Please I don't know if this my new acquired habits is normal.. Am living closed to my aunts and uncle in the town,infact the distance from my house to my uncle and one of my aunt's house is walkable..
Before I do visit them one after another mostly very Sundays evening or sometimes when I closed from work early I will drive down to my aunt's house I will spend time with her and her children like 3 to 4 hours than I go home or getting home after working i will have a Walk down to my uncle's house spend time with him and kids before and returned home have being doing this since last Year..
It was around October last year the feelings of visiting my uncle and aunties suddenly changed closing from work I will just drive home without getting in touch of any place I will tried hard to go out I can't my heart is just harden from visiting my uncle and aunties even when we are living close by ..
If I should tell you during Christmas season I didn't visited any of them ,my uncle called me to come and see him but I get it so hard to go to his house, one of my aunts called me on 25th why am i not coming to see her I quickly covered it up with some excuses..
Now my uncle is in a fight with me because I have stop going to his house ,I don't know what my aunts will be thinkig why I stopped coming to their houses.

The reason of my new attitude is unknown to me I don't really know how to deal with this ..

You stop going there. Thats the reason. It hard to start going there again

fineboynl:
You stop going there. Thats the reason. It hard to start going there again

He wants us to tell him it is a spiritual attack. Instead of him to pick up the routine of visiting them again, he decided to open a thread.

winner37:
Please I don't know if this my new acquired habits is normal.. Am living closed to my aunts and uncle in the town,infact the distance from my house to my uncle and one of my aunt's house is walkable..
Before I do visit them one after another mostly very Sundays evening or sometimes when I closed from work early I will drive down to my aunt's house I will spend time with her and her children like 3 to 4 hours than I go home or getting home after working i will have a Walk down to my uncle's house spend time with him and kids before and returned home have being doing this since last Year..
It was around October last year the feelings of visiting my uncle and aunties suddenly changed closing from work I will just drive home without getting in touch of any place I will tried hard to go out I can't my heart is just harden from visiting my uncle and aunties even when we are living close by ..
If I should tell you during Christmas season I didn't visited any of them ,my uncle called me to come and see him but I get it so hard to go to his house, one of my aunts called me on 25th why am i not coming to see her I quickly covered it up with some excuses..
Now my uncle is in a fight with me because I have stop going to his house ,I don't know what my aunts will be thinkig why I stopped coming to their houses.

The reason of my new attitude is unknown to me I don't really know how to deal with this ..

Lol. You must have picked up new friends or new habits that's why.
They sound like lovely people. Please go , explain that its not anything they have done, you are just busier now but always happy to see them. Invite them to your house too.



They ll understand

missjekyll:


Lol. You must have picked up new friends or new habits that's why.
They sound like lovely people. Please go , explain that its not anything they have done, you are just busier now but always happy to see them. Invite them to your house too.



They ll understand

I have not picked up any new friends , I don't even have any friend. I think my mind is only rooted on making money that is why I lost feelings on so many things..

At the other hand when I invited any of them they will not show up in my place and I think that has contributed for me stopping to visit them ..

They should also visit u..there is no law that says u re the only one that should visit them.


The urge to visit them has died because u have the visiting is one sided

winner37:


I have not picked up any new friends , I don't even have any friend. I think my mind is only rooted on making money that is why I lost feelings on so many things..

At the other hand when I invited any of them they will not show up in my place and I think that has contributed for me stopping to visit them ..

Make it known to them that you felt the relationship was one sided with respect to visitations. I am sure they will understand and appreciate your sincerity. However, are you okay with your uncle and aunt visiting you at will? That is a question you need to ask yourself and be sincere with the response you come up with before bringing it to them.

Where they always talking about settling down whenever you visit

Things you discussed with them might not always be interesting.

winner37:
Please I don't know if this my new acquired habits is normal.. Am living closed to my aunts and uncle in the town,infact the distance from my house to my uncle and one of my aunt's house is walkable..
Before I do visit them one after another mostly very Sundays evening or sometimes when I closed from work early I will drive down to my aunt's house I will spend time with her and her children like 3 to 4 hours than I go home or getting home after working i will have a Walk down to my uncle's house spend time with him and kids before and returned home have being doing this since last Year..
It was around October last year the feelings of visiting my uncle and aunties suddenly changed closing from work I will just drive home without getting in touch of any place I will tried hard to go out I can't my heart is just harden from visiting my uncle and aunties even when we are living close by ..
If I should tell you during Christmas season I didn't visited any of them ,my uncle called me to come and see him but I get it so hard to go to his house, one of my aunts called me on 25th why am i not coming to see her I quickly covered it up with some excuses..
Now my uncle is in a fight with me because I have stop going to his house ,I don't know what my aunts will be thinkig why I stopped coming to their houses.

The reason of my new attitude is unknown to me I don't really know how to deal with this ..

Your are on your own
Dey play, since you don't have any good excuses

Nothing wrong with you. What I guess you need to do is that you need to tell yourself to warmup to them again but this time around, the visits should be occasional. This will make them respect and value you the more.

frozen70:


Your are on your own
Dey play, since you don't have any good excuses

No excuses but I think is the best for me, it's part of maturity and self discipline

Na attack!

winner37:



No excuses but I think is the best for me, it's part of maturity and self discipline

Its alright my dear

Its your decision and no one can force you to change it