meaning of these things until much later in life. Where and how was she exposed to this kind of behaviour?? Her friends?

Please withdraw her phone immediately, withdraw her from boarding school and and ground her till further notice. See, you can't handle this alone.

yoniehuin:
■ you want a 12 years old to be put on birth control, are you really serious? what sort of advice is this

Would you rather the 12-year-old come home pregnant? Would that be more advisable?

ExudeLoveToAll:
Where you the one that had sex with the OO for the first time? How did you know he is a virgin? Those things on your shoulders aren't for fancy, use it properly

Are you sure you are OK?

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are OK?

I should ask you that , you said the OP is not a virgin where you the one that disflowered him?

ExudeLoveToAll:
■ I should ask you that , you said the OP is not a virgin where you the one that disflowered him?

Goodluck fighting OP's virginity battles for him then.

Ishilove:
I had to stop reading the screenshots at a point. Terrible!! Twelve years old?? How can I unsee this??

She is even saying things a mama like me can't dare say even in full adulthood. What is wrong with children of nowadays?

See, brain resetting beating first is in order. All other disciplinary actions and advice can follow, but first, flog that demon of iranu out of her. Wtf!!

They already spared the rod. It's too late to cane her. The best they can do is educate her about pregnancy, venereal diseases, protection, etc, so that she can go ahead with the right knowledge. She's not going to change much, but she can be more educated about her decisions. She likes the naughtiness of it currently.

Perhaps she can get through it to college or become a video vixen before then and earn good online and offline. Amber Rose and Black Chyna aren't write-offs.

Good luck to her.

didi100:
Good evening all.I'm an old member here but because of shame I created this account.This post is long,pls bear with me and read to the end.I'm 23 years old,my baby sister is 12 years.
She's in a female boarding school.We parked to our own house two years ago and my mum's secondary friend daughter is living next to us.So whenever my sister come back,she will go there and visit her.We allow her to go there as per only girl in the house and a friend is just in the next compound.
They are also some boys around that are + and - 3years her age if I am not mistaken.I and my Mom have warned her about those boys.My mom always tell her to be mindful of them because she is a female and if anything happen,she will be the one to bear the consequences.
She came back for her first term holiday,my mom gave my sister her old phone because she has some primary females friends and our female cousins too she like communicating with using my moms phone so my mom gave my sis her old phone to use.
Yesterday,I wanted to look for something in the phone.She was begging me to give her the phone and I shouted at her to open the phone.I just felt like opening the gallery which she didn't know of and I saw a picture of a boy's dick.I was surprised and confused.I scroll more.I then saw pictures of her snapping her breast and pictures of her vagina.She didn't know I saw all this.I asked her to remove all the passwords.I left her presence and went somewhere else.
Then I open the WhatsApp and saw the unbelievable.I could not believe my 12years old sister is this rotten.My mum warned her not to open Facebook but she opened.I also saw dirty chats.On the WhatsApp I saw porn related stickers and porn videos a boy sent to her.This girl was smart enough to put on disappearing messages.I must have missed some dirty acts she did.
Pls help me.I'm in the University and most of her holidays,I'm not around.I feel like a failure as the first born and senior brother.I never thought or imagine my sister will be such.I need you guys advice.No body in my family know about this except me and she will be going back to the boarding house on Sunday.I need your answers urgently.What should I do Pls matured response only. I will send screenshot of what I saw.Pls Admin,send to the front page
Modified:For the virgin part,she said her ex school.That was primary school and the boy which I know was her classmate.He should be 10 or 11 then

Oga you need to sit her down and ask questions but before the questions let her know the effect of what she's doing, let her know what might happen if she did not stop, let her realize you're having that conversation because you love her and you're scared for her future. After that is the time for questions. Her first time, what led her into it, is there a mature mind somewhere leading her on. There are many solutions in her answer.

It is good you get to know before she's pregnant. I know a girl very close to me she get pregnant at 17, it was then that her parents get to know that she's been active sexually at 10. The person that even deflower her was a big bros that everybody respected and he's been fuccing her since was 10 yrs.

illicit:
First give her 10 strokes of the cane before rehabilitation...

I am a teacher, we don't flog tho but if this is my house and this is my daughter or sister, I will flog her first before rehab because I believe that the lack of that flogging made her chose some bad decisions without thinking of the consequences or repercussions


Moderate flogging is a good way to show consequences and repercussions

loool! Keep Flogging and you'd be wasting your energy. Technically, she's a child and has no idea about what she's doing. Flogging her will make her think you are denying her something sweet. Only counseling and heavy psychological support will deliver that girl.

Omoluabi16:
loool! Keep Flogging and you'd be wasting your energy. Technically, she's a child and has no idea about what she's doing. Flogging her will make her think you are denying her something sweet. Only counseling and heavy psychological support will deliver that girl.

Yeah sure

But flog her first

E get wetin flogging dey do for brain too

omo!

Ishilove:
I had to stop reading the screenshots at a point. Terrible!! Twelve years old?? How can I unsee this??

She is even saying things a mama like me can't dare say even in full adulthood. What is wrong with children of nowadays?

See, brain resetting beating first is in order. All other disciplinary actions and advice can follow, but first, flog that demon of iranu out of her. Wtf!!

Parents, parents, and parents!. My dear, it all boils down to parenting. Think about it, when you were that age, did you even know all what that damage kid know?

My dear, it's parenting. I tell you, most of the adults you see nowadays, are the ones who give birth to these damage kids today....